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Ill Eagle 1, may99
ISSN 1466-9005
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The Poor
To Stay Poorer
In his March budget, the Chancellor described the Married Man's Allowance as neither an allowance nor a benefit. He then stripped away the last symbolic vestige of marriage as a meaningful union. The subtext to his changes will prevent even more fathers from seeing their children and cuts directly across the green paper "Supporting Families" - page 2 col 1
Patricia
Morgan speaks to Lords
Speaking to a
Parliamentary Committee, Patricia Morgan slammed the Budget. "The Budget
reinforces, with a vengeance, the massive discrimination against married
couples. .... At any given income level, lone parents enjoy a higher living
standard, because the benefit and tax regime ignores how many mouths the
benefit must feed." - page 2 col 2
Domestic
Violence is Beneficial - says Open University
Who'd be a feminist these
days ? Feminists just recovering from Home Office Research Paper 191, showing
that women were at least as violent as men, are "decked" again by
another survey.
The Open University
reveals that domestic violence is not the negative, nasty thing we all thought
it was - especially from a women.
According to their study, being violent is considered attractive and on a par
with being assertive and aggressive. The reason given is that it "gets
things done" - (no more backchat from inferiors, one supposes). "What
the results of these studies tell us is that for women in ordinary, everyday
life violence is mostly a matter of the mundane. As participants in this study
made clear, ordinary women who behave violently seldom pose any serious threat
at all. They can be nasty, stroppy, mean and manipulative, but hardly ever will
they cause serious injury or act uncontrollably", said Ms Chappell. .
(Daily Telegraph 9/4/99). Your views please to EOC, Women's Unit and Open
University.
Australia's
Violent Women
by Lynnette Haas
Unfortunately, much
research into domestic violence (like the Australian Bureau of Statistics study
several years ago) still only questions women and ignores men and their
experiences completely, and so, unsurprisingly, conclude that only women
experience such abuse and violence.
'Husband Abuse as
Self-Defence', a paper presented by associate professor of sociology Sotirios
Sarantakos (Charles Sturtat Univ.) to the International Congress of Sociology
in Canada last year, details an ongoing study of 198 violent marriages in rural
Australia, identified 64 abused
husbands.
Through a series of
intense interviews, conducted over many years, the wife, one of the couple's
children over 16 and one of
the wife's parents (usually the mother), Sarantakos
investigated the claim that most female-male abuse is self-defence - that the
male victim physically encourages the attack. He found otherwise.
He found that the vast
majority of abusive wives admitted they did not hit their husband in
self-defence. Nor did they 'feel threatened' by the husband even after they
assaulted him and were not in need of
protection from the husband.
However, many of the major
domestic violence organisations are unconvinced by these findings. Research
says it exists, and in significant
numbers yet welfare groups, the frontline workers, say it doesn't !
Relationships Australia
executive director Ian MacDonald
accepts female-to-male abuse does occur, but sees it "at a
minuscule rate, compared with male-to-female violence that's reported to
us". He believes it's no more difficult for a man to report domestic
violence than it is for a woman, though he concedes that the sceptical response
of police can make men feel 'awkward'.
Queensland - large-scale research has been scant in
Australia's Sunshine State. In 1988 the Queensland Domestic Violence Taskforce,
researching male-female abuse, reported that 6.2% of domestic violence victims
were male.
However, one Queensland
organisation which fully supports the notion of female-male violence, the
Waterford-based Men's Rights Agency, run by husband and wife team Reg and Sue
Price, has been ridiculed as right-wing
extremist for its stance on family issues.
While government money is
available for abusive male programmes, there is nothing to help male victims.
So, nationwide, this one self-funded organisation is the only one open which is
sympathetic to abused men.
Sue Price says: "If a man comes to me with his children
in tow, trying to escape his violent wife we have nowhere to send him".
Having helped men through
various personal crises, Price is convinced many men will never report
their violent wives.
Victoria - The Victorian Injury Surveillance System
last year concluded that of 372 victims of "partner - inflicted
violence" identified by several hospitals 76.1% were female and 23.9% were
male. It further concluded: "The admission rate was 14.6% for male and 10.9%
for females, suggesting that a greater proportion of males received more severe
injuries".
Brisbane - Meeta Iyer, director of the Domestic
Violence Research Centre at Brisbane's inner-city West End, says since July
1998 out of a total of 700 or 800 help calls only five calls from
male victims seeking counselling or information. She believes those 5 calls represent the true overall incidence.
"While there is a lot
of information out there that says men find it difficult to talk about domestic
violence, I think it is the same (for women)," she says. "I believe
(this figure) is indicative of true victims of domestic violence who are
men."
But Peter, (who won't
reveal his surname) of the Men's Domestic Violence Telephone Counselling
Service emphasises that since its inception in 1996 the service has primarily
fielded calls from men "who are perpetrators of domestic violence, with
20% of incoming calls from men who say they're the aggrieved spouse".
Peter says the difference between male-to-female and female-to-male
violence is that most abused males do not fear their partner's attacks and seem to be part of a mutually violent
relationship.
The landmark study by
Strauss, Gelles and Steinmetz in the 1980's
"Behind Closed Doors: Violence
in the American Family", revealed that 49% of spouses reporting domestic abuse, admitted they were
both violent.
In the previous year 27%
of men claimed they were the sole perpetrators of violent incidents compared to 24% of women.
In instances of so-called
severe violence, 3.8% of wives were identified as victims, while 4.6% of
husbands were victims.
[This supports the UK findings that men suffer more
severe injury because women use weapons while men do not. -Ed ]
Croatia's
Appeal
On 24.4.99, our London HQ received a request from Croatia for advice on
how to set up their own organisation.
"One of the last negative examples is the 'Family Law' which was
written in co-operation between women's organisations and the Croatian Gov't
with very little participation by men." - Ivan Kasanic
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The
Poor To Stay Poorer - Official
The last symbolic vestige
of marriage as a meaningful union was stripped away in the last budget.
However, we must thank the
Chancellor of the Exchequer for clarifying the use and abuse to which the
Married Man's Allowance had become distorted over the last few decades. In his
March budget address he described the Married Man's Allowance as neither an
allowance not a benefit. Indeed, he went on to describe how it was routinely
paid to married couples with children, married couples without children as well
as couples with children but who weren't married. We must be grateful that a
cabinet packed with an inordinate number of homosexuals, not that we are
implying that the Chancellor of the Exchequer is homosexual, should be the ones
to clarify the situation.
The Chancellor outlined
his vision of a regime where all credits and State benefits were paid to women
and mothers - regardless of marital status - on a 'needs', not a
'contribution', basis. This, as we have said many times before, is the Road to
Ruin. Already, at 1994 prices, single mothers alone cost the taxpayer over £18 BILLION a year - an amount equivalent
to Britain's entire Defence Budget. !
In "Supporting
Families", the Consultation Paper issued last year on funding families in
the future, great play was made of married couples and the importance of
stability and continuity for the healthy development of children.
However, at the first
opportunity to endorse that view with real money, the Gov't has done nothing. Any increases are given across the
board and not aimed or skewed toward married families. This contradicts the
doctrines contained within "Supporting Families" and "Children
First", as it is disproportionately unfair to married couples. Single
mothers and unmarried couples already have extra allowances denied to married
couples. A token of good faith would have been to equalise the situation. In
the Budget, the Gov't also felt unable to disengage from universal Child
Benefit payments in not tapering or cutting off the benefit to wealthier
families. In effect "Cheryl and Tony Blairs" are siphoning off money from the poor. This
meant that only a smaller increase to desperate families could be given. This
cuts across the Gov't avowed intention to aim and channel benefits to the
poorest in society and limit benefits to the better-off in the upper income
bands.
We feel there may yet be
more unplanned adverse side effects of the Chancellor changes. (See Atticus,
below.) We foresee that changes in the CSA will cause an even greater incidence
of fathers being prevented from seeing their children by wilfully obstructive
mothers.
The Chancellor may yet rue
the day he failed to return to a tax system that paid allowances to married
couples via the man/husband. Since benefits became payable only to women, the
taxpayer has seen the amount spent double and double and double again - from 1
billion a year in 1976 when paid to husbands to over £8 billion pa today, when
far fewer children are being born than in '76, and benefit rates have remained
almost static.
Atticus,
Sunday Times, 14mar99, sect1 - p19;
"Gordon Brown did not
realise he had blundered in his budget ... The small print .... removed tax
relief from child maintenance payments by divorced fathers - the very people
the government wants to encourage to 'do the right thing'."
Patricia
Morgan slams Budget - speech at the
House of Lords.
Patricia Morgan's address
to the Lord's Committee for Family and Child Protection (March 10th)
opened with an unequivocal broadside on the budget proposals. "The Budget
reinforces, with a vengeance, the massive dis-crimination against married
couples". She went on to detail how the Working Family Tax Credit actually
penalises working married families who do not qualify for the CCTC (Child Care
Tax Credit) in the way that lone parents do.
Like the Family Credit
regime it replaces, no account is taken of the extra costs involved in actually
staying at home to raise children. Instead, it gives extra credit to lone
mothers to employ another person (possibly another lone mother) to care for her
children.
Married couples, she also
pointed out, were more penalised than single mothers through the Council Tax
regulations. As the country moves toward more means-tested benefits, it is
married couples who are hurt more. The withdrawal of benefits when households
begin to enjoy incomes are set at the same for the lone mothers and married
couples. The same applies to the 'savings' test criteria. In effect, this means
disqualification at only half the savings level for married couples if a per
capita basis is used.
Paradoxically, says
Patricia Morgan, while the analysis of poverty takes into account the size of
the household, the benefit and tax regime meant to alleviate poverty completely
ignores how many mouths the standard benefit must feed. The evidence suggests
that at any given income (wage) level, lone parents enjoy a higher living
standard than do married couples. This is only to be expected, given one less adult
to feed. Also, benefits are greater for lone parents than for marred couples.
It is therefore almost
idiotic to base additional support solely on how many children "and their
needs" there are in the family, and to totally ignore the plight of the
parents or adults in a same sized household. It leaves married couples less
well off, and their children actually poorer, and in greater need of financial
help.
Although Society now
places no value on mothers caring for their children at home, these women's
husbands (i.e. the one income families) actually subsidise, by the taxes they
pay, the costs involved in the creation and provision of Child Care facilities
so that single mothers can enjoy a better lifestyle than the one income family.
The
Performance & Innovation Unit
The Performance and
Innovation Unit established last year by Gov't is charged with cutting across
the boundaries of Whitehall depts and assist in joined-up government and
sensible policy making. The PIU is keen to reach out beyond Whitehall and draw
in the private sector. It is looking for volunteers for 6 - 9 month placements
to work intensively on projects.
These include Developing
Electronic Commerce in the UK; Active Ageing (improving the well-being of older
people by helping them to remain
active in paid
and unpaid work); Central Gov't role at the regional and local level;
Accountability and incentives for joined-up government (the reform of
Whitehall's accountability and incentive systems to encourage joined up policy
making and delivery); Objectives for rural economies (examining the key factors
affecting performance of Gov't policies). The PIU is seeking secondees for this
autumn. Tel. Lesley Bainsfair 0171-270-1527 or email PIU@cabinet-office-gov.uk
Suicide
Doctors
get help to spot suicidal young men, by Marie Woolf, Political Correspondent, Independent on Sunday, 21mar99, p4.
".... GPs .... are
often the first port of call for people contemplating suicide.
.... The Government is
devising strategies for high-risk groups, such as drug users and young men. In
1997, 1,759 young men between the ages of 15 and 34 killed themselves compared
to 412 women of the same age.
.... Suicide is linked to
severe depression, and areas of Britain with high unemployment, drug use and
low incomes will be targetted."
The Labour Market Supply
Division of the Department for Education and Employment, tel. 0171 533 6176,
confirmed that their "Claimant Count Data Base" figures for the years
1995, 1996, 1997 and 1998 showed three times as many males as females for age
group 18-24 unemployed for more than 12 months.
Totally ignoring their own
unemployment figures, all the Govt initiatives are to get young women into work, not young men.
________
Mankind
National Conference
for members is on Saturday
June 5 - see Page 2 of Male View.
Refreshments will be at
1.30-2pm, with the conference beginning at 2pm. It is expected to end about
5pm.
It will be informal, with
plenty of time to meet the NEC in person to chat.
"The Tournament"
pub, Old Brompton Rd., London SW5 9JU. Between Chelsea F.C. and Olympia. Earl's
Court Tube Stn. 200 yds. Owner Alan Piper, (0171 370 2449.
unpaid work); Central
Gov't role at the regional and local level; Accountability and incentives for
joined-up government (the reform of Whitehall's accountability and incentive
systems to encourage joined up policy making and delivery); Objectives for
rural economies (examining the key factors affecting performance of Gov't
policies). The PIU is seeking secondees for this autumn. Tel. Lesley Bainsfair
0171-270-1527 or email PIU@cabinet-office-gov.uk
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Editorial
The crisis
Senator Anne Cools
refers to
in her address to the
Canadian Senate
(see page 4) identical in
many countries - including
England.
In this, the first issue of
Mankind's new monthly newsletter, we
see that feminist judges in the 'developed' world represent a Fifth Column.
The illegality of the English family
courts is duplicated around the world, giving rise, not only to the name of
this newsletter, but to identically catastrophic social outcomes.
The ACFC (American
Coalition for Fathers and Children) has
concerns identical to ours. In this bulletin, the political scientist Prof. S.
Baskerville, says the US family courts are 'out of control'.
It is significant that
ManKind is moving toward an assertion of Men's human and civil rights at a time
when the same evolution is occurring in the US. This leads us in two
directions; first, the international nature of the problem, and second, the
uniform pathological outcomes produced
as shown in the social statistics from
so many countries.
Our opponents now have to
answer why the same crisis has developed simultaneously; why the numbers
of male suicide is still escalating
amongst the young; why we have the same ratio of false accusations and charges
of violence and sexual abuse; and why we continue with secret and unaccountable
courts which continually break the law.
What we need is a Sen.
Anne Cools, not just for the UK, but
for Australia, New Zealand, and all the
counties of Europe.
You can play your part in
this. Our Chairman (Robert Whiston) called for 'volunteers' to help with this
heavy workload in any way they can. My contribution is to take on the task of Editing our Newsletter.
Please help me in this by telling me if you have access to equivalent or
sympathetic organisations both here and abroad. Newsworthy items, letters and
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Lord
Irvine found
guilty
as charged
Oh, how I wish, but the
sad truth is that his only crime was to express a personal opinion and show a preference in appointing his own
confidential Adviser. Not an outrageous thought, given the sensitive nature of
the work, but outrageous enough for 'a woman with an agenda' to bring an action
- and win. To humble the nation's highest Law Administrator in a court
action, drag in a Prime Minister, Tony
Blair, (whom Lord Irvine consulted on how to make the best appointment) is
surely to take on Gov't and win. Only a woman can do this.
At "Ill Eagle"
we feel so sorry for Lord Irvine that we thought we might make him an 'Honorary
Member', with a Citation to the effect that he too has now suffered at the hands of 'gender
neutral' laws that were never intended to penalise men in this way.
Silent Women's
Unit ?
ManKind's protest letter
to the Women's Unit about its recent biased domestic violence report has been answered - but by the Home Office. The explanation given for refusing to meet a
ManKind team is that the HO "has the lead responsibility for the Gov't's
policy on domestic violence" and doesn't normally agree to such requests.
The Home Office in their letter while accepting that DV is perpetrated by both
men and women still
contends that women are "more frightened" by DV, and therefore, (they
reason,) the protection of women
as victims must remain the
priority.
Threats by men, they
assert, also frighten women, who are
more likely to be injured or seek medical help. Men are also less upset by
threats. Their letter assures ManKind
that "Gov't will develop policies to tackle domestic violence on a gender-neutral basis"
"The Beak" drawn
by James Wood.
'Jungle
Survival' 4 men
"The UK Men's
Movement is campaigning to redress what it
sees as discrimination against men in areas such as education and health". Robert Whiston, Chrm, is quoted (Sunday
Times, 28/3/99) as saying, "We are
seeing a return to Victorian times with women getting preferential treatment.
Men are no longer feeling valued enough". According to Tom Robbins'
article, the men's movement got underway with advent of Robert Bly's book in
1991. "Over the last 2 years there has been a ground swell of men's self
help". Interviewed at length, the article cites the male suicide rate of 3.7 times that of women. Dr.
Thapar-Bjorkert admits that the
"women's movement went wrong somewhere. We were talking about gender
relations but only ever discussed women".
U-Write ~~ Newsfrom the Regions.
Central
London
Mankind took to the
airwaves in a 1-hour 1-2-1 phone-in and interview on Talk Radio. Most of the
callers understood the problems faced. Some asked for advice and guidance. Many
were obvious casualties of the legal process, believing that when they went
into court they would be given a fair hearing (like in the movies -Ed). Women
also phoned. Many were sympathetic to the predicament men face. Some of course
were hostile. The Station Interviewer pressed hard on some points, but the
Mankind representative (NC member Edward Crabtree) dealt adequately with all topics and all 'spins'.
Lincolnshire
This dedicated and
determined branch daily bombard TV and the Media. GMTV recently advised viewers
to use Instamatic cameras to proves domestic violence injuries. But as the
Branch pointed out Gay Phillips of
GMTV, when a man offers them to a judge they're deemed "of no
consequence" and thrown out as evidence. She says she's always keen to
hear from viewers. [So
write.]
Stoke.
Football legend and Stoke
City manager Lou Macari's son has been found hanged. We can only imagine his
grief and suffering. The word 'condolences' seems somehow inadequate. Lou has given much to the game and it is
therefore all the more tragic that he will not now be able to pass on and share
those wonderful moments with his son
Malta.
"Male-Order" the
men's movement, in Malta's reports another year of increased activity. Not only have they achieved widespread TV
and Radio coverage but "engaged" with politicians. Malta now has a Director of Women's Rights at the Prime
Ministers Office (what nation doesn't
these days ? - Ed). Male-Order also reports that domestic violence statistics
take many turns in a country where divorce isn't really permitted. One husband
was attacked by his knife-wielding wife Simple case of domestic violence- you
might think.- wrong ! After the
attack she headed off for
the cliffs and was later found drowned.
The 'official' statistics
recorded this
as an instance of suicide
not DV.
Sheffield.
Sheffield members report
that their archdeacon has "rapped" as selfish parents who stop their children
from parents (fathers) after divorce or separation. The Venerable Stephen Lowe,
who is to become the next Bishop of Hulme (Manchester) has hit out at what he
calls the selfishness of parents who somehow think they have priority over
their children. He condemned those parents who 'act out their hatred' by
actively preventing contact. He is concerned with the rising level of mental
illness amongst the young and has called for urgent action for
the homeless.
Leicester.
Members in Leicester
succeeded, courtesy of the Leicester Mercury, in taking a sideswipe at those on
the city council who fund and support domestic violence schemes. Prominently
placed on the Readers Letter page they detailed the implications of the Home
Office report into domestic violence against men as well as women (HO paper
191) together with key elements of the earlier screened C4
"Dispatches" programme.
In the past Leicester City Council has waved
aside attempts to get domestic violence listed as both a male and female
problem. No longer can they describe male victims as "a very small
minority not meriting attention."
Somerset
County organisers have
successfully pressed the CSA to improve communication for members. After
discussions with CSA officials a dedicated "hotline" for ManKind members is in place.
Lie
Detectors Needed
In order to keep custody
of a child during divorce proceedings, French women are increasingly falsely
accusing their former husbands of sexually abusing their children.
"I lived with that,
the most heinous of accusations, for nearly one year," Philippe said.
"She falsely charged that I'd molested and raped their little girl. You
cannot imagine the devastation that brings on."
SOS-Papa (France) says it
has counted more than 200 cases similar to Philippe's. The court is obliged to
investigate once a charge is made. "We cannot know in advance that the
accusation is false," one investigator said. Until the charges are
disproved, fathers can be thrown into jail., unable to see their children for as
long as a year.
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Fathers
Movement
emerges
in the US.
Deborah
Mathis
WASHINGTON DC, DC
A surging US Men's
Movement has spawned hundreds of organizations and conferences, much
scholarship and countless Websites. As an indication of the movements growth,
men will descend upon San Francisco for an International Fatherhood Conference 31/5 to 5/6/99 [see www.internationalfathers.com ] sponsored by the
Ford Foundation, the U.S. Department of Labor, the State of California and
other mainstream institutions.
Prof. Steve Baskerville, a
political scientist, said, "It may take a while for the fatherhood
movement to take off, but I think were making great strides."
Baskerville, of Howard
University, says the movement is on two tracks: one, advocating mens rights,
the other promoting preparedness and responsibility in fatherhood. The patrons
behind these efforts for men who want to be better fathers include social
service agencies, religious groups and corporations who sponsor workshops support groups
Like many of his
colleagues and millions of men in the
movement, Baskerville was jolted into action by his own divorce.
He now channels most of
his anger into the Civil Rights arena,
alleging that Family Courts automatically favour women in divorce and child
custody cases. This, he contends, gives impetus to the movement.
"So many fathers are
being hit by this, its an epidemic," Baskerville declares. "I think
it is more than just gender bias. I think its a system of organised crime. It
is legalised child-stealing for profit and power."
[I prefer to say that the
English judges simply ignore the law. - Ed]
"The court ordered me
to stay away from my children most of the time," Baskerville, 41,
explains. "I was stripped of all custody rights and decision-making rights
under pain of incarceration. I pay about 60 percent of my income to people who
took my children.
This is the kind of shake-down racket that
"Family" courts have now become"
However, Washington, D.C.
- based American Coalition for Fathers and Children, paint a bleaker picture of
fatherless children than the self-described "growing, national Civil
Rights movement."
"People [the general
public] are unaware that fathers are having their children simply stolen
by
family courts," Baskerville says.
The US federal government
inaugurated a nationwide database (Autumn 1998) to help states collect the $50 billion ordered in Child Support each
year. States had been collecting less than one-fourth of the total owed by the
16 million parents required to pay. Most are men.
Baskerville says
Virginias Child Support Enforcement Division is pursuing 428,000 fathers for
payments. "This is absurd on the face of it," Baskerville said.
"Half a million fathers are turned into criminals."
Still, Baskerville (hot
property on the speakers circuit these days) believes the militant wing of the
fatherhood movement will soon upstage the self-improvement wing.
"I think Ive struck
a chord," Baskerville said, "and I think you have a new generation of
fathers who are outraged at the way were being treated in the courts." He
noted that the Virginia task force includes 15 women and eight men. "Some
fathers are upset about that ratio," he said.
U.S.
Statistics mirror UK experience
As many as 19.5 million
American children live apart from their fathers. Four out of 10 do not live
with their biological fathers.
Compiling statistics from
state, federal and academic reports, the ACFC also says children without
fathers at home are 10 times more likely to abuse chemical substances, nine
times more likely to end up in a state institution and 20 times more likely to
be imprisoned than others.
According to that
organization, children from fatherless homes are five times more likely to
commit suicide, 32 times more likely to run away, 20 times more likely to have
behavioural disorders, 14 times more likely to commit rape and nine times more
likely to drop out of high school.
Fourteen states and the
District of Columbia now require family court judges to act on the presumption
that joint custody is in the childs best interest. Mens rights groups say
fathers are falsely accused of sexual or physical abuse or child support
violations in order to deny them custody or visitation right.
Canadian Storm insexual assault case.
Anne C. Cools, Canada's
Senator outspoken for men's rights, launched a searing attack on feminists in
the Canadian Judiciary. Members of Canada's Senate (the Parliamentary upper
chamber) were asked why the American feminist, Catherine MacKinnon, had been allowed
to shape much of Canadian domestic and sexual assault laws.
"I speak of the
Supreme Court of Canada judgement delivered on February 25, 1999 in the case of
Regina v. Steve Brian Ewanchuk, in particular, Mdme. Justice Claire L'Heureux -
Dubé's concurring reasons for
judgement and her stinging attack on Mr. Justice John W. McClung, and his
subsequent distraught letter to a national paper.
She reminded members that
Mr. Justice McClung, heard and passed
sentence on an Alberta case involving a young woman's alleged "sexual
harassment" complaints against a prospective employer.,
"The Supreme Court's
Madame Justice Claire L'Heureux-Dubé is a well-known feminist judge. The
profound reaction of the legal community, lining up on Judge L'Heureux-Dubé's
side and ignoring the fact that her hurtful and thoroughly unnecessary words
started the battle, is a striking example of how politics has taken over the
issues surrounding sexual assault. It is clear that the feminist influence has
amounted to intimidation, posing a potential danger to the independence of the
judiciary. I deplore any attempt to use the Canadian Judicial Council as an
agent of the women's movement, through the filing of complaints against judges
whose remarks do not accord with the feminist world view. Feminists have
entrenched their ideology in the Supreme Court of Canada and have put all
contrary views beyond the pale...."
Mrs. Cools continued,
"Honourable senators, these two justices, McClung and L'Heureux-Dubé, have
dominated news reports this week. Shortly after his first letter, Mr. Justice
McClung apologized profoundly and generously to Madame Justice L'Heureux-Dubé
for his hasty letter. This apology was published on March 2 in the newspapers.
"Off with his
head," shrieked many gender feminist headlines. "Complain to the
Judicial Council," and "Remove him," shrieked others as
feminists and their supporters mobilized
citizens to Madame Justice L'Heureux-Dubé's side.
"The public has no appetite for gender feminist injustice and the public
discussion is revealing this."
"Mr. Justice McClung is a scholar of the law, a great jurist,
and a great luminary of the bench of Canada. He has upheld the law as an
instrument of justice. He has upheld parliamentary institutions as the givers of
the law and public policy, and has declined to join the current judicial
activism and certain judges' unashamed and unabashed entry into politics. He is
persona non grata with the judicial, charter, and feminist activists".
Opening the senate debate
she asked, why MacKinnon's was permitted to influence Canadian
jurisprudence, and what such a raw, gender feminist, ideological diatribe who
sought to criminalize man-woman sexual relations had to do with the Supreme Court of Canada, or with an Alberta
Superior Court judge".
She described MacKinnon,
as "a gyno-centric feminist", who postulated in her 1989 book, Toward a Feminist Theory of the State,
"that man-woman sexual relations are abhorrent because they violate women,
and that in a patriarchal society all heterosexual intercourse is rape".
MacKinnon helped craft sexual assault laws in Canada. "This gender
feminist ideology has driven much law in Canada, and consequently has driven
much injustice. It has ravaged law, justice, many careers, and many human
lives. It resulted in positions, jobs, grants, and even appointments to the
bench. It created a terrible silence as it inflicted obvious injustices on
many. It was buttressed by feminist terrorism and aggression, ready to pursue
to destruction anyone who gets in its way, while chanting its mantra that all
evil and violence are men's, and that all goodness, virtue, and truth are
women's. .
Judge L'Heureux-Dubé was
hell-bent on re-educating Judge McClung, bullying and coercing him into looking
at everything from her point of view.
"Honourable senators, as members of Parliament, we have a special role in the superintendence of the behaviour of judges and a representative role in upholding the public interest in this. I believe that radical judicial activism is a serious threat to parliamentary sovereignty and judicial independence. ...[more available on my website electromagnetism.demon.co.uk/ - Ed]
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p1
Black TV
boss 'hadn't suffered
enough'
to adopt
- Sarah Toyne and Maurice Chittenden, Sunday Times, 18july99, sect. 1 p7.
"A black television
executive and his white wife were turned down for adopting a child because
social workers claimed they had not suffered enough racial abuse.
"The couple were
stalled for more than two years by staff at a Labour council who also said
their home was too tidy and that their existing child was too normal.
"Their case has been
seized on by MPs who want to end the scandal which keeps 51,000 children in
foster care at a cost of £2 billion a year when thousands of couples are
prepared to offer them loving homes. The social security inspectorate is to
investigate whether misguided political correctness among social workers is
contributing to the problem. .... ....
"They say they were
perceived as too middle class and were told that as all mixed-race and black
children came from 'severely damaged' situations, they were all
disruptive."
This report confirms the
findings in Patricia Morgan's mar98 book "Adoption and the care of
children", pub. I.E.A. tel. 0171 799 3745. Her most startling statistic is on p9;
"The rate of trans-racial adoptions plummeted: there was a 40 per cent
decrease between 1971 and 1972
alone." This shows
how such activities can be heavily, and rapidly, influenced by fashion.
We read of the same disgraceful factors as in the family courts. "The law
is widely ignored..." (p12). The whole scene is driven by ignorance,
bigotry and fashion, as are the family courts, with ignorant so-called experts
playing the same destructive role; in this case social workers instead of court
welfare officers. "Staff specialising in adoption are rare. The result is
diminishing expertise, with decisions being made by people without relevant
training or experience, so that social workers feel that they are 'left just to
flap in the wind'." (p13) The prejudice against the normal family is
repeated.
Prof.
Betsy Stanko of Brunel University
Telephone Stanko on 01895
-203068 or 203085 for your free copy of her disgraceful Oct 98 booklet
"Taking Stock", which is sexist propaganda masquerading as research. In
view of Home Office Study No. 191, it discredits her. She will also send you
the A4 leaflet "Violence Research Programme" (VRP) which tells you
that the ESRC is giving her £3.5million of your taxpayer's money to fund
so-called "research". Further leaflets outline each of the 20
programmes she funds, using Gov't money. This is our money, and is being used
to mislead voters and legislators. The inevitable result will be rising suicide
among young men for a further fifteen years, until the crisis forces itself
upon their attention. To see why, take the opportunity to request her 1999 study
"Counting the Cost".
See also next article.
The
myths of domestic violence.
Home Office Research Study
191 on domestic violence, published in January this year, was based on
self-reporting interviews with about 10,000 men and women as part of the 1996
British Crime Survey of England and Wales. It is thus by far the most
comprehensive and reliable study of domestic violence carried out in this
country, and as such should be viewed as having authority. [Compare with the
200 people in Hackney interviewed by Stanko leading to her report stating 25%
of women being subjected to violence, headlined in the Express and elsewhere].
The Home Office study 191
found an almost equal and numerically very small culpability of 4% in couple
relationships. In a 12-month period 4% of men and 4% of women reported being assaulted by their
partner, although more women reported injury (in a ratio of two to one), and
more women were chronic victims (in a ratio of three to one). Even in the
longer term (over a life-time), 15% of men reported that they had been
assaulted by a female partner compared to 23% of women by a male partner. It is
at this point that the probability over a lifetime magically turns into the "1 in 4 women suffer domestic
violence etc. Across the Atlantic, somewhat lower but still substantial
proportions of male victims were reported in the latest 1998 National Violence
against Women Survey. Despite this being aimed principally at women as victims,
the Survey still found 835,000 male victims of domestic abuse, compared to 1.5
million women (physical or sexual abuse), a proportion of about 36% male
victims. ....
The results of the study
191 are repeatedly being brushed aside. We reported in June that Jack Straw,
Home Secretary, said; ".... domestic violence is men beating women".
Another example of where survey is ignored is Consultation
Paper on Contact between Children and Violent Parents (May99)
published by the Children Act Sub-committee to the Advisory Board for Family
Law.
For further information
and booklets on domestic violence contact; Dewar Research, Constables, Windsor Rd., Ascot, SL5 7LF.
Fathers
to face new threat to "contact".
New proposals to restrict
still further the chances of fathers seeing their children after divorce have
been published by the Lord Chancellor's Dept. Overall control is in the hands
of the long titled "Children Act Sub-Committee of the Advisory Board on Family Law". The
Advisory Board was set up after the Family Law Act 1996 to monitor its
implementation but is also responsible for monitoring the Children Act 1989.
We immediately contacted
the Chairman of the Children Act Sub-Committee and our Chairman writes; "I
have received a reply from Mr Justice Wall [Chairman] welcoming our interest in Contact
between children and violent parents (CBCAVP). Wall has indicated
that he would be pleased to hear comments from both individual ManKind members
and collectively.
The proposals suggest
introducing New Zealand's 1993 method of allegations of violence by one parent
to create a barrier for contact. In a country of only about 10,000 divorces
there are 7,000 "protection orders". Enquires in New Zealand show
that since its inception the legal aid bill has risen fro $20m to an expected
$100m this year.
Among the many
contributors to "Contact between children and violent parents" is a
summary by a NZ judge on the merits and working of the regime. Responses from
New Zealand men paint a more jaundiced picture. Other contributors to the
CBCAVP include Brenda Hoggett, a.k.a. Mrs Justice Hale.
We are well placed to
counter any untoward influences if we act now. The closing date is Nov 1st.
For your copy, telephone 0171- 210-0642 and ask for "A consultation paper on Contact between children and
violent parents." The extent of its reforms and lack of
safeguards for men will shock you. To convey your views and opinions please
write to: Mr Justice Wall, Royal Courts of Justice, Strand, London WC2. If you would like to participate in contributing to
ManKind's official response (which has to be delivered by Nov 1st) contact our
London Office at Suite 367
p2
Suicide
Prevention Effort Launched in America
- by Laura Meckler, A.P.
"Suicide is the
eighth leading cause of death in the United States, claiming about 30,000 lives
in 1997, compared with 19,000 homicides". In Washington DC the surgeon
general today declared suicide a serious public health threat for the first
time, launching an effort to educate school counselors, parents and even
hairdressers on how to spot signs of trouble.
"This is a national tragedy and a public health problem
demanding national leadership,'' said Tipper Gore, the vice president's wife,
an advocate for mental health issues. "Let's talk about the reality of
suicide in our national life,'' she said, "Let's encourage all Americans
to get the help they need.'' She joined Surgeon General David Satcher in
releasing a "call to action.'' "We must act now,'' Satcher said in
his report. In 1980 there were 20,489 male victims as opposed to 6,363 female
victims. The numbers in 1996 were
24,980 male victims and 5,899 female victims. The number of annual male victims
increased by 449 lower the time frame, that of the annual female victims
decreased by 464 over the same interval.
It seems that whatever is being done to decrease the risk of suicide for
women is working extremely well, in spite of the large increases in the number
of women in poverty due to the escalating divorce rate. However, what works well for women appears
to have the opposite effect on men at ten times the numbers. As to the 19,000
annual victims of homicide, the vast majority of those too are male.
British
men fear to touch children - Richard Reeves and Martin Bright, The
Observer, 25july99, p6
"....based on
interviews with 1,000 men.... Such is the obsession with, and fear of,
paedophilia in the UK that advertisers are being warned off using images of men
with children. .... ....
"Adrienne Burgess,
...., said the report confirmed the British 'obsession' with child abuse.
"'The impact of some
feminist critiques in the early 1960s, which said all men were rapists, was
greater here than elsewhere. .... which makes it seem abnormal when a man does
touch a child, sometimes even his own. ....'"
Domestic
Violence
Some of the best research
into domestic violence is by Dr. Malcolm George, of Queen Mary College, London.
His analysis of some of the grave problems
we face and the flaws in modern
research are detailed in "Beyond All Help ?" - avaialbel
from Dewar Research (£5.00).
"A Critique; Domestic Violence: a health care
issue?", (Dewar Research) outlines the flaws in the BMA
report of 1998 into domestic violence. Orders should be sent to; Dewar
Research, Constables, Windsor Rd., Ascot SL5 7LF.
Understanding
the sentencing of women
by Lindsay Jackall - Australia.
"The Home Office have
just released British Research Study 170, which deals with the discrepancy
betwen the sexes in jail and penal sanctions. It establishes beyond any doubt
that women are treated significantly
more leniently than men for the same crime.
"The difference, as
you'd suspected, is that everyone, from the judge downwards tries their hardest to find "mitigating
circumstances" [ie excuses] to let her off (this also extends to the
Media). Judges interviewed this study also candidly admit to 'feelings' that
women, especially mothers, should be treated more leniently. With mothers they
feel that any punishment given to them will be suffered by the children but
felt no such sympathy or connection for fathers with their children, who are
curiously 'blamed'. [this
mindset hasn't changed since Hanging Judge Jeffereies - Ed].
Edited by Carol Hedderman
and Loraine Gelsthorpe, it is availabel from the Home Office Research and
Statistics Directorate London.
The full text can be
downloaded at:
http://www.homeoffice.gov.uk/rds/pdfs/hors170.pdf.
"Women are not as hard, aggressive or predatory as men. They
are more sensitive of others' feelings. A woman who gets on to drink and drugs
often does so because her relationship with a man has gone wrong. The male
quest for conquest, sensation and change is more likely to cause unhappiness
than the female quest for affection, children and a stable home life." -
Judge James Pickles, "Straight from the Bench", pub. Dent 1987, p83.
Erin
Pizzey Writes
- sent in by Ted
Diggins.
"I'm appalled by the
decision to attempt to ban 'violent fathers' from seeing their children. In 30 years
working with violence-prone people, I've treated just as many violent women as
I have men. Fathers have been a political football for the past 30 years.
"There is a
politically motivated, million-pound industry, run by political extremists, who
have dedicated their lives to destroying family life in this country. The first
step on their agenda is to remove fathers from their children and the second is
to encourage women to go out to work.
"The third part of
the programme is that children should be raised by the state. Home Office
research shows that both men and women can be equally violent. When will the
judicial war against fathers come to a halt? By staying silent, men and women
in this country are condemning thousands of children to a fatherless life.
Children need both mothering and fathering to become healthy, happy, mature
adults." - Erin Pizzey, Family SOS. - Letter in the Daily Mail, 30june99,
p58, by Erin Pizzey. Sent to Ill Eagle
by Ted Diggins.
When Erin tried to publish
her research results, that 62 out of the first 100 women who came to her
pioneering refuge in Chiswick were as violent as the men they had left, she and
her co-researchers were censored. They received death threats and other threats
which led to her having police protection. In the end, for safety, she left the
country. After fifteen years in exile she has now returned, and lives at a
secret address, where I visited her. Text books on the law credit Erin's book
on her experience in founding the first women's refuge, Scream quietly or the neighbours will hear,
as having been the main factor in causing the courts to embark on a policy of
ousting fathers from their homes. This is why the later discovery by her
researchers, that her women were as violent as their menfolk, had to be censored out. This had to be suppressed in order to save the anti-man policy in our courts,
which has continued for twenty years, resulting in the collapse of marriage and
remarriage rates and the escalation of suicide among young men. Erin says that
the feminists hijacked the domestic violence industry, and all her funding, and
drove her out. They used violent threats.
- Ed.
Lynette
Burrows' book re-launched
Following hard on the
heels of her 1998 book "The Fight for
the Family, which lifted the lid on the mrky world of child abusers
Lynette Burrows has released an updated edition.
Available from FET, (Tel
01865 -556848) it develops the interrelation between apparently innocuos
pressure groups and the undisclosed network's secret agenda, involving for instance
anti-smacking, run by a few political (not to mention sexual) extremists.
Law
complaints system to close for one year
Francis Gibb, Legal
Correspondent, The Times,
23july99, p1.
".... The crisis has
reached such a pitch that members of the public are being told that their
current complaints - about high fees, mishandling of cases, bad advice and
delays - may not be dealt with for another year.
"The effective
closure of the Office for the Supervision of Solicitors .... comes with some
25,000 complaints awaiting attention. .... complaints .... are rising by 300
every week."
With 80,000 solicitors in
the country, this is far more than a backlog of three complaints per solicitor.
Those solicitors working for large companies are unable to generate complaints
from the public over their shoddy work.
Letter
to Ill Eagle.
".... 25,000 complaints awaiting attention. ...." Whereas parliament
set down that 'delay is not in the interest of children', nobody will be able
to bring and resolve any complaint against incompetent, corrupt, drunk,
deviant, or defrauding solicitors for a long time now. The self-regulating
solicitors' body (by its failure to provide an effective complaints procedure)
has closed its doors to anybody with information about solicitors whose conduct
damages children.
"It thus comes as no surprise that Lord Woolf ruled it may be
'undesirable in the interests of justice' for a McKenzie Friend to witness the
conduct of lawyers and judges in Britain's Secret Courts." - EH.
p3
Editorial
Part 2 of Masculinity has to go into this issue
because Part 1 went in the last issue. The fact that Part 2 is so good crept up
on me, and it is impracticable for it to split off from Part 1, and migrate to
its rightful place, Male View.
Another growing insight is
into the behaviour of male rulers. Two sources, L and G, have independently
told me that men divide into three groups; the rulers (5% to 10%), the
wheeler-dealers, and the grovellers. We have to concentrate on the rulers, to
try to understand why they are nonchalant about the current attack on the civil
rights of young men, and actually assist in the attack.
The story goes as follows,
and I shall embellish it later when I gain fuller understanding of it.
An important sub-class of
our male rulers resemble psychopaths more closely than they resemble normal
men. Whereas the unintelligent psychopath ends up in jail, the intelligent
psychopath becomes a ruler.
Their characteristics are
as follows. They are risk takers. They are indifferent to the effect of their actions
on others. They are driven by power. Part of their concept of power is sexual,
to have access to numerous women. They have a contempt for women. Extreme
examples are Maxwell, Aitken, Goldenballs and so on. However, most of our
current male rulers, including senior judges, are also in this class. They do
not suffer from divorce as normal men do. The destruction of men by feminists
and their agents gets rid of the competition, and so they welcome it and even
collaborate.
This explains the partly
feigned incomprehension shown by our male rulers, including our judges, when
presented with the tragic impact of their policies on fathers and their
children. They see children are trophies, not as human beings. (A female judge
will screw you for sexist reasons, while a male judge will screw you and your
children for pathological reasons.) They have to fail to comprehend, or it
would be more difficult for them to connive in, or even engineer, their
destruction of men in order to reduce the competition they face for positions
of power.
Women do have empathy, but
only for other women. When feminists drive for equality, equality is not the
result. Rather, we end up with 90% women and 10% men. The few remaining men
take the top positions. The power feminists, having driven out nearly all the
men, need the small number of remaining powerful men to rule above them. For
them, power is an aphrodisiac, so like the male rulers, their motivation is not
only power (or empowerment, as
they describe it,) but also sexual. The surprising result of radical feminist
policy is not only polyandry lower down (= a woman taking control of her sexuality),
but the harem higher up.
The powerful man was
brought to power by vested interests including the feminist lobby. He knows
that, once in power, he will have to pay their price, which is to assist them
in legislating against men.
Whereas L bemoans the
stupidity of men in not defending themselves, G says that our children's main
enemy is not the feminists, but powerful men.
ManKind and Ill Eagle can
be reached at;
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Lansdowne Row,
London W1X 8HL.
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(3) The Editor, Ill Eagle,
Ivor Catt,
121 Westfields, St. Albans
AL3 4JR, England. ( 01727 864257
(4) Email :- ivorcatt@electromagnetism.demon.co.uk/
Anti-dad
ad makes me mad.
"The government's
intention of screening a TV commercial to encourage children to report their
violent fathers in cases of domestic violence .... is an outrageous and
sinister development.
"To encourage
children to report only one violent parent is highly sexist and pernicious,
especially when there is now strong evidence to show that mutual combat is the
norm in violent households. Not only does this approach deal with only half of
the problem, it diminishes further the status of fathers, both in the eyes of
children and society. It also negates the plight of those children who live
with violent mothers.
"This advertisement
uses public money to vilify men and to further confuse the emotions and
loyalties of the unfortunate children of violent parents. Why is there no
protest from children's charities?" - David Yarwood, letter in The Express, 28nov98
Why
won't they just leave men alone?
"I am becoming more and more certain that there is a national
commitment among the powers that be to diminish, demean and denigrate the male
sex in its entirety. Every time I read a newspaper, be it national or local,
...., it seems there is yet another movement, or law passed or proposed, which
hits men as hard as possible. .... men can .... be put in prison or fined huge
sums if the fail to come up with maintenance. Why is it always believed that
the man .... is actually the cause of the breakdown? Why can women act as badly
as they like ....? Do women have no responsibility at all ....? .... there is
just as much violence against men by their partners .... Women .... can .... be
capricious, spiteful, and downright dangerous .... I feel that society has
turned against men in a most devastating way .... - Heather Causnett, Yorkshire Evening Press, 6july99.
Boys'
exam results plummet
The gulf between boys' and girls' exam results continues to widen
.... 11 per cent more girls are obtaining five or more A-C grades. .... in some
parts of the country boys' results have gone into freefall. .... Martin Bright,
Observer, 20june99, p2.
GCSE
girls are sprinting away from the boys
"The gap between boys
and girls at GCSE has reached a record level, according to a new government
analysis .... The gender gap had continued to widen throughout the school
system. .... At GCSE, the gap has widened markedly since the start of the
decade .... The gulf is most evident in the top grades, with one in 30 entries
by boys awarded the coveted A* compared with almost one in 20 girls." -
John O'Leary, The Times, 4aug99,
p11.
No one spotted the problems looming
in the fine print.
- Leader, The Guardian,
2july99.
Unpublished letter to The
Guardian by Ill Eagle Ed; "Your first leader today about the CSA says; 'No
one spotted the problem looming in the fine print.'
"I heard Ros
Heppelwhite lecture to FNF AGM three months before she set up the CSA. (Her
father deserted her family when she was two years old.) I told everyone that
the CSA would self-destruct. FNF literature was full of prediction of disaster
even before the CSA was set up, with reasons given. The Guardian refused to
publish any material from Men's Organisations." Ten years later, Men's
Organisations were again excluded from the consultation process leading to the
current CSA 'reforms'.
"Will the Guardian now
publish our current analysis, and predictions of future greater disaster and
further escalation in the suicide rate among young men, to be caused by the
'reformed' CSA?" There was no reply, and the letter was not printed.
In The Sunday Telegraph, 18july99,
p10, David Bamber reported;
"Solicitors 'admit to excessive charging'. .... NatWest bank's professions unit
questioned more than 1,000 solicitors. .... only one per cent of solicitors
took up the profession because they were interested in the law. One in 10
solicitors admitted they were in the profession purely because of the financial
rewards."
Two barristers have told
me I know more about the law than they do. I am shocked by the ignorance of
lawyers, and their apathy except when it comes to taxing the case - jargon for
their fees. - Ed
Absent
Fathers
".... For too many
children today, the answer to the question .... 'And when did you last see your
father?' is 'Never'. This is the worst social problem of our time." - Daily Telegraph Leader, 27aug99.
Legal
Aid
In 1996-7 the Legal Aid Board spent £392 million on matrimonial and
divorce proceedings. The average cost to the legal aid board of ancillary
relief proceedings connected to divorce was £1,759 and the average length of
such proceedings was just over 2.5 years - Family Policy Studies Centre, Family
Briefing Paper No. 10, June 1999.
p4
Masculinity
- are men in crisis or not? Part 2 - concluding article.
by Robert Whiston
For Crick,
"Virtu", that is to say what is
proper to a man, has the following attributes; "Courage,
fortitude, audacity, skill and civic spirit - in fact a whole classical and
renaissance theory of man...." The
Shorter Oxford English Dictionary includes "valour" as essential.
Renaissance writers asked;
"Does a state have 'virtu' among its citizens or not? Are there, in a
word, citizens ?" [Citizen here means a Plebeian, male or female, with
'virtu' -Ed]. If a State had too few of these citizens, then it is doomed to a tyrannical personal rule;
but if many, then a Republic can flourish, and will prove - the by now familiar
argument - the stronger form of state." Crick (1970) then cites the Arabs and the Israelis - the Israelis
dominate because the Arabs lack citizens with Virtu.
Of
all the attributes 'civic spirit' is the least expected - it
is not manly, nor sex related - but at the same time it is seen by all writers
as an essentially male-only trait. To make more sense of "Civic
spirit", one has to read in the Middle English used in the King James's Bible
and Shakespeare. In the context of 20th century English one might say "for
the common good", but that is a lack-lustre translation.
To test whether civic
spirit is an aberrant component more befitting the Classical and Renaissance
age and associated value systems,
enquiries were recently made in
the US, asking for definitions of masculinity. The response from young men was
interesting. Despite their country's lack of classical or renaissance history,
their replies make interesting reading;
"..
tell them that men are altruistic, honourable, just, and fair-minded. That's
the difference between us and them..."
".....I
think that if the truth be known, men are honourable, generous, and fair
people. (E.g., how many rich women do
you know who have married a man who had no career or significant income ? Now reverse the genders and do the same
tally)".
"....
I think that women, especially feminists (male ones too) are less honest and
altruistic, being more interested in themselves than in others."
"......
in the political arena, women seem to do what's best for themselves first, then
come others, and then maybe, way down the list, they'll do what's right for
men, as long as it also benefits them, or at the very least, doesn't hurt
them".
"..
as for Amneus, I think that while his ideas are sound and valid, his methods
will not work in current American society.
Women run things here, despite what feminists say, and his methods are
too alienating to women for them to work.
You have to allow women to save face (pride is another big issue) and
his methods don't do that. Feminists may have shamed men into co-operating, but
I also think that men are basically really fair and just people; I don't feel
that women will act like men in this regard, so a different approach is needed,
one that allows for excuses, copping out, and saving face. Unsavoury though that might be, it's the
only way to get any co-operation from the (female) powers that be".
The above comments could
come from any man in any country in the Western world. They are universal and
archetypal.
If that is true, then one
immediately sees why Angela Philips (who gave
a keynote speech to a Home Office seminar) is so dreadfully wrong and
dangerous in her approach to 'Macho'. Her idea that school boys should "talk
about the hidden agenda of educational
failure" cuts across all natural laws of masculine cultural norms. Her
recipe for "bolstering boy's
self-esteem" is to ensure boys are able "to shine" through
"music, drama and dance".
This proposed remedy can only be damaging to the male psyche which
instinctively pushes in the opposite direction. Young men aspiring to attain
'virtu' in the Classical, Renaissance and Modern age can-not identify with "music, drama and dance" [or
nursery education, see Burgess,] as their primary outlet.
'Macho' is an essential
element of male identity. Even in the negative scenario of U.S. city gangs it
contains all the ingredients politicians need to hold a nation-state together;
honour, defence of turf, duty and loyalty. Macho implies knowingly taking risks
and accepting those risks. Risk-taking makes boys into men. Ms. Phillips
tells us that we should shy away
from "macho
attitudes" and reject "outmoded stereotypes of masculinity". But
in the 1960's that Angela Phillips and other feminists refer to Macho was not a
pejorative term. Spanish dictionaries
show it in a positive and praiseworthy light. In contrast, the Shorter Oxford
Dictionary of 1975 as well as the 1980 edition don't list macho or machismo.
Boys inevitably see
themselves as young men, and younger men have always sought acceptance and
approval by older men. Young men have thus always need a 'rite of passage' in
some form. This is crucial if we are to
attain a caring, balanced society.
Historically, jobs,
apprenticeships and even wars served as rites of passage. The average age of
our fighting 'men' (from Agincourt to D-Day to the Tet Offensive) has
consistently been 19 years of age.
Today, with no wars and no
jobs, what answers have the Social Engineers ? How are they going to 'create men' ?
For the past 15 years the
situation has deteriorated and young men have been denied their basic human
rights. Disenfranchised and de-constructed young men face the prospect of being
created and moulded according to feminist dogma. New Gov't initiatives sees
Society on the brink of launching
itself into another 15 year term of
social re-engineering. Engineering aimed at reducing lone mothers hood, teenage
pregnancies and soaring young male
suicides.
The question has to be
asked as to whether after this second 15 years, we will have learnt enough
about our mistakes to throw out the manuals and acknowledge human rights for both sexes, and return to men their
confiscated Human Rights and Civil Liberties ?
Adrienne
Burgess's reply:-
Dear Robert [Whiston],
I very much enjoyed your
essay. I love the concept of 'virtu'.
Courage, fortitude,
audacity and civic spirit ! Truly
wonderful as a definition of positive masculinity. Oh, but can't I - a woman - be that too? My father (and mother) certainly brought me
up with that spirit!
Masculinity I suppose
means 'appertaining to a man'. But
psychologists have always got themselves into a mess when they dub qualities
'masculine' or 'feminine' because they keep finding each of them in both sexes,
and often mixed in the same person. For
example, autonomy and expressiveness - or what the psychologists would have
once called 'masculinity' and 'femininity' - are qualities which often coexist,
in the most remarkable and valuable way, in the one human being - male or
female. They are not polar opposites - you can be high in both or low in both.
So cannot women, too, have 'virtu'?
I think your final
question is where it is at - with no wars, and no traditionally 'masculine'
jobs, what is to become of the male 'virtu'? The answer has to be, that new
arenas have to be identified as suitable places for men to exercise courage, fortitude, audacity and civic spirit.
This may include rediscovering areas where men's presence was once valued, but
which today have become so identified with women that some men may feel their
masculinity would be compromised if they were to enter them. For example, maybe
it's time to recall that in the early days of nursery
education, in the nineteenth century, almost all nursery school
teachers were men..
[My italics - Ed.]
I hope you will be able to
use your essay, or part of it, in ManKind. - AB
Editor comments. Column 2;
music, drama, dance (my italics).
This column; courage, fortitude, audacity
and civic spirit followed by nursery
education. With uncomprehending friends like Phillips and Burgess,
what need do our young men have for enemies! The inability of women and their
poodle-men - Boateng and the rest - having hijacked the scene, to grasp how to
enable young males to flourish is here for all to see. Also, we all know that
today, if a man really wants to go to jail, he should try teaching in a
nursery. - Ed.
Reading
List
With your help, Ill Eagle
will develop a list of recommended books. Many thanks to Edward Crabtree for
starting the list. - Ed.
p5
Railroading all
men accused of Rape
"Speaking up for
Justice" is
an interdepartmental report published in June 1998 by the Home Office (250
pages).
The General Election
manifesto of the Labour Party (pre May 1996) stated that "greater
protection will be provided for victims in rape and serious sexual offences
trials and for those subject to intimidation including witnesses". Tracking its progress, it is a rush to
justice.
Almost fortuitously, in
1996 the Ralston Edwards case (we still do not know the plaintiff's name) too
advantage of the freedom for a defendant, without legal representation, to
cross-examine his accuser extensively. In 1997 a similar set of circumstances
occurred in another rape case. In both cases it was pointed out that judges
already have wide discretion to limit the defendant's time and line of
examination if they feel it "inappropriate", and that the discretion
can be exercised at any time.
The Home Secretary, Jack
Straw, announced in June 1997 that he was setting up an
"interdepartmental" working group.
The "interdepartmental" tag gives the impression that bodies
outside Gov't would be excluded. Apart
from the Home office and related senior Whitehall dept, the Women Unit, Victim
Support, Local Gov't Association (all associated with anti-male activities in
other arenas) were included.
The interdepartmental
working group first met on 1aug97, and met monthly thereafter. The working
group, because the remit was so wide, considered it "very important to
seek opinions and views on issues that needed to be addressed
. from interested
parties and individuals". A literature review was commissioned. This was
complied by Robin Elliot (female) of the Home Office Statistical Directorate
and covered UK and overseas developments. Its findings are mentioned as being
in Annex A. However, Annex A cannot be found in the "Contents" list.
The "working
group" wrote to 84 organisations, inviting them to submit written
comments. Not one men's or fathers' group was
approached. Thus a balanced picture was impossible.
The speed, if not the
thoroughness, of the Report is exemplified by the fact that two conferences
"to test out some of the ideas" were held in Oct and Nov 1997.
Magistrates, the judiciary, the legal profession and a "wide range of non-governmental
organisations" accepted invitations. The working group later reported that
they found this dialogue most useful.
Again, men's and fathers'
groups were not invited.
The organisations
approached and who responded are set out in Annex B and are listed below:-
Rape Crisis Federation
Women's Aid Foundation
National Council for women
Child and Women Abuse
studies (University of N. London).
Women Against Rape
Cleveland Rape and Sexual
Counselling Service
Doncaster Rape and Sexual
Abuse Counselling Centre
London Rape Crisis Centre
South Essex Rape Crisis
Centre
Doncaster Rape Crisis
Milton Keynes Rape Crisis
Centre
North Staffs Rape Crisis
South Cheshire Rape Crisis
Centre
Tyneside Rape Crisis
Centre
Leicester Rape Crisis
Centre
First Net
British Assoc. of Women
Police
Female
Aggression
BBC 'Midlands Today' news
programme reported the ordeal of a Halesowen girl who was kidnapped by two
women. The girls was driven around town in the back of a car for several hours
and subjected to verbal abuse, slaps and punches. Police are still searching
for the assailants.
In the same programme, two
women employed as care workers at the Sunfield Residential Home were found
guilty at Worcs. Crown Court of a "catalogue of incidents of abuse and
violence" dating from 19995-98. The prosecution alleged that the two had
not only "kicked and punched patients", but shown spite toward them.
BBC 20/7/99
Ottawa
According to a new Canadian study, women are
just as violent to their spouses as men, and women
are almost three times more
likely to initiate violence in a
relationship. The current study, which will appear again, in the Canadian
Journal of Behavioural Science -
says that while the need to stop
violence against women is obvious, violence against men is being ignored.
"Our society seems to
harbour an implicit acceptance of women's violence as relatively
harmless," writes Marilyn Kwong, the Simon Fraser University researcher
who led this study.
"Furthermore, the
failure to acknowledge the possibility of women's violence ... jeopardises the
credibility of all theory and research directed toward ending violence against
women." But this "new" study of 705 Alberta men and women that
reported how often males hit their spouses was conducted in 1987, not 1999.
Until now, the full results have never been published.
Because it focussed on
"how often males hit their spouses", at the time it was pounced on by
feminist groups as evidence of an epidemic of violence against women.
The study shows that
roughly 10.8% of men in the survey pushed, grabbed or threw objects at their
spouses in the previous year, while 2.5% committed more severe acts, such as
choking, kicking or using a weapon. By
contrast, 12.4% of women committed acts of minor violence and 4.7% committed
severe violence.
The original Alberta study
was published in the Canadian Journal of Behavioural Science in 1989, and
although the researchers asked women the same questions as men, their answers
were never published until now [see infamous "Hackney" survey. - Ed].
Now it is to be republished in full by the same journal.
It didn't help society to
understand when the researchers, Leslie Kennedy and Dutton, said at the time
they were primarily interested in male-to-female violence. [Whether this is
true or whether they feared harassment and reprisal by women's groups a la
Straus ad Gelles is not revealed - Ed]
In the following year the
'Kennedy-Dutton study', as it became known, was cited extensively. In 1990, it
forced Brian Mulroney (the former Canadian prime minister) to call a two-year,
$10-million national inquiry into violence against women.
The inquiry's 460-page
report made 494 recommendations aimed at changing attitudes in governments,
police departments, courts, hospitals and churches. It also led to a torrent of
lurid news features about battered women. (see
Senator Cools. Ill Eagle, June 99)
Courts show teeth to wifely assassin
A wife who shot dead her husband as he slept in bed has been given a
'life' sentenced of 15 years. The jury rejected Mrs. Kim Galbraith's (30) claim
that she had endured years of sexual abuse from her policeman husband and that
she has been driven to the verge of insanity. She was found guilty of creeping
upstairs, laying down next to her sleeping husband, and shooting him at point
blank range through the back of the head with his own hunting rifle.
After she murdered her husband, she wrecked the house to make it look
like the shooting was part of a break in. She told police 2 masked burglars
broke in shoot her husband and then raped her.
Mr Galbraith's 2 year old daughter is being looked after not by his
parents - but by the parents of his
wife who is now in jail ! [In the UK all firearms have to be securely locked in a 1/4" thick steel cabinet at
all times - Ed].
Women groups are
outraged, and Dr Mairead Tagg (Glasgow psychologist) and member of Women's Aid
said they planned to campaign of Mrs Galbraith's behalf.
- Daily Telegraph 5june99
A
parody on fathers.
A young man asks his
father if he loves him. No, Dad replies. Look, son. Like most fathers over
the past 30 years, I didn't give a shit. I dumped you and your mom, ran off
with my attractive Secretary, and only
saw you because a court order said I had to. Sure, I was rich, but I paid child
support late or not at all. ... Cant you take a hint?
From What women want
pub. Virago 1996
Meaningful equality. However, this is a hopeless dream while patriarchy
is a male power and privilege which favours men's interests at every class
level throughout society - Hazel, Sheffield, p30
p6
Marriage
"is about more than just children"
Sourcehttp://www.the-times.co.uk/news/pages/Times/frontpage.html?105124
- Dominic Kennedy, The Times, June 1 1999
"MARRIAGE is good for
childless couples and ministers should stop treating it as just a useful way to
bring up children, say government advisers. In an attack on Labour's
'pro-family' agenda, a panel says that people should be encouraged to marry
even if they have no desire to become parents.
"The annual report of
the Lord Chancellor's Advisory Board on Family Law, a body that advises on
divorce policy, expresses concern that, to the Government, "the
institution of marriage is seen predominantly within the context of the welfare
of children". The board says: "Members consider that there are a
number of positive socio-economic benefits to marriage and to stable
relationships for couples who do not have children. These should not be overlooked."
The focus of their attack is the Green Paper Supporting
Families, which supports marriage on the ground that it "does
provide a strong foundation for stability for the care of children".
"Following Labour's
strategy of moving the emphasis of family values towards helping children
rather than promoting marriage, the last Budget also used the theme supporting families, and abolished the
married couple's allowance.
"The advisory board
is chaired by Sir Thomas Boyd-Carpenter, the former Deputy Chief of Defence
Staff. The members include Mr Justice Wall of the High Court Family
Division".
Dear Mr.
Justice Wall,
Children Act Sub-Committee of the Advisory Board on Family Law.
We have now had an
opportunity to review "Contact Between Children and Violent Parents"
and can detect several fundamental flaws.
We have also had time to
begin collating experiences from New Zealand fathers as to how this legislation
works in practice. The results to date are not encouraging.
Many judges in the UK
depend on Court Welfare Officers (CWO) reports when 'sentencing' children in
divorce cases. They assume the reports to be exercises in objectivity. This is
not the case. CWO's are Probation Workers who have undergone either zero or three
days of "training". As such they are not sufficiently qualified to
pass opinion in such important matters. We use the word opinion advisedly as the core of the
Probation Service, and Home Office branch responsible for it, is presently
convulsed by internal reviews and external scrutiny.
Recently in the High Court
a Chief Probation Officer conceded that his profession does not have
professional standards, benchmarks or guidelines. Also conceded was the fact
that no research is undertaken into outcomes of their opinions i.e. father custody .v. mother
custody. In addition they have no library listing preferred and essential
reading for officers. They have undertaken no investigation as to the efficacy
of, for instance shared parenting and cannot state why they are implacably
opposed to it.
The NAPO document defining
equality (which is essential reading to understand the mind set of ACPO and
CWO's) states that every effort should be made to ensure that mothers are given
custody of children because women are "always oppressed" - even when
it is obvious that they are not.
It is against this
backdrop that we are alarmed to find the Sub-Committee adopting the ACPO
definition of domestic violence.
Nowhere in NAPO or ACPO
policy statements is there a hint that violent women will also be barred from
seeing their children - or that women can be as violent (if not more so) than
men.
Nowhere in recent
newspapers stories or the Sub-Committee's paper is there a hint that violent
women will also be barred from seeing their children. And nowhere in the New
Zealand legislation is there a hint that violent women will also be barred from
seeing their children.
In fact, the presumption
in the consultation paper is that violence can only come from fathers.
We feel it is unhelpful
and unworkable to adopt the ACPO definition of domestic violence. We feel it is
a wrong to include emotional and
psychological harm or 'perceived' threats. It would then, we feel,
become a Blackmailer's Charter.
Our reasoning is that such
a test is totally subjective and would immediately bring the whole procedure
into disrepute - as has happened with Unreasonable Behaviour in the divorce
courts. The upshot would be to further politicise the subject of family life to
the advantage of anti-family activists.
Already responses from New
Zealand fathers indicate that this antipathy and contempt for the law has taken
hold.
Thus we firmly believe
that the proposals will only drag down the law's reputation while failing to
address the suppressed levels of violence perpetrated by women against men and
children (see attached).
Yours sincerely,
Robert Whiston. Chairman, UKMM.
Parents
are always in the wrong
"'He never hurt me.
It was all blown out of proportion by the social services,' said 15-year-old Georgina
Brundle, after her father had been arrested and held in a cell for six hours
following her complaint of assault. .... Mr. Brundle explained that he had
fears for his daughter's welfare when, after taking up with a black 25-year-old
American serviceman at Lakenheath air base nearby, and starting to consort with
undesirable friends among whom drugs were common, she had been absent for four
days. ....
".... the welfare
service .... took his daughter into 'care' while he was locked up in a police
cell. Care meant returning her to unsuitable friends in .... a dosshouse, from
which she emerged with a ring in her nose. She .... preferred to go back to her
family.
".... the rules they
have to apply were drawn up by mindless fanatics. Whatever a child says must be
believed. .... they have sought to transfer some of the revulsion that attaches
to a practising paedophile upon a parent who speaks roughly to his child.
...." - Auberon Waugh, Sunday Telegraph,
1aug99, p31.
The rape
reform that makes all men guilty
- Melanie Phillips, Sunday Times, 4july99, sect. 1 p17. Within
days, this article was on websites round the world.
"....There is
overwhelming evidence that women initiate domestic violence at least as much as
men. The Home Office itself has published research [jan99, study no. 191]
showing that 4.2% of men and 4.2%
of women said they had been assaulted by their current or former spouse or
lover. Shouldn't the government be launching a drive against all violence,
committed against men as well as women? ....
"The amount of
violence in marriage is small (most violence takes place between cohabitants
and lovers). ...."
Melanie's article is
packed with important, well researched statistics. Ill Eagle can supply a copy in return for a s.a.e.
melaniephillips@msn.com
Police keep back vital video in rape trial
A judge at Nottingham Crown Court demanded to know why police had failed to reveal a video that conclusively
proved a man's innocence.
The tape from a
teenager's night club showed the 16 alleged rape victim happily walking out with the 18 year old man
(who we shall not name!). She had claimed to police of him "dragging"
her forcibly out of the club, and raping her. The young man's defence lawyer
commented, "Another fascinating thing about this case was that the police
'decided she should phone the
defendant' in an attempt to incriminate him - in fact it provided more evidence
of innocence for the defence than the prosecution.
- Daily Telegraph 20/5/99.
A
legal shambles
The present anti-father
initiative will pile damage onto existing destruction. On the allied matter of
ousters, the following quotes are historic.
In Richards v Richards [1983] 2 All E.R., p811, Judge Pennant, when
evicting a husband from his home,
p7
said; "I think it is
thoroughly unjust to turn out this father, but justice no longer seems to play
a part in this branch of the law." (He felt he had to follow Samson v
Samson.) On p818, Lord Scarman said; ".... [regarding ouster orders], The
statutory provision is a hotch-potch of enactments of limited scope passed into
law to meet specific situations or to strengthen the powers of specified
courts. The sooner .... these powers .... are rationalised .... the better.
.... ....The courts have .... sought to establish a common basis of principle
in deciding whether or not to make an ouster order. They have signally
failed."
Lord Scarman also
addresses the problem that if fathers are ousted in large numbers, that might
transgress the mantra; "The interests of the children come first." He
is old fashioned enough to think that a child might need its father. Of course,
we know that there is no problem really. The mantra is always interpreted as
"The interests of the woman come first." The whole system
comprehensively ignores the interests of children, and damages them in many
ways. The reason why the myth that all men are violent is promoted so heavily
is in order to get round the mantra "the interests of the children come
first". It is clearly not in the best interests of a child to cut it off
from its father. That is why all fathers have to be criminalised, to validate
the expropriation of their homes and children in the face of the supposedly
ruling mantra.
My
son fell victim to playtime paranoia
- Anonymous, The Observer, 25july99, p6
"A fellow parent had
spotted another boy from his class examining my [four year old] son's bottom.
.... Such is the current climate .... the head teacher agreed to hold an
enquiry. .... the mortified parents of the other boy were humiliated .... My
son .... [said] .... that he had not been interfered with. Finally, the issue
was dropped.
"Months later I am
still angry over how unnecessary and upsetting the whole incident was."
Man
overboard
"MAN O MAN (Saturday ITV) is a primitive
and utterly degrading exhibition of human beings. I cannot believe men
participate in this humiliating programme.
"Imagine the national
outrage there would be if roles were reversed and ten women were chased, booed,
inspected and pushed into swimming pools by a studio audience of critical but
enthusiastic men in an attempt to find the most physically attractive." -
Lucy Pollock, Radio Times 31july/
6aug99, p122.
Scouts
facing crisis over leaders'
social
stigma
Scout groups are closing
at the rate of four a week even though an estimated 80,000 boys are waiting to
join .... A shortage of adult volunteers has created one of the worst
membership crises within the history of the Scout Association. .... the decline
will dismay officials at the Mental Health Foundation, .... lack of
opportunities .... were behind the failure of young people to thrive
emotionally. .... one in five teenagers suffers from psychological problems and
one in 10 requires professional help ....
There is a stigma attached
to being a volunteer, added Jo Tupper, a spokeswoman for the Scout Association.
"If a man says I want to work with young boys, people jump to one
conclusion. ...." - Linda Jackson, Sunday
Telegraph, 25july99, p10.
Damn
this demonising of we men
[Even a journalist or
editor with fractured grammar should not be cut off from children. - Ed]
".... if I saw that crying child, I would
not go to help. I would have to curb my instincts. ....
"It is 12 years since
more than 200 children were seized from their parents in Cleveland by ....
Higgs and .... Wyatt. .... The £4million .... Butler-Sloss inquiry cleared the
parents ..... and criticised Higgs and Wyatt. .... But in 1997 the two doctors
.... star guests at a conference called Cleveland .... continued to propound
the discredited theories of mass abuse. [Stuart Bell, the local M.P., quit his
front-bench post in order to deal with the Cleveland child abuse crisis. I
strongly recommend his book When Salem came
to the Boro, pub. Pan 1988 - Ed] .... What is the point of
demonising men and their paternal instincts to the point where decent,
well-meaning people are frightened to help their communities by teaching, or
leading Scout troops, or coaching the local under-11 football team? .... if
.... a little child has to remain frightened and alone because men don't dare
help, then that is a victory not for good, but for evil." - David Thomas, Daily Mail, 27july99.
The
best interests of the children
"That there would be
one or several books about the Cleveland child abuse crisis was inevitable.
That it should be about the families was less so. Those families .... might
give evidence to the judicial enquiry .... this evidence would be held in
private and the public would never know what .... [the parents] and their
children had endured. The decision that the families' stories should be told in
private was made in the best interests of the children, but it meant that the
public would never understand the full extent of the crisis .... The comparison
between the Cleveland crisis and the Salem witch-hunts stood out a mile.
...." - Stuart Bell M.P., When Salem
came to the Boro, pub. PAN, 1988, p353.
Cleveland Boro settled one
million pounds in damages on the victim families that they had attacked.
Parliament then rushed through immunity legislation for councils and social
workers so that the Orkney and Rochdale victim families only received a written
apology from their local councils.
So much damage is being
done in secret to our children in so many places, secrecy being in the best interests of incompetent and destructive
officials, that I believe the time has come when each and every one
of us must repudiate secrecy wherever it raises its ugly head - Ed.
".... in the darkness
of secrecy all sorts of things can go wrong. .... in public you can see that
the judge does behave himself .... it keeps everyone in order." - Lord
Denning on radio in 1960.
In a disgraceful Appeal
Court decision this July, Lord Woolf has decided that any judge can exclude any
Mackenzie Friend (meaning the very able amateur lawyer Dr. Michael Pelling, who
is too good for them) from any secret court without giving significant reason.
Pelling, who knows the law, has been forcing ignorant and high-handed judges to
obey the law, so he had to go. - Ed
Men's
Health Prostate Cancer
Prostate Cancer, rarely
mentioned and more rarely funded by Gov't, is, after lung cancer the biggest
killer of men. Only breast cancer in women compares with the mortality of
Prostrate Cancer.
For this reason all men
should regularly visit their GP for a check up. Inflammation of the Prostate
gland doesn't men you have cancer but it does gives doctors time to detect it
and take correctives moves. An exploratory diagnoses by your GP takes only 3
minutes.
The prostate gland is positioned
under the bladder and surrounds the urinary tract to the penis. When it becomes
inflamed it pressures both the bladder and the tract. Secretions from the prostate keep the urinary tract
moistened and healthy. The most common form of prostate irritation is the
non-cancerous "benign prostate hyperplasia" (BHP)
The symptoms of BHP
include; frequently getting up in the night to pass water; difficulty or delay
in passing urine; urine trickling out after urination; a weakened urinary flow
over the last 12 months; a "stinging or burning sensation" when
urinating; a feeling that the bladder is not fully empty.
Any of the above symptoms
means you should see your GP as soon as possible.
You should see your GP as
a matter of URGENCY if you have any of the following symptoms; passing blood
with your urine; a "stinging or burning sensation" when urinating;
when your bladder is full you have
to urinate immediately.
From What Women Want
pub. Virago 1996
To be taken seriously by male colleagues .... for contributions ....
different in style. - Laura, Oxford, p35.
p8
After 20
years of domestic violence research, scientists can't avoid hard facts
Source:
http://motherjones.com/mother_jones/MJ99/updike.html
by Nancy Updike May/June
1999
A surprising fact has turned
up in the grimly familiar world of domestic violence: Women report using
violence in their relationships more often than men. This is not a crack by
some antifeminist cad; the information will soon be published by the Justice
Department in a report summarizing the results of in-depth, face-to-face
interviews with a representative sample of 860 men and women whom researchers
have been following since birth. Conducted in New Zealand by Terrie Moffitt, a
University of Wisconsin psychology
professor, the study supports data published in 1980 indicating that wives hit
their husbands at least as often as husbands hit their wives.
When the 1980 study was
released, it was so controversial that some of the researchers received death
threats. Advocates for battered women were outraged because the data seemed to
suggest that the risk of injury from domestic violence is as high for men as it
is for women, which isn't true. Whether or not women are violent themselves,
they are much more likely to be severely injured or killed by domestic
violence, so activists dismissed the findings as meaningless.
But Moffitt's research
emerges in a very different context -- namely, that of a movement that is
older, wiser, and ready to begin making sense of uncomfortable truths. Twenty
years ago, "domestic violence" meant men hitting women. Period. That
was the only way to understand it or to talk about it. But today, after decades
of research and activism predicated on
that assumption, the
number of women killed each year in domestic violence incidents remains
distressingly high: a sobering 1,326 in 1996, compared with 1,600 two decades
earlier. In light of the persistence of
domestic violence, researchers are beginning to consider a broader range of
data, including the possible significance of women's violence.
This willingness to pay
attention to what was once considered reactionary nonsense signals a
fundamental conceptual shift in how domestic violence is being studied.
Violence in the home has
never been easy to research. Even the way we measure it reflects the kind of
murky data that has plagued the field. For instance, one could argue that the
number of fatalities resulting from domestic violence is not the best measure
of the problem, as not all acts of brutality end in death. It is, however, one
of the few reliable statistics in a field where concrete numbers are difficult
to come by. Many nonlethal domestic violence incidents go unreported or are
categorized as something else -- aggravated assault, simple assault -- when they
are reported. But another reason we haven't been able to effectively measure
domestic violence is that we don't understand it, and, because we don't
understand it, we haven't been able to stop it. Money and ideology are at the
heart of the problem.
For years, domestic
violence research was underfunded and conducted piecemeal, sometimes by
researchers with more zeal for the cause of battered women than training in
research methodology. The results were often ideology-driven
"statistics," such as the notorious (and false) claim that more men
beat their wives on Super Bowl Sunday, which dramatized the cause of domestic
violence victims but further confused an already intricate issue. In 1994,
Congress asked the National Research Council, an independent Washington, D.C.,
think tank, to evaluate the state of knowledge about domestic abuse. The NRC
report concluded that "this field of research is characterized by the
absence of clear conceptual models, large-scale databases, longitudinal
research, and reliable instrumentation."
Moffitt is part of a new
wave of domestic violence researchers who are bringing expertise from other
areas of study, and her work is symbolic of the way scientists are changing
their conception of the roots of domestic violence.
"[She] is taking
domestic violence out of its standard intellectual confines and putting it into
a much larger context, that of violence in general," says Daniel Nagin, a
crime researcher and the Theresa and H. John Heinz III Professor of Public
Policy at Carnegie Mellon University.
Moffitt is a developmental
psychologist who has spent most of
her career studying
juvenile delinquency, which was the original focus of her research. She started
interviewing her subjects about violence in their relationships after 20 years
of research into other, seemingly unrelated aspects of their lives: sex and
drug-use habits, criminal activities, social networks and family ties, and
signs of mental illness.
"I had looked at
other studies of juvenile delinquency," Moffitt says, "and saw that
people in their 20s were dropping out of street crime, and I wondered, 'Are all
of these miraculous recoveries where they're just reforming and giving up
crime? Or are they getting out of their parents' home and moving in with a
girlfriend and finding victims who are more easily accessible?' So I decided
we'd better not just ask them about street violence, but also about violence
within the home, with a partner."
What she found was that
the women in her study who were in violent relationships were more like their
partners, in many ways, than they were like the other women in the study. Both
the victims and the aggressors in violent relationships, Moffitt found, were
more likely to be unemployed and less educated than couples in nonviolent
relationships. Moffitt also found that "female perpetrators of partner
violence differed from nonviolent women with respect to factors that could not
be solely the result of being in a violent relationship." Her research
disputes a long-held belief about the nature of domestic violence: If a woman
hits, it's only in response to her partner's attacks.
The study suggests that
some women may simply be prone to violence -- by nature or circumstance -- just
as some men may be.
Moffitt's findings don't change
the fact that women are much more at risk in domestic violence, but they do
suggest new ways to search for the origins of violence in the home. And once we
know which early experiences can lead to domestic violence, we can start to
find ways to intervene before the problem begins.
Prevention is a
controversial goal, however, because it often calls for changes in the behavior
of the victim as well as the batterer, and for decades activists have been
promoting the seemingly opposite view. And even though it is possible to talk
about prevention without blaming victims or excusing abusers, the issue is a
minefield of preconceived ideas about gender, violence, and relationships, and
new approaches may seem too scary to contemplate.
In domestic violence research,
it seems, the meaning of any
new data is predetermined
by ideological agendas set a longtime ago, and the fear that new information
can be misinterpreted can lead to a rejection of the information itself. In
preparing this column, I called a well-known women's research organization and
asked scientists there about new FBI statistics indicating a substantial recent
increase in violent crime committed by girls ages 12 to 18. The media contact
told me the organization had decided not to collect any information about those
statistics and that it didn't think it was a fruitful area of research, because
girls are still much more likely to be victims of violence than perpetrators.
It's impossible to know
yet whether such numbers are useful, whether they're a statistical blip or a
trend, or whether the girls committing violent crimes now are more likely to
end up in violent relationships. But to ignore them on principle -- as
activists and researchers ignored the data about women's violence years ago --
is to give up on determining the roots of violence, which seem to be much more
complicated than whether a person is born with a Y chromosome.
What's clear is that
women's and girls' violence is not meaningless, either for researchers or for
the women themselves. It turns out that teenage girls who commit violent crimes
"are two times more likely than juvenile male offenders to become victims
themselves in the course of the offending incident," according to an FBI
report. I'd like to hear more about that, please, not less. Moffitt's findings
about women's violence and the FBI statistics are invitations to further
research -- not in spite of the fact that so many women are being beaten and
killed every year, but because of it.
from What Women Want
pub. Virago 1996
Respect! A voice! Recognition! Position!
- F.A., p161
Ill Eagle 4, sep99
p1
Expedient
in the interests of corrupt and incompetent judges and lawyers
In his biography of Lord
Denning, p117, Edmund Heward wrote unmistakably about secret courts.
"Denning was a good
friend of the Press, believing that the reporter was the watchdog of justice.
.... Speaking in Adelaide in 1967 he criticised the provisions of the Criminal
Justice Bill, which prohibited full reporting of criminal proceedings in the
Magistrates Courts. He said: 'Every court should be open to every subject of
the Queen. I think it is one of the essentials of justice being done in the
community. Every judge, in a sense, is on trial to see that he does his job
properly.' Again he once said: 'Reporters are there, representing the public,
to see that magistrates and judges behave themselves. Children's courts should
also be open. .... proceedings should never be conducted behind closed doors.'
This does not happen in the High Court, even today. Proceedings about the
custody, care and control, access and maintenance of children are held in
private. Ninety percent of High Court work is done privately, in chambers, by
Masters and Registrars."
I had come across the
mantra "expedient in the interests of the child" for some years. It
was used to justify secrecy at many levels, resulting in widespread, multiple
damage to our children. However, our corrupt, incompetent courts ran into
difficulty when no children were present or involved. The crisis first arose
when Michael Pelling tried to get the hearing held in public when
lawyers' fees were to be
determined ("Taxation" in brogue). He lost in the court of appeal, in
a scurrilous judgement which defied reason and justice. So, more than five years
ago, we already had the absurd situation when it was allegedly in the interests
of the child that nobody should hear about how judge and barrister talked
through how much taxpayers' Legal Aid money the one should award to the other.
Further attacks on the proper, open conduct of a court appeared in
"Consultation paper on Part IV of the Family Law Act 1996 dated mar97. On
p12 clause 43 it substitutes "expedient in the interests of justice"
for "expedient in the interests of the child". Thus, in spite of the
fact that they are all Denning men, our judges found it necessary to sidle
deeper under the mantle of secrecy.
Now, The Times of
wed18aug99 Law Report on Regina v Bow County
Court, ex parte Pelling, reports Lord Woolf of all people increasing
the depths of secrecy even further and betraying his June95 Interim Report
"Access to Justice" (available on
Warwick University's website). Whereas in june95 he was even more rabid
than I am about the failure of our court system, chiefly complaining about
cost, his irresponsible 18aug99 Judgement intentionally increases costs and
also increases secrecy. The full report will come out later in FLR. Send s.a.e.
to Ed for a copy. Richard Gregory, editor of FNF's Mackenzie, published a good article on the case in The Times, 17aug99, p21.
Fathers
angry over child-access ruling
- Frances Gibb, The Times, 6aug99
"Divorced fathers
seeking contact with their children are angry about a court ruling [by Thorpe
july99] that says they have no right to question the court [welfare] officer
[CWO] who recommends whether they can see their children. .... the court ruled
that it is a matter for the discretion of the judge in the particular case and
they are within their rights to refuse. ...."
This is an example of the
way court secrecy and gagging orders limit the information available to those
who publish on the crisis. Gibb does not know the half of it. CWOs are actually
probation officers with only criminal training. Judges sense that the CWO is so
vulnerable in her ignorance that a parent is not allowed to bring expert
witnesses who are leaders in the field of child psychology and the like to
interview a child involved, or to testify, either verbally or in writing. (Defending this immunity from scrutiny,
one CWO said; "Research is not relevant. What is relevant is the distress
of the child." Argument that the child might be upset by competent
interviewing is used by ignorant CWOs to justify their exclusive access to
children of divorce, and the exclusivity of their written and verbal testimony.) Judges do not know that CWOs are
untrained, but suspect enough to fear the presence of child experts in their
courts, or even expert written contribution, and so ban them. Judges dare not
have their ignorant CWOs exposed, even in our secret family courts, for fear
that the news might leak out. That is a measure of how insecure participants
feel in the destructive mess which is our family courts. The other arm of their
arrogance and fear and indifference to the public interest is Woolf's barring of
experts in the law like Pelling, as discussed in this issue and the last issue
of Ill Eagle. The court is denied both child expertise and legal expertise, and
so inflicts maximum damage on its victims. Judges want no one present who has
proper expertise on children or proper expertise in violations of the law or
human rights. Such violations are pandemic, and proliferate in total secrecy
and ignorance. - Ed
Before promotion to the
Court of Appeal, Thorpe announced to a startled barrister that the crime of bigamy
in the 1861 Violence against the Person Act
was for the protection only of women., totally ignoring the wording of the act,
which begins "Whosoever shall ...." In spite of this gaffe, he still
got promoted to the Court of Appeal, but only after his arch rival Ward beat
him to it. Our children are in the hands of third rate minds - Ed
(Ignorant
Thorpe) x (ignorant CWOs) = chaos2
To The Rt. Hon. Justice
Thorpe,
Civil Appeals Office,
Royal Courts of
Justice WC2A 2LL
Dear Sir, I was in court
on 29july99 [re A Minors] when you ruled that there was no right of
cross-examination of a Court Welfare Officer [CWO]. You also said:
"The CWO is the most
important limb of the inquisitorial process;
"They may not even be
required to attend the Hearing, although they often do;
"It is very rare for
the CWO even to be sworn-in;
"They are highly
experienced people and the Family Courts rely on their findings."
What is the basis for your blind faith in people who
posess no relevant professional qualification and have received no training
whatsoever in how to conduct their so-called "inquisitorial"
function? [As
discussed in my book "The Hook and the Sting", available on my
website,, I have also heard Thorpe say in court that the Family Courts are
Inquisitorial. - Ed]
You appear to have very
little knowledge of what actually happens in the lower courts, as opposed to
what you think happens.
CWO's reports regularly
contain substantive errors and omit vital information. When they are
cross-examined, their statements are regularly shown to be untruthful,
ill-informed and highly prejudiced against the non-resident mother or father.
Judges regularly throw their reports out.
You suggest that it is
perfectly safe for Courts to place greater reliance upon CWOs that on Expert
Witnesses. Expert witnesses .... typically, would have undergone at least 5
years' training and must have passed rigorous examinations.
Why shield CWOs from
cross-examination ....?
- Tony Coe, Equal
Parenting Party, www.EqualParenting.org
0171 589 9003
p2
Judge
is reprimanded for indecency incident
- Jo Butler,
Western Mail, 10sep99, also 25aug99.
"A judge cautioned by
police for gross indecency has been 'severely reprimanded' by the Lord
Chancellor Lord Irvine."
This judge can operate in
total secrecy in his court in Wrexham, with legal experts like Pelling and
experts on children debarred from court, between his public sessions down the
road in the public convenience, where he was caught getting up to no good with
another man.
We should not have the
likes of District Judge Hoffman free to make decisions on our children's future
in secret without the advice of competent legal or child experts, as at
present. This, rather than the point urged by Vernon Crouch, is what interests
me the most. Vernon, in contrast, is concerned that other than a judge would
have received a severe sentence, not merely a slap on the wrist from Irvine,
who failed to fire him although he had the power to.
On the other hand, Set a thief to catch a thief. The Western
Mail reported that it was this same judge who had the courage to break the
cloak of secrecy and trigger Britain's biggest child abuse scandal, about
children's homes in Clwyd. What a relief when variously oriented miscreants
don't hang together! - Ed
Violent Labour
Party Members?
Rachel McLean, 0171 802
1223, will send you a copy of the Govt's 30june99 document Living without Fear, provided you say, in
a squeaky voice like mine, that you are a party member. Or you can ask The
Women's Unit direct, 0171 273 8880. This document, outlines the £6million +
£6.3m + £14m of govt and near-govt money available for schemes to combat
violence, but only violence against women.
Have so many labour men turned violent again because they feel New Labour (and
their own wives) betrayed them? Why do
they blame their wives? Were many labour wives secretly New Labour? - Ed
I should not really joke
about it. Very like Home Office "Research" Study 196, from 0171 273
2084, whose authors,
in spite of their Fig. 3.1, also fail to distinguish between a crime
and an allegation, Living without Fear
is an appalling, socially destructive document, evincing an anti-social
attitude on every page. Incompetence begins early, with a less than 100% rise
in reported rape in ten years on p2 contradicting a 165% rise on p4. "And
seven out of ten women under 30 worry about being raped." No source. Ten
out of ten citizens should worry about such vicious propaganda masquerading as
research put out by The Women's Unit. It is signed by Jay, a marriage breaker,
and Straw, who comes from a broken home. Other researchers convince me that
there is now a torrent of ignorant, destructive, misleading propaganda
published by the Home Office. The consequences will be dire. I hope each member
of ManKind will phone for and read at least one. Or you might read the BMA's
deeply flawed 1998 Domestic Violence: a
health care issue from 0171
387 4499, now promoted by the Home Office, and also read a critical analysis of
it, available for £2 from Dewar Research, Constables, Windsor Rd., Ascot SL5
7LF. - Ed
£ Balance of £ £Probabilities£
Carolyn Parrington, 45, is
a rape victim with a difference. She has deliberately waived her anonymity and
chosen a path that will bring her to the attention of many. The stated reason
is that she "did this for women everywhere".
Appearing before the Court
of Appeal, Ms Parrington (now remarried) won her 8 day long civil action
against the man said to have raped her and was awarded £74,000.
Mr. Marriott, the man
accused of raping her twice, was her employer from 1985. After her marriage
broke up in 1992 she left the company in 1993. She suffered from depression and
post traumatic stress disorder and then suffered a nervous breakdown in 1994.
The level of compensation
awarded to victims of rape by the Criminal Injuries Compensation Scheme is
£7,500. Unfortunately for the police, Miss Parrington, a mother of three,
delayed going to the police which meant that vital scientific evidence was
lost. Mr Marriott was found guilty and ordered to pay compensation "on
the balance of probabilities" - not on the basis used in criminal cases of
"beyond reasonable doubt".
Mr Marriott was ordered to
pay costs and damages to Miss Parrington of £132,000, which included £11,155
for loss of earnings, £25,000 general damages and £30,000 aggravated damages
plus interest. The Court of Appeal turned down Mr Marriotts appeal to reduce
the damages and overturn the County Court verdict on the basis of facts and
wrong findings. He maintained that it was "consensual sex" and occurred
on several occasions. He was ordered to pay the costs estimated to be £95,000.
Thus, the rape victim can
expect to gain/earn £7,500 + 132,000 = 139,500. And the victim of rape
allegations (false or real) can look forward to the prospect of it costing him
£132,000 + 95,000 =
227,000.
[Info. from Daily
Telegraph Feb 20th 1999]
Criminal
Injuries Compensation Scheme
"The Criminal
Injuries Compensation Scheme provides payment to victims of crimes of violence.
.... Payments can be made to victims of rape, sexual assault, .... sexual
violence.
".... Among other
things, the consultation paper specifically invited comment on whether ....
awards for rape/child abuse should be increased ...." - Living without fear, 1999, p41, from
Women's Unit.
Eddie
Hampton
Eddie Hampton (real name)
in Maidstone Prison, writes "I am in contact with an inmate in another
prison in a similar situation and he passed on some statistics which makes
interesting reading and may help you in any campaign you may mount. Since 1994
when corroborated evidence was removed from sexual offences, there has been a
68% increase in successful convictions and a 74.5% increase in allegations of
sexual abuse. Since Germany removed compensation, except in extreme
circumstances, there has been a 97% drop in allegations of sexual abuse. I
think that tells a story." (Can anyone confirm these statistics? -
Editors, Newsletter No. 2 of AAFAA, Action Against False Allegations of Abuse,
PO Box 84, Leeds LS5 3XZ)
Perjury
I had a hearing before
Circuit Judge Stockdale, the only reason for the hearing being my request that
my allegation of perjury be investigated. He stated that the courts had no
facilities for investigating perjury. A number of solicitors have told me that
there is no procedure for pursuing perjury. I have come to the same conclusion
after many hours of study of law books. [Aitken was a show trial.] In contrast, Appeal Court Judge Thorpe had the gall,
on 16th May 1996, to say in a Pelling Appeal Court hearing that the family
courts were inquisitorial; that the judge's primary duty was to establish the
facts. They live in the surreal world where establishing the facts involves
ignoring an assertion under oath that there has been lying under oath. - Ivor
Catt, The Hook and the Sting,
pub. Westfields Press 1996, p63, also on Website www.electromagnetism.demon.co.uk/
American
men's activist in Europe
Date: 19 September 1999
09:01
Hi, I am an American mens
and fathers rights activist travelling through England and Europe until the
beginning of November trying to link up with other mens activists.
I am the author a book
titled Surviving the Feminization of America;
excerpts on my
website:www.geocities.com/Athens/Oracle/5225/
Men throughout Europe, the
Americas, Australia and New Zealand have the same issues: war, money,
fathering, feminism. I believe that we can increase our impact and influence by
cooperating across national boundaries.
BBC TV flew me from my
home base in Montana to Glasgow, Scotland to tape a TV show on men and mens
issues by arrangement with George McAulay of the U.K. Mens Movement. Since BBC
paid for the plane ticket over here I borrowed what cash I could with the
intention of visiting as many mens organizations in Europe as I can before I
run out of money.
If you are interested in having
me visit your group please reply to this email [via Ed.] I need places to sleep
and an occasional meal to sustain myself on the road.
I will be in London the
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Ill
Eagle 7, jan/feb00
ISSN
1466-9005
p1
The
Poodle-Man Archetype
"Learning
to relate ests is advising them. Conferences .... will be held .... to seek a
wider range of views. These will help to develop proposals that will form the
basis of a consultation paper to be issued towards the end of 1999.
Ms Betty Moxon heads the
Sexual Offences Review Group. On 2aug99 David Yarwood wrote to her objecting to
the absence of men's groups from the list. Betty Moxon invited Robert Whiston
and Ivor Catt from ManKind to attend her 10sep99 seminar in Leicester. ManKind
member William Coulson also managed to fill in for a cancellation.
The UKMM report that after
much effort by our Chairman, the Home Office have begun to dialogue and invite
us to inter-departmental seminars. The Leicester seminar, attended by our
chairman, and myself as editor of Ill Eagle, gives a great deal of food for
thought and much to report, some of which I intend to do later.
There were men there, but they were poodle-men.
None of the 50 attendees had the concept of a false allegation.
I completely missed the
reason why those present wanted to excise charges of incest and replace them
with charges of statutory rape, claiming that the stigma of incest was so much
worse! Only next day did I realise that a statutory rape charge was better
because it exonerated the offending female. Those present, including the
poodle-men, only wanted to avoid attaching stigma to a female. (The 1993 Sexual
Offences Act changed the law so that boys under the age of 14 could be charged
with rape.)
They toyed with the idea
of charging a step-father with incest. However, this foundered on the problem
of who was a step-father. I
remembered that when Jack Straw came to speak to the Lords and Commons Family
and Child Protection Group last year, I urged our Chairman, who was on the
committee, to get Straw to define parent.
Robert replied that he planned first to get him to define family, which however he failed to do.
[Straw clothed in Teflon is very slippery. Remember when he ran away abroad and
left Boateng holding baby?] The PC destruction of meaning of the word family undermined much of the discussion
in Leicester. It meant that those at Leicester could not "get" the
step-father on incest, since we have also lost the definition of step-father. This is the way in which the
failure of radical feminists to work out the details of their Brave New World
means that their machinations unravel.
From the Seminar
Programme; "Would an offence of abuse of trust be a better way to catch
looser family arrangements?" The discussion drifted towards the idea that
one who was dependent on another
could be sexually abused by him, whether or not there was consent. I countered
by saying that that meant that a sixteen-year-old who married her mother's
lover could not lawfully have sexual intercourse unless she went out to work!
The institution of marriage was a real irritant in the discussions.
The marriage of my parents in 1932, when two
became one flesh, which involved sexual intercourse and dependency and much
else, did not exist within the conceptual framework of those present. They
lived in a transactional world of
thought (which is also
a weakness in Amneus),
implicit in the word empowerment,
so their proposals for future legislation were bound to founder.
The next seminar we've
been asked to attend is in Oct at the Home Office itself.
ManKind and Ill Eagle can
be reached at;
(1). Mankind, Suite 367, 2
Lansdowne Row, London
W1X 8HL.
(2) www.ukmm.org.uk
(3) The Editor, Ill Eagle, Ivor Catt,
121 Westfields, St. Albans
AL3 4JR, England. ( 01727 864257
(4) Email :- ivorcatt@
electromagnetism.demon.co.uk/
Reading
List
I visited the I.E.A. last
week, and agreed their price to you for two excellent books which members of
ManKind should not only read, but own. £2.60 each post free, tel. 0171 799 3745
with credit card no. I myself have read all Morgan's and all Dennis's IEA books
twice. I view them as primary sources for members of ManKind. - Ed
Patricia Morgan, Farewell to the Family? jan95, new edn. june99, 240pp.
Norman Dennis, Families without Fatherhood, sep92.
Women Can't
Hear What Men Don't Say
-by Warren Farrell
A Jeremy P. Tarcher/Putnam
Book; $24.95 US/$34.95 Canada; October 4, 1999
Contacts: Lori Fuller,
Tarcher/Putnam/Penguin: 818.783.5016; fax: 818.783.5678
Dr. Warren Farrell:
760.753.5000; fax: 760.753.2436
Domestic Violence. After
examining over 50 domestic violence studies, Dr. Farrell discovered that each
revealed one of two things: either men and women batter each other about
equally, or women batter men more. See Chapter 6 (and the Appendix).
Man-Bashing. Dr. Farrell
discovers why we are so angry at men, how it is affecting our sons, and what we
can do about it before we create another fatherless generation. See Chapter 4.
Dr. Warren Farrell is one
of the most original thinkers of our time.
-Nancy Friday
Warren Farrell has given
us a gift by writing Women Can't Hear What
Men Don't Say. He points us to the only way to end the battle of the
sexes in the 21st Century. -Karen DeCrow, Attorney; Former President, National
Organization for Women (NOW)
[Farrell's The Myth of Male Power pub. Fourth Estate
1993 was the best researched book of its time. He will soon have a website. -
Ed]
It's a
wise father that knows his own son
It's
a wise son that knows his own father.
"Twenty percent of
the times that the husband requests a blood test for paternity in a divorce, it
turns out that the husband is not the biological father. (Then the judge orders him to pay child
support anyway) This has been published in the LA Times and the New York
Times." - email 20sep99
Answer to a request from a
father wishing to check the DNA of his son. http://www.affiliatedgenetics.com/ in Utah. It appears test kit can be ordered by credit
card over the phone (currency converted by credit card company) and the swabs
sent back to the USA for testing.
Apparently there is no kit that does it all at home.
DNA Testing Services
Paternity Screen. A highly confidential, low cost alternative to traditional
paternity testing. This test is used to obtain paternity answers when legal
admissibility is not required. This screening test is used for personal
information or can preview the results of a traditional paternity test at a
much lower cost.
Cost: $325.00 plus $5.00
shipping and handling.
A kit containing cheek
swabs, packaging and return postage is mailed the same day the order is
received. Cheek swabs are used to collect the DNA samples. (Additional $5.00
for orders outside of the United States.)
How to order a test or for
more information Call:
1-801-298-3366 Fax:
1-801-298-3352 Email: btanner@burgoyne.com
Order tests with VISA/MC
or send check/money order to: Affiliated Genetics, Inc. P.O. Box 870247 Woods
Cross, Utah 84087-0247
Affiliated Genetics, Inc.
was founded in 1994 by Kenneth Ward, M.D.. Dr. Ward is an Associate Professor
of Obstetrics and Gynaecology at the University of Utah School of Medicine. In
addition to his training in Obstetrics and Perinatology, Dr. Ward is board
certified in medical genetics and molecular genetics. He is the laboratory
director of Affiliated Genetics and also directs the DNA Diagnostic Laboratory
at the University of Utah.
This information given by
Ill Eagle without prejudice.- Ed
p4
Stanko
Much of our work is
investigative. It has to be. Newspapers today have largely become mere conduits
for 'official briefings'. With notable exceptions, they and by-line
journalists; pawns in a political game of bluff reduced to testing the water
for Govt policy manoeuvrings that will hit us a few months down the line.
Scouring the Internet we downloaded on June 30th information from the Cabinet
Office re. domestic violence ( www.open.gov.uk 'Organisational Index'
choose 'Cabinet Office' choose 'What's New' - 30.6.99 Press
Release).
This reported the joint
Ministerial launch by the Home Office (HO) and the Women's Unit - but it
appeared to omit certain key statistics, namely HO study 191. However, it did quote a study by 'Stanko et
al', which claimed that 1/. Domestic Violence costs £278 million pounds in
London alone and 2/. Govt sources or
'official' Govt figures showed that 1 in 4 women suffer domestic
violence. All the national newspapers picked up and quoted these 'official'
Govt figures.
Having debunked the 1 in 4
figure in the summer of 1998 (See last issue)
we promptly made enquires at the Home Office. They were evasive as to the
veracity of the "official figures", stating they hadn't come from
them. They did however direct us to "Stanko et al" as Prof. Stanko at
Brunel.
Prof. Stanko replied by
email; "I will forward you a copy of the report 'counting the costs'
. As
for the figures used by the Cabinet Office [in "Press Release" above], there is no citation for that figure in
the report. I suggest you contact the
Women's Unit directly as I only received my copy of the document this week. I
did not write it". But Counting the
Costs is written by Prof. Stanko together with 3 other female
authors, and it does cite the
"1 in 4" totem. It is
published by Crime Concern and
funded by the Children Society
and Hackney Safer Cities.
The so-called
"survey", of only 107 postal respondees to agencies and 129 women in
GP's surgeries, is loose, lightweight and limited, but still manages to stretch
to 70 pages. By the time the reader gets to page 9 it is blatantly apparent
that this is a document based on speculation, estimates and assumptions. From
the beginning, is piles estimate upon estimate, guess upon guess, making
magical intellectual leaps between them to arrive where the dogma says they
should be, i.e. p 16. Domestic violence is defined throughout the paper as only
women (and sometimes children) as victims.
Our understanding, from
the Home Office, is that domestic violence is not actually a criminal offence,
but the report states that it is (p 17).
Of the 107 postal surveys
sent out to public service providers, only 49 were returned with some
information on them, 23 resulted in no response at all and 29 were not
completed. Those "key agencies" targeted also produced only 32 vague
data on "the global cost" of their operations, 7 provided unit costs
and with regard to number of clients only 10 knew the exact number or could
estimate the ratio of domestic violence to clients (whatever that means).
"Key agencies"
were defined as the police, solicitors, housing dept. Women's Aid, Social
Services, GP's, health visitors.
The report is fond of
using the word "trawl" to imply a thorough examination e.g. its trawl
through local authority and agency files.
Unfortunately for the
researchers, many key agencies replied that domestic violence "was not a
primary presenting problem" and few incorporated it into their daily
practice monitoring framework (p 8). Indeed, at page 44 they concede "that
some case studies" may not be thought to "represent true domestic
violence".
This inflammatory report
is based on Hackney. Hackney is not typical of England. 46% of its population
subsists on Income Support (State Benefits). The average income of the rest of
London is 66% greater than that of Hackney. Over 65% of housing in Hackney is
"social housing". In the past it has been the stomping ground of
villains like Jack the Ripper and multifarious gangsters e.g. the Kray Twins.
The area is a melting pot of over 10 nationalities multiplied by as many
cultures.
The survey reveals that
except for Women's Aid and the Domestic Violence Housing Service, none of
the public service providers (Social Services, Police, etc) could estimate the
cost of domestic violence. Nor could they estimate the prevalence of clients
that "present" themselves for help.
In 1996 the police introduced CRIS (Crime Report Information
System) which has a mechanism for highlighting particular crimes e.g. domestic
violence. But because of "teething troubles" and the fact that they
were "acutely aware" that police figures would be
"conservative", the Stanko team had to estimate again. The team also
realised they had no way of knowing or
even estimating the cost in educational terms of domestic violence, but they
nonetheless were soon able "to generate local estimates".
Citing the 1993 Home
Affairs Select Committee on domestic violence, which concludes that domestic
violence was common and the Assoc. of Chief police Officers evidence that
domestic violence is "not based on either reliable or accurate data",
the report continues to assert that it is grossly under-recorded. However, they
concede that while nearly a third of domestic violence incidents resulted in
victims seeking medical support, only 3% actually sought hospital attention.
This would seem to underscore the proposition that seeking medical care, if not
for police purposes, is purely an emotional prop.
At page 13 of Counting the Costs we read of earlier
surveys into this field. Beginning with estimates from the British Crime Survey (1996) it moves on to
Mooney's 1994 survey in Islington (less than 500) which found that 37% of women
reported some form of domestic violence and 1 in 4 reported being injured from domestic
violence in their lifetime - which is a meaningless statistic.
Painter's survey of 1,000
women; one in eight said they had been raped while married.
McGibbon et al survey
(1989) (less than 500) in Hammersmith showed that of 281 respondees 39% had experience
verbal or physical abuse by a partner.
Dominy and Radford (1996)
- a survey of less than 500 - found that they had to add in a significant
number of women who had suffered domestic violence where the women themselves
(15%) did not view it as such. Of the above, only Mooney's was randomly
distributed.
All research, the report
concludes, shows that its findings that 1 in 4 experience some form of domestic
violence in their life time and between 1 in 8 and 1 in 10 in the current year,
"echoed" the work of other researchers and Women's Aid.
Significantly, Stanko et
al. state; "Perhaps more disconcerting is the number of women who continue
to maintain their silence about their experiences, or those who, when they
spoke to someone, were not heard". This is difficult to credit, given the
setting and antics of
"Eastenders".
One 70 year old who
responded to the GP questionnaire said "
.. In old age sexual violence becomes mental cruelty. Weak shits remain
weak shits".
It would be more accurate
and trebly difficult (if not ideologically impossible) for 'Stanko et al"
to come to the same conclusion about men who suffer domestic violence.
Of dubious interest is the
assertion that domestic violence is a feature in 1 in 3 instances of separation
or divorce (Hester 1996). It will take more research to find out whether that
is true of only cohabitees, or of married couples that separate and divorce.
Actually, as we all know, allegations of violence during divorce proceedings,
which cannot be countered in our courts, are merely a mechanism to validate the
confiscation of a husband's home and children.
Majorities
unwelcome
- Decca Aitkenhead,
The
Guardian, 30aug99,
p13
".... In the main, most
men's clubs are comfortable social enclaves, existing for exactly the same
reason as gay clubs, and they would be distorted by women members in just the
same way.
"The energy burnt up
by women's movements over the right to have a drink in this or that room is one
of the greatest wastes of time imaginable. ...."
Note that this assertion
could not be published by a man. - Ed
Ill Eagle 5, oct99
p1
Will
only good fathers get their pocket money?
On Oct 9, 17:19, Brian [who?] wrote:
"Subject: Employers to
pay men's wages into their wives' bank accounts.
What a good job no man in
his right mind would get married again. If you were in any doubt that we have
the feminist party in power........"
On 4 Oct 1999 23:35:04 in
alt.mens-rights Blake Thoresby
<thoresby@nym.alias.net> wrote:
"The British Minister
for Women has announced plans to compel employers to pay men's wages into their
wives' bank accounts. Baroness Jay said that the new rules, which will come
into force in April, will reduce poverty in the family by ensuring that family
income is not wasted. She said that
wives will have sole discretion over whether or not they receive their
husband's wages directly. This is in line with the current regulations which
allow wives to decide which partner is paid Child Benefit.
Men's rights groups have
expressed concern and say they are particularly worried about separated men who
will have to ask their estranged wives for enough money to live on.
Legal experts say that the
new Family Income regulations will also be applied to unmarried couples with
children who live, or have lived, together."
Hail to ".... the
gender warriors behind the Women's Unit .... The Women's Unit speaks not for
ordinary women but privileged feminists." - Melanie Phillips, Sunday Times 10oct99, p21.
[The British Minister for
Women is reported to have broken up at least one marriage when she ran amuck in
Washington DC. Did her husband, the famous economist, fail to finance her
travel from tryst to tryst?
I begin to wonder why I
bother to read and analyse the vicious, anti-social rubbish, for instance Living Without Fear, signed by
(fly-by-night) Jay and (Man of) Straw, put out by her Women's Unit. Tel. 0171
273 8880 for your copy. We now see that Jay is totally out of touch, a loose
cannon, Leader of the House of Lords, at the heart of government. Vanity Blair
dare not touch her, since he is surrounded by power feminists; Cheri, Coote,
Hewett, Harman, and other obscure orientations who also benefit from the
demeaning of normal men. As with our judges, he doesn't want to lose his salary
and children, or end up homeless - Ed.]
Kennedy's
Mea Culpa
In his keynote speech to
the Liberal Party Conference, Kennedy said that he, along with members of all parties,
was to blame for not studying the details of the CSA when its inauguration was
being rushed through Parliament. This confession was not mentioned in the
analyses of his speech, or in evening news, or in The Times next day. - Ed
Is the
gun or the Single Mother Home more lethal?
For more than half a year
after Dylan Klebold and Eric Harris shot fellow students in Littleton,
Colorado, the media successfully and completely concealed the fact that Klebold
is yet another product of an SMH (single-mother household). Nobody ever had the
impression from the media for this entire time that both of these children were
nothing but ordinary children from ordinary families. Dylan Klebold was
"ordinary" only by a fact beyond his control, but not of his
mother's, that almost 100% of mass murderers, assassins, and school shooters
were born to or grew up in SMHs, where they are 8 times more likely to become
murderers than children who grow up with their biological fathers.
www.angelfire.com/yt/eharrisdklebold/images/dylan5.jpg
A
woman's world
Domineering middle-class
"feminists" have always been detrimental to ordinary people (Melanie
Phillips, Comment, 10oct99, p20). A notorious early example was their hijacking
of the suffrage movement, turning it into a violent organisation which lost
sympathy for the cause.
The current contrary
motion of the sexes, women going into the workforce while men go into the dole
queues, merely reflects their respective starting points. Men have left secure
skilled work, woman have left the home, but both have left secure positions to
move downhill to the labour pool.
Survey after survey of
young women (18-24) reports most of them saying their favoured lifestyle when
they reach 30 would be looking after their children full-time, supported by a
husband with a secure, reasonably paid job. This after 30 years of feminist
propaganda.
Along with their
colleagues producing fiscal policies which penalise proper parenthood, the
gender warriors are promoting greater exploitation dressed up as "choice"
and "liberation".
- William Coulson,
Sunday
Times, 17oct99,
p20.
Sex
Offences Review
(See Editorial,
sep99.)
Ms Betty Moxon heads the
Sexual Offences Review Group. ....[She] invited Robert Whiston and Ivor Catt
from ManKind to attend her 10sep99 seminar in Leicester....
There were men there, but they were poodle-men.
None of the 50 attendees had the concept of a false allegation. The other men
listed were; Judge Francis Allen; Chris Atkinson, NSPCC; Simon Bass, Churches'
Child Protection Advisory Service; Richard Beckett, Consultant Psychiatrist;
David Congdon, MENCAP; Dr Simon Court, Designated Doctor Child Protection;
Gerry Egan, DoHealth; Marcus Eldridge, NSPCC; David Johnson, Social Services;
Peter Lewis, Chief Crown Prosecutor Lincolnshire; Miles McColl, Stip.
Magistrate; Malcolm Ross, Chief Supt. Gloucs. Constabulary; Imam Abduljalil
Sajid JP, Chairman Muslim Council of Britain Social Policy.... ; Robert Street,
Home Office Research & Stats. Female members included Gill Keep, Childline.
The poodle-men invited to
give 'balance' were in a minority. This is perhaps why, if anything, they
out-shone the female majority in demonising their own gender. Although senior
professionals, they behaved as if they believed the propaganda [all men are
potential rapists etc.] and did not know the true statistics. This made the
women present believe that they were not part of a prejudiced subculture. What
about instituting a Roll of Honour for leading Poodle-Men?
".... there are
critical men around the generally female,
sexual abuse lobby, who as politically correct opportunists say nothing about
the demonisation of men as pathological abusers. .... Up front are children's
organisations such as the NSPCC, Childline and Kidscape. Less known are ones
like Ritual Abuse Information Network Support, ChildWatch, the Beacon
Foundation and the British Association for the Study and Prevention of Child
Abuse...."
- Newsletter 2 of AAFAA,
Action Against False Allegations of Abuse, Summer-Autumn 1999, 01635 202433.
[General terms;
Poodle-man; Quisling; Uncle Tom; Castrato; Male feminist. This links with my
Eagle 3 Editorial - Ed]
p2
Our
Secretary and the UN
Barry Worrall is at
barryw@hisown.demon.co.uk
More details on our
website www.ukmm.org.uk
UN submission under the '1503'
procedure.
This UN submission
concerns the definition of 'marriage' in the UK and the degrading treatment of
unimpeachable men in divorce
HISTORY
28 April 99 : we make
initial submission to UN High Commissioner for Human Rights about violations of
Articles 7 (degrading treatment in divorce) & 23 (right to marry and to
found a family) of the International Covenant on Civil and Political Rights
(ICCPR). We make this submission under the '1503' procedure which allows a
submission about a 'consistent pattern of violations' of human rights law. The
submission is supported by a copy of The Emperor's New Clothes, which is
available under our www publications pages.
25 June 99 : UN requests 7
further copies of submission document and our report The Emperor's New Clothes.
These sent.
30 July 99 : UN inform us
that they are referring the submission to the UK government.
SYNOPSIS
OF SUBMISSION
For those men in an
on-going marriage there are no benefits or protections. Further, men who are
innocent of any matrimonial offence are being divorced using fabricated grounds
and are having their lives seriously damaged, so having done no substantive
wrong, they are treated in a degrading manner which violates Article 7 of
ICCPR. On average marriage is therefore damaging to men.
At the heart of our
submission is that what is referred to as 'marriage' in the UK is actually more
damaging on average than not marrying. Article 23 of ICCPR guarantees the right
to marry. What is referred to as 'marriage' in the UK is not compatible with
the act 'to marry' in Article 23 of ICCPR. Men may not 'marry' in the UK in
terms consistent with Article 23 of ICCPR i.e. in any meaningful sense. READ
THE SUBMISSION on the www
Dear Mr. Worrall,
[Secretary, ManKind,] This is to acknowledge the receipt of your communication
referred to above.
In accordance with a
procedure set out in the enclosed resolutions, a copy of your communication
will be sent to the authorities of the country concerned and a summary of it
will be confidentially submitted to the Commission on Human Rights and the
Sub-Commission on the Promotion and Protection of Human Rights. Yours
sincerely, Hamid Gaham, Officer-in-Charge, Support Services Branch, United
Nations High Commission for Human Rights.
30 July 1999.
States
must pay compensation for obstructing access
Source - Barry Worrall.
In the European Court for
Human Rights (ECHR) [it has a good website] the case of "Elsholtz v
Germany (No. 25735/94) concerning complaints about refusal of access to his son
and about alleged unfairness of the proceedings concerned" should be of
interest to all dads. This case follows others originating in Sweden and
Finland
(see Hokkanen v. Finland
on
www.ukmm.org.uk/camp/hokkanen) where States have been ordered to change
their ways (re Fathers and access/visitation) and pay compensation. UKMM
members need to study the Hokkanen case, on the web, or send one pound in
stamps to Ed for a copy.
[In Finland, as in
England, the mantra "best interests of the child", used to ignore the
law and to deny a child's civil rights, exerted its baleful influence. Where
Finland got caught was that initially they asserted that a father had rights,
but later the State frustrated them. This happens in virtually every divorce
case in England. English judges make the same mistake. Although English judges
do their best to make a father appear feckless, all the same they initially
admit a father's rights by making an order for access. Later they refuse to
enforce the order. The Hokkanen case makes a precedent leading to a class
action by English fathers against the UK govt. Even at £10,000 each, this would
work out to tens of billions of pounds. The Appeal Court decisions not to
enforce court orders re access will be ruled out by the European Court. Pelling
agrees with me that the reason why, when a father appeals to a court to enforce
a court order for access, the courts makes a new order giving less access, may
be in order to reduce the compensation payable by our Govt. However, it is more
likely that our ignorant judges do not know the Finnish case. We have a
dilemma. How does a father show that he kept trying, without giving the govt
the chance to claim that the best interests of the child had called for ever
less access, so as to diminish its Hokkanen liability? - Ed]
Mr Hokkanen in Finland had
been cut off by deliberate obstruction to contact with his daughter. His wife
had died, and his daughter looked after by his wife's parents - his daughter's
grandparents. They had obstructed contact over a 3 year period, despite
repeated applications to court. Mr Hokkanen applied under Article 8 of the
European Convention (respect for family life and no interference by authority
in that). He obtained 100,000 Finish marks - about £11,000 compensation.
[A good summary would be
the partly dissenting judgement, p19, see below, which presumably called for a
higher fine to be imposed on the Fiinnish Govt. - Ed]
"PARTLY
DISSENTING OPINION OF JUDGE DE MEYER, JOINED BY JUDGES RUSSO AND JUNGWIERT
(Translation)
"In our opinion,
there has been a breach of the applicant's right to respect for his family life
both as regards custody and as regards access, and in respect of the latter
since 21 October 1993 as well as before then.
"Over many years the
Finnish authorities were faced with and tolerated the prolongation of a
situation which they had on many occasions noted to be unlawful and which they
were accordingly under a duty to bring to an end. (No distinction needs to be made between the various
authorities which intervened in the case; they all engage the respondent
State's responsibility.)
On each occasion they yielded in the face of the grandparents' persistent
obstination and thus enabled them to create a fait accompli which the
authorities eventually resigned themselves to endorsing as regards both custody
and access.
"Having thus brought
upon themselves this capitulation on both fronts, they may well have thought
that matters had got to such a point that it was no longer in the child's interests
to go on trying to remedy the situation.
"The fact remains
nevertheless that ultimately the authorities deprived the applicant of the
exercise of rights which naturally vested in him as father, although they had
previously recognised on numerous occasions that he should not be denied them. (See, in particular, as regards access,
paragraphs 10, 12, 25 and 29, and as regards custody, paragraphs 14, 16, 18,
22, 24 and 27 of this judgement.)
"Far from stopping
the infringement of these rights, they thus permanently put a seal on it."
[This maps directly
onto behaviour by the English courts. - Ed]
"Trusted
babysitter, 12,
'killed
infant in her care'
- wrote Paul Kelso,
The Guardian, 29sep99, p5"
Hot from a day studying political
correctness at the Home Office conference in Leicester, I read this article as
a clear demonstration of the massive move away from the old culture, where
children came first, to our current radical feminist culture, where the mature
woman comes first, and children and men take the hindmost.
A 26 year old mother left
her baby in the care of a 12 year old girl, who was ".... trustworthy and
mature for her age." The mother now claims the girl killed her baby. The
girl is on a murder charge.
25 years ago the baby
would have had a father to protect it. Failing that, the mother would have been
on a criminal charge for leaving her baby in the care of a 12 year old child.
Today, that is not possible, because by definition a mother is blameless. A
girl child can be relied on to be responsible, as compared with a boy child,
who can be relied on to rape and kill.
Nobody criticised the
actions of the mother. - Ed
p3
Editorial
For many years I have
rated Norman Dennis a major player in the problem of family breakdown. He did
primary research when he compared two nearby estates, and found that crime and
other social breakdown occurred in the estate which lacked fathers, and not in
the estate which merely suffered poverty. However, generally, in deference to
feminist control of the media, I have only cited female experts, and so drew
much less attention to Dennis and Amneus than to Barbara Amiel, Patricia Morgan
and Melanie Phillips.
The importance of the
dialogue which follows is that even though Norman Dennis was writing for the
pro-family Institute of Economic Affairs, IEA, generally regarded as the
premier right wing (which
they deny) think-tank,
he still avoided laying any blame on women for fear that he would not get
published.
Melanie now closes the loop
".... girls cast
aside the constraints which deep down they may still feel are in their own best
interests." - Melanie Phillips,
Sunday Times, 17oct99
To Norman Dennis. The
following letter was sent to you (N.D.) on 30apr98. I held this back because
the tone was unpleasant and explosive. However, I feel I should send it off [to
you] rather than delay ever longer for the time when I shall write a more
diplomatic note. I certainly felt very strongly at the time. Ivor
21feb98
Norman Dennis,
Emeritus Professor,
Dept. of Religious Studies,
University of Newcastle o
Tyne.
Dear Norman Dennis,
I heard you lecture at a
seminar organised by John Campion in Oxford Street, London, some years ago. The
event was important for me. I had just read an article by Patricia Morgan,
which caused me to attend. Also, Amneus spoke. The other key event was a five
minute talk by a Hausa tribesman from Nigeria, who spoke of the impact of
English divorce laws on his people living in England. (The significance of what
he said is totally missing from your writings.) [Hausa fathers knew they would all lose home and children. Every father was getting
together what money he could, and escaping back to Nigeria. - Ed]
I identified you, Morgan
and Amneus as three of the four most important contributors to the analysis of
the growing crisis. The other one is Melanie
Phillips.
....
I have just re-read your
1993 Families without fatherhood,
and then re-read your 1993 Rising Crime ....,
followed by my reading your jan97 The
Invention of Permanent Poverty for the first time.
The most horrifying part
is the last para. of "The Invention....," where your myopia stands
out most starkly, although it pervades all your books; your belief that a woman
is not responsible for her actions, and men want to escape responsibility.
Nowhere in your writings is mention of a woman's responsibility. It is
incredible that you, who reiterate astonishment at the Sociology
Establishment's refusal to see what is staring in their faces, (re poverty cf.
crime), do much the same thing yourself.
p171 Penultimate para;
....men's sexual liberation.
Final para; .... the frustrations of fathers without families.
I am forced to conclude
that the male chauvinism shown in your books links up with the chauvinism of
the New Victorians, the radical feminists, in assuming, or even asserting, that
a woman is not responsible for her actions. [We now know that it was not
chauvinism, but his fear of censorship. - Ed]
Do you have the concept of
a man being driven out of his home? Where in all your writings is the evidence?
Robert Whiston told me a
year ago that you had switched, and now comprehended a woman's responsibility
as a major factor in the crisis. However, I am told by someone else that within
the last two months in a lecture you still showed the old chauvinist attitude,
that only a man is responsible for his actions. Do you not know that the vast majority of divorces
are started by women? Do you not know the suicide statistics among young men,
their increase, and the comparison with that of young women? Why do these
happy, free, liberated, libertine young men increasingly commit suicide? Do you
not know the relative long term unemployment statistics for young people, male
and female? You really should, if you feel you have the right to so roundly
charge the Rowntree axis with ignorance, where you are correct. I see no
evidence of knowledge of these things in your books; only the reiteration of
the young male, eager to be promiscuous and evade responsibility for his
children, given the chance. The woman is an object, not a sentient being. Try
to find cases where she figures in your books. This is terribly shallow, for
one who has done the amount of careful research that you have done. Your
writings show no evidence of any knowledge about how the family courts are
operating. This information is readily available, from me if necessary. [Now
see my website - Ed] This has major impact on your findings, and your myopia
certainly taints and blunts your findings. This is serious, because you are one
of the four major players in the debate. Your selective ignorance does much
more damage than that of the average man.
Yours
sincerely, Ivor Catt
The
reply
by phone
may 98 cc Norman Dennis
....
5.5.98 Today I received a
phone call from Norman Dennis. This was my first communication from him. My
rambling comments below are because I thought I should put something in
writing, but since there is obviously much goodwill between us, I do not have
to be too careful or accurate. So I will not hold back further copies until he
okays what follows. He said a number of things. Although he said he was willing
to be quoted, and I replied that I had no intention of so doing, I have since decided
to do a very approximate quote of some of what he said. We spoke for perhaps 15
minutes.
1. The key point was that
he thought he was remiss (he definitely did a 'mea culpa' more than once. That
clears the air;) in giving only part of the story (In Families without Fatherhood and Rising Crime and the Dismembered Family)
in the early 90's. (He thought my letter was fair.) His reason was in my view
valid; that his main message was poverty and crime. I have sympathy with him in
his objective at the time; to show that family breakdown, not poverty, caused
crime. I agree that this issue is some way from the issue of blame for family
breakdown, and that to some degree he was entitled to discuss the one (which he
did very well indeed, and attracted me to him) while evading, or at least
de-emphasising, the other. We should remember that the more damaging excesses
of the feminazis occurred later than his time of writing, and it was not
certain that they would become so very anti-social. (It is over-simplistic to say
that he placed no blame on women in order to ensure publication, but there is
more than a tinge of that in what he said.)
2. His second message is
that he is very much in agreement with John Campion and with Ivor Catt, and
that differences of opinion are only very minor. He talked about women wanting
to have their cake and eat it. I think he also emphasised the plight of today's
young man.
3. He said he was now into
studying the drug industry, and was not fully up to date on our concerns.
However, I said that, being aged 68, he was even more valuable than I was (age
62) in that he knew the
perceptions and mores of the 1950's and 1960's, which younger people do not.
For instance, he agreed with me that in 1960 the concept of a 'career' which
led to an income large enough to support only one or two people, did not exist.
This is not known by the younger E or Adrienne. (In 1960, activity which only
supported one or two people was not caller a 'career'.) (I am coming across
many other conceptual blocks. For instance, E and Adrienne do not seem to
understand the tripartite (or even more multiple) nature of marriage in 1960,
in particular the separation of civil from religious marriage, and that in 1960
everyone understood the distinctions. Dennis is very much needed, even if he
does no more research, because he knows
the past. He was there, and active in sociological study.
By coming in to the fold,
I feel he plays a very important role in the ongoing saga. It is very
significant that he discerns very little difference between his view and those
of myself and John Campion.
p4
My message to Adrienne
Burgess is that she really needs to draw on him, for instance to clarify her
understanding of the nature of marriage in 1960.
ND's possible suggestion
that criticism of women would hazard his chances of getting published
reinforces the assertion of Janet Daley that men are debarred from
communicating on this subject; this assertion even reiterated by Polly Toynbee
in the Guardian, 6may98. It's reached a pretty pass when even a female
chauvinist sow like PT suggests that men are not allowed centre stage; although
grudgingly stated in her case. [Of all people, PT was the only one allowed to
attack the CSA in her recent three part TV analysis Can't Pay, Won't Pay - Ed.] I think the suppression of
scholarly comment by men will ensure that the crisis will go far deeper, only
to be ended when men are allowed to join the discussion.
I have recently realised
that even the best woman, Melanie Phillips,
will need the input of male scholarship and understanding before she can fully
master the crisis, which is complex and difficult. (FNF punkah-wallahs will
remain on the fringe, playing their silly personality games.) Ivor Catt 5.5.98
Reply by
letter
12may98 From N Dennis to IC
Dear Ivor, Thank you for
your very fair and clear account of the discussion we had the other day.
As it seems that you are
anxious in case you misinterpreted or misheard what I said on any point, I'm
writing rather than telephoning to say that you have reproduced my opinions as
I expressed them to you.
I greatly appreciate your
courtesy. Best wishes, Yours sincerely,
[signed] Norman
Dennis.
"Women
Behaving disgracefully
Women, not men, are
driving a collapse in moral values that is undermining the family and
ultimately themselves, says Melanie Phillips"
- Sunday Times, sect.5, p6,
17oct99. Also 24oct99. A full page by Melanie on her new book, The Sex Change Society, £12 from 0870 165
8585.
Deadlier
than the male
"Women are at least as
violent as men, but the evidence is everywhere being dismissed or ignored"
- Melanie Phillips, Sunday Times,
24oct99, sect. 5, p10.
A
Time to Honour Bravery
We have to honour the
bravery of Canadian Senator Anne C. Cools [see my website - Ed], Erin Pizzey,
who insisted to me that most child abusers are women,
and now Melanie Phillips, who says that it is the disgraceful behaviour of women that is destroying society. Such
assertions are made by the brave, and in doing so they suffer great pain. Their
adversaries are vicious. Erin had to have police protection, and fled the
country. She now lives at a secret address. - Ed
Deadbeat
dads
- Helen Wilkinson,
The Independent,
1july99
".... plans .... to
criminalise fathers .... delinquent in paying child support ....
"The proposals ....
have a distinctly American flavour. .... the infringements of personal liberty
.... by many American states are quite shocking .... perpetuating vicious
cycles of exclusion.
".... The federal
government now recognises that unemployed, non-resident fathers, as well as
single parent mums, have specific needs .... if they are .... to fulfil their
parental obligations."
Not so the British govt. E
has researched the way in which, in Britain, access to back to work, parent
sickness and other child-directed benefits intended by parliament for any
parent are illegally (according to European law) witheld from a divorced father
through the administratively convenient
(according to Harriet Harman) mechanism of funnelling them through a single
Child Benefit Book, always kept by the mother. Michael Pelling is actively
pursuing this case thru to Europe. - Ed.
Boys
lost in fatherless homes
Charles Moore,
Nova Scotia.
2sep99.
More than 40 per cent of
children now spend a large proportion of their childhood in single-parent
homes, compared with just five per cent of kids who lived only with their
mothers in 1960.
70% of institutionalized juvenile offenders in the U.S. come from fatherless
homes, and children from broken families are twice as likely to drop out of
school.
Little girls doubtless
miss absent fathers profoundly, but the burden of growing up fatherless weighs
heaviest on the male child. Most girls get ample exposure to female role-models
and have little difficulty developing a clear idea of what women do.
Fatherless boys get only
sporadic glimpses of what men do, and thus receive few clues as to what they're
supposed to become. As he grows, the fatherless boy-child desperately attempts
to tap into the collective male identity, usually taking his cues from likewise
father-hungry peers and pop-cultural influences.
Not that the entertainment
media is much help. A National Fatherhood Initiative (NFI) study released in March
found only 15 prime-time shows (less than 15 per cent of 102 shows on the major
U.S. networks) with fathers as regular, central characters. Only four of those
portrayed functional fatherhood.
As U.S. Senator Daniel
Patrick Moynihan observed: "A community that allows a large number of
young men (and women) to grow up in broken families, dominated by women, never
acquiring any stable relationship to male authority, . . . that community asks
for, and gets, chaos."
Less than 30 per cent of
juveniles imprisoned for violent offences grew up with both parents.
Until about 100 years ago,
fathers were unquestioned familial child-rearing authorities. Most men worked
at home or close to home, and participated hands-on in their children's'
upbringing. Educators of boys were also nearly always male, and the social
environment boys inhabited was predominantly masculine.
In traditional cultures,
boys spend lots of time with their fathers and other adult male role-models,
developing into manhood surrounded by masculine energy. In the West, the
Industrial Revolution destroyed normal family and community dynamics, removing
fathers from the home.
Carl Jung observed that
sons develop their image of absent or emotionally distant fathers through the
mother's often aggrieved and resentful eyes, and learn to view their own
masculinity through the jaundiced lens of her hostility. This results in
wounded images of both father and self.
Today the problem is
amplified. The notion that children are corrupted by exposure to masculine
values is gaining increasingly wider acceptance.
In modern child-rearing
theory and "progressive" education, supposedly "female
values" of compassion, nurturing, forgiveness, rebirth and renewal are
emphasized positively, while supposedly masculine qualities of strength,
protection, justice, judgment and punishment are disparaged.
"The old
traditionally male values of constancy, gravitas, restraint, heroism, dignity
and honour are seen as belonging to a past world," writes British feminist
author Fay Weldon. "Perhaps they do. Perhaps it is no bad thing."
It is a very bad thing.
Boys who grow up in a predominantly feminine environment risk low self-esteem,
excessive and unhealthy dependence on females, and emotional immaturity.
[Angela Philips's .... recipe
for "bolstering boy's
self-esteem" is to ensure boys are able "to shine" through
"music, drama and dance".
This proposed remedy can only be damaging to the male psyche which
instinctively pushes in the opposite direction. - Ill Eagle 3, p4. - Ed]
Only men can confer a
sense of soul-union with other men. Only men can understand and truly empathize
with the particular fears, anger, sadness, and sometimes despair that are part
and parcel of being male.
Children need men as a
constant in their lives. Both girls and boys need fathers who understand and
affirm an essentially male approach to parenting, and who can teach them that
family life is something in which men can and should participate. .... ....
p5
Comments and suggestions
are welcome.
E-mail: wcr@supernet.ab.ca
USA's
Privatised CSA out of control
Ginger Thompson,
President, West Virginia Alliance for Two Parents; Remarks to Joint Domestic
Relations Subcommittee Sept. 12, 1999
As we are hearing today,
the system is tragically broken and does not work for anyone - those who are
paying support or those who are receiving it. That means the ones who are
really suffering are the children .... it is meant to help.
In addition to the
problems with child support enforcement, there is an underlying problem in West
Virginia's child support system - the very philosophy and methodology upon
which support is set and collected.
West Virginia uses the
Williams formula, also called the Income Shares Formula, upon which to base its
child support guidelines. It's named for Dr. Robert Williams, a self-appointed
child support guru who has built a multi-million dollar business out of
developing child support formulas as well as collecting child support. Various
versions of Dr. Williams' guidelines are used in 31 states.
The most astounding aspect
of Dr. Williams' involvement in West Virginia's child support system is his
blatant conflict of interest. Dr. Williams is the president of Policy Studies
Inc., based in Denver, Colorado. Policy Studies' subsidiary, Privatization
Partnerships Inc., is the private child support collection agency that does
business in West Virginia.
As a consultant to federal
and state governments, Dr. Williams has been able to create a market from which
he and his company can profit. He has influenced policy as a consultant to the
federal government's child support enforcement agency and used his inside
knowledge to develop a consulting business and collection agency.
In 1996, Williams' company
had the greatest number of child support enforcement contracts of any of the
private companies that provide such services. Reimbursement to his company for
child support enforcement ranges from 10 to 32 percent of what his company
collects, according to the General Accounting Office. He and his company have
cost the taxpayers billions of dollars, without really improving the lives of
the children who are supposed to be helped by child support enforcement.
It is not to Policy
Studies' benefit to track down the true deadbeats; but to instead concentrate
their efforts on the cases that are easy to collect. [In England, Polly
Toynbee's 3 part TV series Can't pay Won't
pay said our CSA very soon gave up on difficult fathers, and
instead, increased the claims against fathers who were already paying, in order
to meet the CSA's cash targets. - Ed.] It also makes them less willing to
correct errors. It is to Dr. Williams' benefit to design a child support
formula that calls for high amounts of support which easily create arrearages.
After all, the more collected, the more profits for his business. ....
Dr. Williams' income
shares formula has come under intense scrutiny of late. The spring issue of the
Family Law Quarterly, published by the American Bar Association, included two
articles very critical of current child support policy. Several analysts have
studied Williams' formula and have published reports which illustrate its
flawed methodology. ....
[Things could get worse
here. Wait until Blair hears about privatising the CSA in the USA! The problem
is being thoroughly aired in emails from ACFC - Ed.]
Researchers
scuffle over domestic violence
by Karen S. Peterson,
USA
TODAY, 27july99
Who hits first, the man or
the woman? The latest in a list of government-funded studies comes up with a controversial
answer. Women hit men at least as often as men hit women, says research funded
in part by the Justice Department.
That finding, reported
this month, is ratcheting up one of the biggest debates in the field of
domestic violence.
Two camps with different
agendas are once again glaring at each other, each backed by prestigious but
contradictory studies. And the tension will increase today when smaller-scale
research is released, showing that girls in middle school are just as
aggressive as boys with their partners.
The
debate
In one tent are those who
stress the greater damage men do when they hit women, regardless of who hits
first.
In another are those who
say women, especially younger women, hit first about as often as men. And they
also must be held accountable, even if they do little physical harm.
"Neither side is
motivated to understand the other. Rather, each seeks to impose its perspective
because they believe (their) preferred definition is vital to advancing their
moral agenda and professional objectives," says pioneering researcher
Murray Straus in the chapter he contributes to the new Violence in Intimate
Relationships (Sage, $29.95).
Small-scale studies are
being presented this month at two conferences on domestic violence. They also
show that women - especially young women - may be willing to participate in a
literal battle between the sexes.
In a study of 872 students
in five Philadelphia middle schools, about 65% of against a favored member of
the opposite sex, researcher Michele Cascardi will tell the International
Family Violence Research Conference today at the University of New Hampshire in
Durham.
Cascardi emphasizes that
contact basically means pushing and shoving and is considered "no big
deal" by the kids - although it concerns those who worry that such
behavior could escalate later. Her team is testing a school-based prevention
program to heighten awareness among sixth- through eighth-graders
Arresting
research
Other researchers have
found girls to be physically aggressive, Cascardi says. Sociologists speculate
that such behavior often is seen as more acceptable from girls today.
Research presented this
month at the Penn School of Social Work's Conference on Intimate Violence
concerned the behavior of women. More are being arrested for assaulting their
male partners, a result not expected by advocates who support laws to protect
women from domestic violence, says Sue Osthoff of the National Clearinghouse
for the Defense of Battered Women.
Osthoff says that as more
jurisdictions require police officers to make an arrest when answering a call
about domestic violence, more women - who may have struck men in self-defense -
are being arrested. Her information is anecdotal: Nobody monitors such
statistics at a national level.
But landmark researcher
Richard Gelles of the Penn School of Social Work says his research shows that
women hit men just as men hit women, and it is not surprising that more women
are being arrested. "When you set out the nets for tuna, you are going to
pull some dolphins in," he says. "And advocates for women will have
to wrestle with that."
The Justice Department
study does not exonerate women. That project, which lasted 21 years, found that
27% of young women and 34% of young men had been physically abused by a
partner, and 37% of women and 22% of men said they had perpetrated the
violence.
Nobody - advocates for
women or for men, researchers, concerned social scientists - suggests that the
results of most physical abuse are the same for men and women.
"This is not an equal
playing field," Gelles says. Virtually all the scientific studies show
that women are much more apt to be hurt. And they are much more likely to be
killed by a domestic partner.
"There are now about
500 male victims a year and in excess of 1,200 females," Gelles says.
For such reasons,
advocates for battered women are reluctant to read newspaper headlines saying
women and men hit each other at about the same rates.
p6
The day after USA TODAY
reported on the Justice Department study, Juley Fulcher of the National
Coalition Against Domestic Violence called to say, in part, "It is hurtful
to people to be able to claim that (domestic violence) is going both ways, that
nobody is really to blame."
The public, she says,
often only reads headlines and doesn't evaluate the study involved. Battered
women, she says, "are much less likely to get assistance if there are
people saying this is a two-way street. We hear callous remarks like 'Let them
beat each other up.' ... We don't want to give the public an excuse to turn
their backs on domestic violence, the way we did 10 or 20 years ago."
The Justice Department
study was co-authored by psychology professor Terrie Moffitt, now on sabbatical
from the University of Wisconsin-Madison. The research was done with 1,037
young New Zealand adults, 52% of them men and 48% women.
The study didn't include
"who started each incident or if some of the acts were in self-defense,
but it is clear that in most cases of partner violence in this age group, the
parties are involved in mutual violence," Moffitt's report says.
Straus and Gelles say the
Moffitt study is sound: Their research shows that women and men attack their
partners at similar rates.
Patricia Tjaden also
applauds the study, but her research produced a different result: Women are
three times more likely to be assaulted in some way over a lifetime by a male
partner than the reverse, and they are seven to 14 times more likely to be
beaten, choked or threatened with a gun. Her research for the nonprofit Center
for Policy Research was sponsored by two government agencies.
Unanswered
questions
Why the discrepancies in
such heavy-duty studies?
"That is the
million-dollar question," Tjaden says. "After 20 years of research in
this area, we are now left pondering the most basic questions. How prevalent is
partner violence, and is there parity between the sexes?"
Tjaden says that when
researchers ask only about being victimized, they get more men as batterers. If
researchers ask about being victimized and victimizing others, they get more
equality between the sexes. A lot of scholars agree, she says, that "women
are just more likely to admit stuff than men are" and will confess to
hitting a partner while a man won't. It also is more socially acceptable for a
woman to fess up than it is for a man.
Straus says
domestic-violence studies are a minefield. The quarrels start over definitions.
Some define abuse broadly and include emotional mistreatment. Some include
pushing and shoving, [Incredibly and disgracefully, London's Home Office 1999
Research Study 196, A question of evidence?
Investigating and prosecuting rape in the 1990s, includes pushing as a form of violence, see p19. -
Ed.] while others stick to physical
assaults that are intended to cause injury. And some ask about a lifetime
pattern of abuse, while others focus on the past 12 months.
Studies tend to fall into
two broad categories, Straus says. Those based on actual crime statistics
usually show low overall rates of assault, but more by men than women. When an
arrest is made, the injury is more apt to be serious and is still more apt to
be inflicted by a man.
Also, context matters.
When victims are asked in terms of crime, they may not think a slap or kick is
serious and won't report it, he says.
But what Straus calls
"family conflict" studies focus on a broader definition. They include
assaults that don't result in injury. Routinely, he says, "family-conflict
studies have found about equal rates of assault by the male and female partner."
The two types of studies,
he says, focus on "different groups of people and reflect different
aspects of domestic assault." Women's groups tend to focus on crime
studies that document battered women, he says, but crime studies might not
reflect the population at large.
Both types of studies are
valid and needed, Straus says. "Society would lose if either side gives up
their perspective."
Which particular study
catches the public's eye truly matters, experts say: The statistics influence
policy decisions, such as the funding of women's shelters.
Tense
confrontations
The confrontation over
findings can get ugly. Straus says one of his colleagues received a bomb threat
when she found women to be partners in violence. [In England, Erin Pizzey had
to have police protection. - Ed.] Some of his graduate students have been told
they will never get a job if they work with him, he says, and he and other
peers have been booed from speakers' podiums. Virtually all of the studies have
critics. The family-conflict methodology pioneered by Gelles and Straus is
"irresponsible and totally flawed," says
Joan Zorza, editor of the
Domestic Violence Report. The method, she says, intentionally sees violence as
part of a family system and therefore tends to find "men and women equally
violent."
Tjaden is convinced that
"women are the primary victims of intimate-partner violence." But,
she says, "I regard myself as a researcher and scientist, not an
advocate." Scientists, she says, "don't poke fingers at each other
and say, 'My numbers are right, and yours are wrong.'
"It may be we are
measuring two different things," she says. "That is where future
research has to go."
Letters
Mr. David Rudnick wrote an
article in The Times this week about
making punishment fit the crime, (15th or 16th Sept.), and drew attention to
the case at Southwark Crown Court of Lee Tate who admitted the manslaughter of
a prize winning researcher, Mr Seung Lee, of Clare College, Cambridge in an
unprovoked attack whilst Mr. Seung was taking a stroll with his wife, sister
and two friends. The judge sentenced him to 2 ½ years in prison. Later that month at Manchester Crown Court, M/s
Carla Hunter admitted running over and killing Gina Armitage, another motorist,
after a road rage incident. She deliberately
drove her Mercedes car backwards, then forwards over the victim's prostrate
body after running her down! An initial manslaughter charge was dropped!
Hunter was given a year's imprisonment for dangerous driving. Do you think a Mr. Hunter would have had a manslaughter
charge dropped or would it have been made one of murder? And even if against
all expectations the manslaughter charge had been dropped would it have only
been a year's jail? Contrast that with the man who got six weeks jail for
common assault for smacking a female student's bottom in exhuberance when he
was in a celebratory mood which was reported the next day in the Times.
....
I find Ill-Eagle
interesting, illuminating and a good index to the UL's prejudice and
discrimination against men and hope you can long continue it.
- Jim Tye, Abergavenny
.... I suggest that you print the address of Mankind in Ill-Eagle....
PS Congratulations
on the excellent job that you are all doing. I am sure that many men are very
grateful to you. -Wynne Hobey, Bath
INPOW
The
Family Court Welfare Service & The Family Division: A Question of Abuse, available from INPOWw, 4 Cardcross St.,
London W6 0DR
I am concerned that this
beautifully written piece by Oliver Cyriax on the Court Welfare Officer scandal
languishes unnoticed in a corner of our UKMM website, www.ukmm.org.uk/camp/inpoww.htm
Oliver has worked long and hard on this matter, and his conclusions are
devastating. - Ed
The
nation's health
- Daily Mail
Comment, p12, 24sep99
".... men suffering
from prostate cancer stand no better chance of survival than if they lived in
achingly-poor Estonia or Slovenia .... The Govt spends 100 times as much on
breast cancer as on cancer of the prostate .... the attitude towards prostate
cancer in this country remaiins a scandal that needs to be addressed with
considerable urgency."
Victory
for men on winter fuel may cost £20m
- Martin Fletcher, The Times 24sep99, p17
Civil Rights organisation Liberty helped Mr Taylor, a member of Parity,
tel. 01344 621167, which campaigns for equal rights for men and women, to take
his case for entitlement to a winter fuel
p7
payment between the ages
of 60 and 65, which women receiving a state pension are entitled to, to the
European Court. He is now 90% certain to get the law changed. Help the Aged said; "20,000 people
die of cold-related illnesses every year."
David Lindsay of Parity also has his eyes on unfairness
over bus passes, and eventually on the state pension age. I would inform him
that a recent European Court decision said that if someone failed to make a
claim because his own country's laws unlawfully said he would fail, then he
could not be penalised for failing to make the claim. "(5) Until the directive has been
properly transposed into national law, a member state cannot rely on an
individual's failure to pursue proceedings to assert his or her community
rights, even after these have been declared by a ruling of the Court of
Justice, as a reason for refusal to pay benefits in compliance with the
principle of equal treatment. This is because the effect of continuing to
retain provisions of national law which deny such benefits is to make it
difficult or impossible for individuals to ascertain the full extent of their
rights, and thus to infringe the principle of legal certainty which is also
fundamental in community law: judgment of 25 July 1991 in case C-208/90 Emmot
v. Minister for Social Welfare [1991] ECR 4269". This means that Lindsay should think in
terms of a class action over the state pension which will make retrospective
claims for men between age 60 and 65. It is important to bring this country's
government to its knees for ignoring European legislation which enforces equal
rights for men as well as women. This Govt has only obeyed the European laws
when they favoured women, and consistently, selectively, ignored those same
laws when it came to parity for men. Our Govt has behaved thus because it is
riddled with radical feminists. The backlog of Govt liability to men will make
the £1 billion litigation by women against the MoD over inequality look like
chicken feed. These bigoted feminists in Govt who have denied equal rights to
men should be sacked for bringing our Govt to its knees by ignoring European
injunctions when they benefit men.
I did not embark on this
exercise; vindictive women did. Other women failed to restrain them. This means
that women have to lose the historic broadband discrimination in their favour,
which virtually everyone is brainwashed into not noticing, although it is
obvious. In the age of chivalry, which extended well beyond 1960, when Greer
was falsely claiming victimhood for women soon after wholesale male slaughter
in war, no man ever published a complaint at being conscripted and then dying
for his country; dying for his unconscripted womenfolk, who sat at home
knitting socks for the soldiers in the trenches. We were all brainwashed into
feeling pity for the German women who would never marry because of the first
world war's losses, rather than for the dead young men. Recently, I asked my
friend Mary; "Would you rather be single or dead?" She replied;
"Single."
"Women and children
first into the lifeboats," although women, with an extra layer of fat,
survive longer in the sea. Because other women failed to restrain the bigots
like Jay, we have to look more objectively at issues of equality. Heads the
woman wins, tails the man loses, will only cause deepening social disaster, for
women as well as for men, and particularly for children, as we are now seeing.
Did a poodle-man Martin
Fletcher choose the mealy-mouthed heading, or was it his feminist editor? - Ed
A
vicious incubus in Govt; one of many
".... In honeyed words,
Jay tried to repair the damage [done by the Women's Unit's ignorance]. 'Society
is indebted to mums who play a crucial role,' she said. .... Tell that to
Gordon Brown, the chancellor, who is deliberately penalising those mothers who
stay at home. Tell it to the gender wareriors behind the Women's Unit.... The
Women's Unit .... speaks not for ordinary women but for privileged feminists
.... delivers .... self-serving and dishonest rhetoric ...." - Melanie Phillips, Sunday Times, 10oct99, sect. 1, p10.
Phone 0171 273 8880 and
ask for your free copy of "Living Without Fear", a vicious
anti-social propaganda document published with your (tax) money. Also ask for
the Voices, the magazine that
Melanie is attacking.
Divorced
dads ready to wage a revolution
- Kathleen Parker,
The Orlando
Sentinel, 10oct99.
WASHINGTON - Dr. Ned
Holstein, physician and president of the Massachusetts-based Fathers and
Families, is projecting numbers, graphs and percentages on the screen. He uses
words such as strategy, constituency and, yes, even revolution.
No longer a glossary word
in history books, the R-word is being revived by divorced fathers who,
impatient with lawyers, legislators and judges, are ready to bloody their white
flags.
One cannot exaggerate the
extent of anger, pain and frustration among the hundreds of thousands - maybe
millions - of men who now constitute what is loosely known as the Fatherhood
Movement. I've met many of them, talked to them, listened.
These doctors, lawyers,
psychologists, lobbyists and laborers are not an insignificant body. Many are
well-educated; more are getting organized; all are motivated by a degree of
anger that is potentially volatile and should not be ignored. They've reached
the boiling point, they say, and they've exhausted the system.
Holstein's presentation
was one of many at the recent Children's Rights Council's annual meeting in
Alexandria, Va. The CRC is one of the oldest, better organized of the 500 or so
"fathers" groups in the United States that deal with issues of divorce
and family. I qualify "fathers" because, though most groups focus on
men's issues, many of their members are women who also believe that children
need, want and deserve fathers.
I attended the CRC meeting
as an invited (unpaid) speaker and listened to Holstein's presentation with a
mixture of concern and sadness but, more important, of apprehension. I believe
in the sincerity of these men, in their desire to be a part of their children's
lives, in their sense that they've been mistreated by courts that award
children like chattel to mothers and treat fathers as mere financial providers.
Concern and sadness are
reasonable responses to that understanding and to the fact that 82 percent of
children from divorced families have little more than a visitation relationship
with their fathers. According to the 1989 Census, 37.9 percent of divorced
fathers have no access to their children.
Granted, not all these
disenfranchised dads are model citizens. Some really are bad guys who don't
care about their kids, beat up their wives or shirk duty and responsibility.
But experience and the preponderance of research do not support the widespread
belief that most men are deadbeat, abusive and neglectful, nor the public
policies that treat all men accordingly.
Were mothers routinely
robbed of their children, barred from their homes and jailed for failing to pay
extortionate sums, we would see blood in the streets. And, curiously, sympathy
from the grandstands.
Men get no such sympathy,
and that's where the apprehension comes in. When people are pushed to their
limit, when they feel mistreated, unheard and unseen; when they feel that
they've been robbed of the only things that matter - things tend to get ugly.
"You can only torture
people for so long," said Stuart Miller, senior legislative analyst for
the American Fathers Coalition. "You can't steal something as important as
someone's children and money and property and think you can walk away without
any repercussions."
Miller predicts that
Holstein's theories of social change will seem like a dream compared with the
nightmares simmering in someone's living room in every town or city, in every
state, every night of the week. Violence is inevitable, he said, as evidenced
by the American courthouse decor these days. Call it police-baroque. Only the
Berlin Wall had more barricades, metal detectors and armed guards.
"Why would the
government be so afraid of the people?" asked Miller. "Is it because
the people are bad actors or because the government is acting bad?"
Good question. The answer is, we're all acting badly within a
system that treats divorcing couples as enemies, courtrooms as war zones,
judges as arbiters of issues more emotional and psychological than legal, and
children as hostages to be traded for dollars.
The divorce system is
counterintuitive and morally bankrupt, and needs reinventing before talk of
revolution becomes action. What the organized fathers' groups want isn't wrong
or mean-spirited but right and fair to
p8
children. Who among us can
blame a man, wrongfully denied his own
child, for shouting out that he was framed?
E-mail: kparker@kparker.com
A
Practice Note of 26 June 1978
An independent
investigation by the Law Society concerned at the proliferation of ex parte (secret)
injunctions reported as follows;
"An ex parte
application should not be made, or granted, unless there is a real immediate
danger of serious injury or irreparable damage. A recent examination of ex
parte applications shows that nearly 50 per cent were unmeritorious, being made
days, or even weeks, after the last incident of which complaint was made. This
wastes time, causes needless expense, usually to the legal aid fund, and is
unjust to respondents ...." - B
Bassingham & C Harmer, Law
& Practice in Matrimonial Causes, 4th edn., pub. Butterworths
1985, p332.
[1978] 2 All ER
919, [1978] 1 WLR 925
The situation has greatly
deteriorated since that report. I am a long term Quaker, and I was ousted in a
ten minute secret court hearing without my knowledge by perjured affidavit
falsely charging violence, which my wife took to the court. So were most of the
divorced men I know. - Ed
East
Midlands Branch of ManKind
William Coulson, 0116 264
0351, tells me that they are formally starting the East Midlands Branch.
Against
the Grain
The comment line is
atg@courttv.com. Please write. They are
very interested in the subject.
Against The Grain.
Fred Graham talks on US TV
with with Howard University Professor Stephen Baskerville about the rights of
divorced fathers.
AGAINST THE GRAIN 10/15/99
FRED: Welcome back to
AGAINST THE GRAIN, a contrarian look at the law. This week we have Howard
University Professor Stephen Baskerville who says that divorced fathers paying
child support have fewer rights than common criminals. Now, Professor
Baskerville, why do you say that?
BASKERVILLE: Well, it's
more than just divorced fathers paying child support, its any father. What we
are seeing in this country is the criminalization of fatherhood and by that I
mean that any father at any time can be turned into a criminal not because of
what he's done but because of what the government has done. Throughout this country, fathers who are
accused of no wrongdoing, fathers who have not agreed to a divorce or given
grounds for a divorce are being hauled into family courts, they are being
stripped of custody of their children, all rights taken away to make decisions
about their children.
FRED: Because their wives
are suing them.
BASKERVILLE: At the simple
request of their spouse, that's right. They are ordered to sat away from their
children most of the time, they are ordered to begin making child support
payments, they are ordered to pay the fees of lawyers they have not hired, for
services they have not requested and if they object or refuse or fail to abide
by these orders, they can be ncarcerated without trial, without charge and
without an attorney.
FRED: Anyway, this just
sounds so Dickensonian.
BASKERVILLE: It is
astounding, the reason it is happening is because we have created in this
country a very dangerous machine, it's a machine that thrives and grows by
taking as many children as possible away from their fathers.
FRED: What is the machine?
BASKERVILLE: The machine
is the divorce industry, it consists of bureaucratic police, social workers and
many other people who have all one thing in common and that is having as many
children as possible taken away from their fathers.
FRED: Now, some people
would say, this has grown up because of the problem of the "deadbeat
dad" that doesn't pay child support.
BASKERVILLE: Yes, the
American public has been subject to a massive propaganda campaign by
discoverment that is designed to vilify fathers. The "deadbeat dad",
I don't want to say doesn't exist, but it has been the subject of this huge propaganda
campaign. Most fathers, most divorced fathers, in fact do pay child support,
over 90% when they have visitation rights with their children, but the larger
issue here is not why fathers are paying child support, the issue is why they
are being made to pay child support in the first place. Child support
guidelines are, in fact, are devised by the very people who enforce and apply
them. They are made not by legislatures often, but by courts and by child
support enforcement agencies.
FRED: Now, we read about
men's rights groups, this sort of thing, why haven't they been able to level
the scales of justice?
BASKERVILLE: Well, there's
a huge interest here, there's a huge special interest as I say who have a
vested interest in perpetuating this regime, this regime of what amounts to
forced divorce, of forcing divorce upon fathers and their children and then
plundering the fathers for everything they have. Child support orders which can
be as much as two-thirds or more of their income. Legal fees that are in the
thousands and tens of thousands of dollars against fathers who have not hired
these lawyers and who have not even sought their services.
FRED: Well, do you see any
way that this can be rectified, the political process, litigation?
BASKERVILLE: What needs to
be done is two things. First, we need to arrive at a consensus in this country
that no child should ever be taken away from a parent who has done nothing
wrong at then very least, a parent who has not agreed to divorce and custody.
Secondly, we need drastic reform of the family court systems. These courts
operate in secrecy with very little oversight. One family court judge says that
family court judges, the power is almost unlimited, and this is true, unlimited
power is unaccountable power and it is now out of control. These judges and
these courts need to be investigated where necessary, they need to be
prosecuted and it needs to be made clear to them they have no right and no
power to take children away from parents who have done nothing wrong.
FRED: Professor Stephen
Baskerville, very interesting. Thank you very much for sharing your thoughts
with us.
BASKERVILLE: Thank you.
Send e-mail to Fred at
atg@courttv.com.
President's
Report
By the President of the
American Coalition for Fathers and Children
email 7oct99
acfclist@usa.net
Reprinted with
permission.
There is good news and bad
news for families as this is written. The good news is that the importance of
fathers in their children's lives is increasingly acceptable to discuss
publicly, after so many years of suppression.
The harmful effects on children of father absence that we have been
talking about for years, are becoming increasingly a matter of public common
knowledge.
The bad news is that most
of government and the family court system is still lost in the dark ages of
family policy. Although now forced to
pay lip service to the importance of fathers, most of the solutions to the
crisis of families proposed by politicians, bureaucrats, and their legions of
fellow-traveler consultants and "experts", amount to thinly veiled
attempts to simply continue or intensify the same empire building bureaucratic
mentality that has already destroyed half of the families in America.
It is truly astounding to
sit in hearings in Congress and watch the parade of witnesses pandering to the
status quo with rosy colored reports of "progress" in this, and
"progress" in that, while Rome continues to burn around us. Most witnesses are professional-looking
young women fresh from women's studies college programs spouting the same
fantasyland rhetoric about women and children as eternally helpless victims,
and the need to "force fathers to be more responsible." It is amazing that advocates who appear so
concerned with their "self-esteem", talk about themselves as if they
were wallflower victims in a Gothic novel, waiting for Prince Charming (read
Big Brother government), to come rescue them from their helplessness. No
self-respecting real woman would ever talk this way, and it is even more amazing
that this kind of victimology rhetoric is taken so seriously in the halls of
Congress.
If thirty years of such
policies have only made the situation of millions of families unbelievably bad,
it is hard to see how even more draconian child support collection,
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and
"streamlined" procedures for throwing fathers out of their homes and
their children's lives without due process of law on often frivolous
restraining order charges, will help fathers remain part of their children's
lives, but this is a mystery that I leave to the reader to ponder.
Older professional-looking
women on the Committees appear to sagely consider this testimony, while
plotting to squeeze more money out of the Federal Treasury for their political
constituency. Most of the men on these Committees look like scared rabbits, who
when they dare to speak, usually utter no more than mealy-mouthed obeisance to
the blatantly obvious "power structure." The few legitimate
representatives of the fatherhood movement who are allowed to speak at all, are
almost totally ignored. How these
people expect to solve the crisis of fatherhood without listening to fatherhood
representatives, is a mystery that I also leave to the reader to ponder.
Based on his experience
with the spectacle of ancient Athens, Aristotle believed that democracy
inevitably leads to tyranny. All too aware of this tendency of democracy, the
Founding Fathers instituted a Constitution to try to prevent this in America.
The current power structure has almost completely forgotten the Constitution,
and until supporters of the fatherhood movement get organized, the feeding
frenzy of pigs at the trough of Federal dollars will undoubtedly continue,
despite its obvious devastating effects on American families. Fathers will not achieve equality in the
home that women have achieved in the workplace, until this power structure
learns to exercise power responsibly, and they are a very long way from
that. Instead of all this talk about
the need to make fathers more responsible, many of these people should look in
a mirror, and pull the plank out of their own eye.
WHAT ACFC IS DOING
ACFC believes that the
best way to deal with the fantasyland of Federal and state family policy, is to
continue its mission of public education through the media that are willing to
deal with reality, and to continue our grassroots organizing. Until public attitudes shift decisively, and
until the fatherhood movement is represented by organizations with larger
membership, little progress should be expected. Once these goals are achieved, we believe that the politicians
will follow like the herd of sheep that they are. This is simply the reality of
politics.
ACFC has been consistently
in the media representing our members with the word that children need both
parents. This doesn't happen by
accident but only by hard work, dedication and persistence. ACFC puts out
frequent press releases to get our message out to the media, and then works
with media who call with requests for information in an effort to educate the
public on our issues and to help create positive change for our children and
families.
These efforts have
resulted in the following media stories. The June 21st, 1999 issue of Time
magazine mentioned ACFC in a story about "Deadbolted-Dads" and their
access and visitation problems.
"Deadbolted Dads" was also the topic of the Montel Williams
show where we appeared talking about fathers who are locked out of their
children's lives with no way to get back in. ACFC was quoted on the front page
of the New Orleans Times Picayune newspaper objecting to a new law that passed
36-0 in the Senate, and 99-0 in the House, that allows fathers behind in child
support to be publicly shamed by putting their names, addresses, and birthdates
on a web-site and on television. As a result of the newspaper article featuring
our quote, ACFC Executive Director, Dianna Thompson, appeared on a large
Louisiana radio station debating the state of Louisiana's Child Support
Enforcement Director. The following day
she appeared on a large radio network debating the sponsor of the new law.
Earlier she had appeared
on national television on FOX News Now to discuss the National Child Support
Registry that recently went into effect nationwide. CNN listed ACFC as a
reference for the story they did on the Massachusetts gender bias lawsuit. More
recently, the October issue of Redbook lists ACFC as a fatherhood
resource. Our legal spokesperson,
Attorney Jeffery Leving appeared on the Leeza Gibbons show objecting to custodial
parent move-always. Stuart Miller
represented ACFC on MSNBC, a national cable television network talking about
fatherhood issues. A Fathers Day article written by Dianna Thompson and Stuart
Miller ran in a Virginia newspaper and was picked up on the Knight Ridder news
wire.
ACFC has written numerous
letters to legislators and policy makers on behalf of our affiliate
organizations who are out there working hard on supporting or opposing
legislation that will affect our members.
ACFC was a speaker in Los Angeles before 31 judges and commissioners for
LA County discussing Access and Visitation Denial.
As a result of these media
efforts, ACFC is now recognized as the place the media turn to for the
fatherhood perspective on national issues. These efforts have had significant impact
on the changing climate of public opinion about our issues. And ACFC has grown
rapidly in the past two years, now with 92 chapters and affiliate groups across
the country. There is much more work to be done, but as a result of this
coordinated plan, fatherhood issues finally have a voice on the national stage.
MannKind and Ill Eagle can
be reached at;
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Lansdowne Row, London
W1X 8HL.
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AL3 4JR, England. ( 01727 864257
(4) Email :- ivorcatt@
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JP
fell asleep
"A man's conviction
.... for .... road rage has been quashed after a magistrate fell asleep in his
trial ...."
- The Guardian,
29sep99, p10
Ill Eagle 6, nov/dec99
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Primary
problems
From Ted Diggins,
a letter to the Daily Mail, 20oct99
"Further to the lack
of male primary school teachers, I know of several men who have been
unsuccessful in getting accepted on teacher-training courses.
"At the age of 40, my
husband decided that he would fulfil his dream of becoming a primary school
teacher. He did an access course and was given an outstanding achievement
award. While not studying, he helped at our young son's infant school, where
the head gave him an excellent reference.
"However, the college
didn't seem so keen. Throughout his interview he found it impossible to make
eye-contact with the female interviewers and he felt like the invisible man.
"Not surprisingly, he
was turned down. When he asked why, he was told that he should read the Times
Educational Supplement and get more classroom experience.
"Meanwhile, we know
of a single mother who has been accepted on this year's course.
"She told us she
hadn't set foot in a classroom since leaving school and admitted she didn't
understand many of the questions put to her at interview."
- Frances Daly,
Broadstairs, Kent.
"No woman should be
authorised to stay at home and raise her children. Society should be totally different.
Women should not have that choice precisely because, if there is such a choice,
too many women will make that one." The first feminist,
Simone de Beauvior, quoted by
Melanie Phillips in her 1999 book..
Educating
boys
".... at the age of
seven, .... 60% of boys and 71% of girls reached the expected level in reading.
.... at 14, 54% of boys and 72% of girls reached the expected level.
"In English, the
difference was greatest among 14-year-olds in working class Islington, where
63% of girls and only 30% of boys reached the expected level, and in middle
class Wokingham, .... 88% and 61% ....
".... the worst
performing authorities all being in white working class and multi-racial inner
city areas.
"Overall, the
proportions who passed [GCSE at A to C in] English, maths, science and a modern
language - the foundation of a decent education - were 34% of girls and a mere
24% of boys. Those are the figures that really matter .... "
John Clare, Education
Editor,
Daily
Telegraph, 7 and
27oct99
No mention of the
disappearing male teacher
Some years ago in
Islington, where boys' performance is now worst in the country, the then Head
of Education in the Borough (who has now moved on to greater glory with New
Labour) decreed that boys must all sit at the back of the room in key subjects,
so as to reduce the disadvantage of girls.
Now they are performing so terribly, have boys been allowed back nearer the
teacher? - Ed
Sex
Equality for Older Men
PARITY defeats UK Govt
over fuel payment discrimination - p4.
"single-sex
classes to help boys ....
Rachel Sylvester
Daily
Telegraph, 25oct99
"Mixed state schools
are to be encouraged to hold single-sex lessons to improve the educational
standards achieved by boys.
"Ministers are
concerned that they are falling far behind ....
"The drive to improve
boys' performance is to be made a priority during this school year, following
recent GCSE results showing they are falling ever further behind girls."
Rachel did not mention the
problem of the disappearing male school teacher, or of the disappearing father. We know that both correlate closely with
school failure for boys. - Ed
"Parents
'want more men' in childcare
Alexander Frean,
Times, 6nov99, p5
".... many children ....
in single-parent families, spent their early years almost exclusively in the
company of women ....
".... Many [parents]
.... saw men as good role models for boys .... Single mothers thought male
workers were especially beneficial for their children ....
"Some [parents] did
accept, however, that a policy which only allowed female staff to change
nappies could be helpful ...."
So the witch-craze
prejudice continues, even in appeals
for more male adult contact for children. - Ed
Men in
the Nursery,
pub. Institute of
Education.
"Lone
parents to rent a gran
- Jack Grimston,
Sunday Times,
14nov99, sect. 1 p4
".... Children
without grandmothers will soon be able to have publicly funded substitutes
under a government-backed scheme to be announced tomorrow. Mothers with small
children who do not have close relatives to help out can apply for 'community
grandmothers'.
"'It will be like
recreating an extended family,' said the Department for Education and
Employment. 'When a person is feeling low, they have someone to turn to.' ....
"Barry Wirrall,
director of the Cheltenham Group [and ManKind's Secretary from the Worral]
...., said it was 'absolutely outrageous' to spend government money on the
programme. 'Good fathers are more important than surrogate grandmothers. It is
ridiculous. Three million children, a third of the total, are in single-parent
families, and divorce settlements systematically separate fathers from their
children.'
"The community
grandmother project .... will be announced tomorrow by David Blunkett ....
"The programme aims
.... reducing low-weight babies ...."
[Single Mother Home
children (SMH) are much lighter than children living with both father and
mother. - Ed]
[I remember that my case was typical when the state connived in my
wife's defiance of my contact order. However, this created a problem of care
for her. I found that I was welcome to care for the children of another family,
who in turn were illegally cut off from their
own father. By caring for another's children, I did not threaten the
New Order. Quite the reverse. I helped to fill the void. ('.... It would be far
more effective to undermine the social and legal need and support for the
marriage contract. .... simply extend legal recognition to different types of
household and relationships, and .... end such privileges as the unjustified
married man's tax allowance. .... the right of all women, whether married or
single, to give legitimacy to their children." - Carol Smart, The Ties That Bind, RKP 1984.) Biological
fathers' access to their own
children threatens to undermine the radical feminist's ideal of the SMH or
Gay/Lesbian family unit as the norm. Substitutes for the father - an old women
or even, as a last resort, other men - have to be found, preferably with govt
funding, as in Blunkett's community grandmother project. The primary objective
of radical feminists is, not to have mothers bring up their children alone,
which would be tedious for them. The primary objective is to
p2
cut children off from
their own fathers. However, in doing so, the child loses half its grandparents,
aunts, uncles and cousins, which then have to be replaced by Blunkett's
project. The view that today's gender racists cannot possibly hold such totally
mad ideas is not valid. Hitler, another racist, seriously promoted even madder
ideas. - Ed]
Homelessness
and Single Parenting
-Janet Daly, Daily Telegraph 16nov99, p28
".... these two
problems - homelessness and single parenting - are not unconnected. The most
recent statistics show that while only seven per cent of children living with
their natrual parents ever run away from home (even briefly), around twice that
number from single parent families do so, and fully three times as many abscond
from families where there is a step-parent. .... where there is real abuse or
serious conflict with a legal step-parent or a mother's boyfriend. So the
problem of family breakdown, which has been encouraged by the state's own
benefit system, feeds into the problem of rough sleeping ...."
"UK
guilty of child neglect
Clare Dyer,
Guardian, 6nov99, p2
Five children were
subjected to 'torture or inhuman or degrading treatment' .... for more than
four years, the European Commission on human rights has ruled. .... Britain had
violated srticle 3 of the European Convention on human rights by failing to
protect the children ....
"The three sisters
and two brothers .... were subjected to extreme physical and emotional neglect.
".... Their father
twice asked the council to take them into care ....
"But .... only ....
after their mother threatened to batter them unless they were taken away ....
described .... as .... horrific."
The Guardian's PC reporter is careful to avoid
telling us whether the father had been ousted. After all, she had to get past
her poodle-man editor! - Ed
Fear of
flirting
- Jenny McCartney,
Sunday
Telegraph,
31oct99, p37
"An Australian
'communication expert' called Allan Pease attracted widespread attention last
week when he told British men that they do not touch other people enough.
....
"Most men are aware
that tactile gestures - especially those directed towards women and children -
can be woefully misinterpreted. The fear of complaints and litigation is now
entrenched ....
"It is even more
dangerous for a man to touch any child not his own. Hysteria about paedophiles
is rampant.... The Scouts have a shortage of volunteer leaders.... Male
trainees for primary-school teaching are reportedly deeply anxious....
"Touch is a language
that children learn to speak and understand from an early age. But if friends,
teachers, and even relatives are increasingly wary of touching children in an
affectionate way, how can children learn that language? America and Britain
have mingled a weird sex-obsession with puritanism, in a style unthinkable in
Spain or Italy, and ended up by viewing touching as equivalent to sex.
....
"If Mr. Pease is
really worried about why [British] men aren't tactile at work, perhaps he ought
to look at what is stopping them."
The real
betrayal of our lost children
- Lynda Lee-Potter,
Daily
Mail, 20oct99, p13
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"Learning to
relate to speak the truth, which is
that most runaways on our streets are the sons and daughters of women who are
constantly pregnant by different men. One can scarcely call them fathers,
because they have neither love nor care for their offspring.
"We have created a
welfare system where irresponsible women know that they can continue to conceive
and state money will always be available.
"It's an evil, not a
compassionate, system because it's the offspring who suffer. However, any
suggestion that we have to do something to change things is greeted with
derision.
"Frequently I'm
condemned as a columnist who attacks single mothers, when my concern is for the
children. It's surely madness to say any woman has the right to have as many
babies as she wants by uncaring men and expect the state to support her.
"We've helped to
create a twilight world for vulnerable adolescents and 50,000 of them run away
from intolerable homes every year.
....
"Any sensible
government ought to give every financial incentive possible to couples to get
married.
....
"Has Tony Blair got
the courage* he will undeniably need? A year after he became Prime Minister we
discussed the problem. He explained it would take time.
"I'd say time is
running out."
[* On 24oct99 p14, the
Sunday Times reported that Feminazi Baroness Jay is a trustee of Tony Blair's
scandal-ridden "blind trust". If he fired her, as he has to do to
save the family, she might leak scandal just as Robinson is now doing. Saving
the family might be incompatible with Vanity Blair saving himself. - Ed]
"Full
rights to fathers outside marriage
- Marie Woolf, Telegraph, 8dec99
"Unmarried fathers
are to be given full parental rights over their children's upbringing ....
"Ministers hope the
move will encourage unmarried fathers to take a greater day-to=-day interest
....
"'This is one more
threat to .... marriage,' said Julian Brazier, Chair of Conservative Family
Campaign.
".... couples who are
married have an 81% chance of staying together after 10 years but [cohabitors]
.... have only a 15% chance, unless they marry later."
"Rape
claim student jailed for wasting police time
-Sean O'Neill,
Daily Telegraph,
30oct99, p3
"A university student
.... in an elaborate attempt to claim that she had been raped was jailed for
two months yesterday. ....
".... officers had
been diverted from other major inquiries including a genuine rape case, the
manslaughter of a baby and the investigation into the murder .... of
14-year-old Kate Bushell. ...."
"Mistakes
found in half of CSA cases
- Jon Hibbs, Political
Correspondent,
Daily Telegraph,
29oct99
"Mistakes are being
made in more than half of maintenance assessments handled by the Child Support
Agency ....
"The annual report of
the independent Chief Child Support officer .... blames [many] factors
including .... a drive to clear 324,000 cases from the backlog and an
unexpected rise in cases.
"The DSS said the
caseload would continue to rise for another two or three years .... [to] about
a million cases a year."
"Inquiry
team to monitor the CPS
by Rachel Sylvester,
Daily
Telegraph 16nov99,
pp1-2
".... Ministers have decided to appoint a new chief inspector of
the CPS {Crown Prosecution Service], because they fear that incompetence is
leading to the conviction of innocent people while criminals escape prison.
...."
p3
Editorial
The
Sex-Change Society. Feminised Britain and the Neutered Male - Melanie Phillips, pub. Social Market
Foundation nov99. £12 from Sunday Times tel. 0870 165 8585.
Previous watersheds known
to me were;
Daniel Amneus, The Garbage Generation, pub. Primrose
Press 1990
Neil Lyndon, No More Sex War, pub. Sinclair-Stevenson
1992
Warren Farrell, The Myth of Male Power, pub. Fourth Estate
1993
Patricia Morgan, Farewell
to the Family?, pub. IEA 1995
Of these, Amneus and
Morgan still have to be read.
(I missed David Thomas,
George Gilder and some others.)
Now comes Melanie with a
comprehensive and understanding analysis of the crisis through which the family
is going. She clearly shows that the new androgyny wave in the Home Office and
elsewhere under Adrienne Burgess - "men must change" - will only
compound the crisis and further increase the suicide rate among young men. The
gender racists who control government will only allow androgynysts to have
power and influence during the next decade or two. Only after that, with the
crisis much more severe than today, will the complex analysis developed by
Melanie, our chairman Robert Whiston and others be allowed to influence
government social policy. Melanie's book alone will be a very good primer for
someone wanting to get up and running quickly. Most of it will not be known to
most members of ManKind.
ManKind and Ill Eagle can
be reached at 0171 413 9176;
(1). ManKind, Suite 367, 2
Lansdowne Row, London
W1X 8HL.
(2) www.ukmm.org.uk
(3) The Editor, Ill Eagle, Ivor Catt,
121 Westfields, St. Albans
AL3 4JR, England. ( 01727 864257
(4) Email :- ivorcatt@
electromagnetism.demon.co.uk/
"Irvine seeks to cut 'fat cat' barrister fees
- Marie Woolf,
Telegraph, 7dec99, p2
".... paid too much
out of public funds compared to other professions. .... the £1.6 billion legal
aid budget. .... the Lord Chancellor .... saying that rates payable to lawyers
for legal aid work 'are at a level that is not sustainable'"
Bleak
House
Before it collapsed, the
Russian empire appeared impregnable to most people. Similarly our legal
industry.
There are many indications
of iminent collapse of our legal industry. However, it may teeter on for
further decades, and continue to inflict massive damage on our country.
Some years ago the woman
in Lancashire running the organisation for litigants in personal injury cases
told me that the average time a case took was seven years. Usually the claimant
dies first. The damages awarded are usually slightly more than the claimant's costs.
The whole thing is highly cynical.
When Dickens wrote Bleak House, the average time for a case
to get through Chancery was eight years. Chancery was shut down shortly
afterwards.
When the legal industry
targetted my friends the Adsheads, aiming to steal their large, valuable
Derbyshire hotel, I remember Eva Adshead saying to me, after nearly a decade in
court, that the legal industry was "just another business". (See The Hook and the Sting, on my website. -
Ed.) I find this exactly echoes Dickens' view. He had long experience as a
reporter in Chancery.
The legal industry today
is very similar to that Dickens described;
"The one principle of
English law is, to make business for itself. There is no other principle
distinctly, certainly, and consistently maintained through all its narrow
turnings. Viewed by this light it becomes a coherent scheme, and not the
monstrous maze that laity are apt to think it. Let them but once clearly
perceive that its grand principle is to make business for itself as their expense,
and surely they will cease to grumble. - p503
"Lawyers have twisted
it into such a state of bedevilment that the original merits of the case have
long disappeared from the face of the earth. It's about a Will, and trusts
under a Will - or it was, once. It's about nothing but Costs, now. We are
always appearing, and disappearing, and swearing, and interrogating, and
filing, and cross-filing, and arguing, and sealing, and motioning, and
referring, and reporting, and revolving about the Lord Chancellor and all his
satellites, and equitably waltzing ourselves off to dusty death, about Costs.
That's the great question. All the rest, by some extraordinary means, has
melted away." - p87.
In the family
court, the interests of your children, and the disposition of your home and
salary, just melt away. - Ed
Jail
threat for access row woman
by Richard Savill,
Daily
Telegraph 2sep99
"A mother was told by
a court yesterday that she could face jail if she continued to refuse to give
her former husband access to their eight-year-old son.
"The warning
coincided with concern, expressed by the London-based charity, Families Need
Fathers, that "institutionally biased family courts" do not help
fathers, most of whom want to see their children and are not absent by choice.
"At Glasgow sheriff
court, Andrea Brennan, 35, a trainee nurse, was held in a cell for four hours
after she admitted more than a dozen counts of contempt of court.
"She had failed to
allow her husband John Duffy, 41, to pick up their son, John, from school once
a week and from a police station handover point as agreed at the court.
Sheriff Kevin Drummond,
QC, ordered Brennan, of Glasgow, to be held in the cells while he considered
what action to take. When she was brought back into court her lawyer said she
promised to comply with the order.
"Sheriff Drummond
deferred sentence until Oct 29 and warned Brennan she would go to jail if she
broke her promise.
"Last night, Jim
Parton, chairman of Families Need Fathers, said: 'Courts regularly send fathers
down for contempt of court and they are not small sentences. The only woman I
know who got sent down spent 11 days in jail. Women should be treated equally
to men and court orders should be upheld. At the moment they are a joke.'"
This report is misleading.
Twice, the Appeal court in London decreed that court orders re access would not
be enforced against a defiant mother. "The interests of the child are
paramount" was used to justify this decision. It was asserted by
breathtakingly anti-social judges, one of them a woman, that a defiant mother,
if forced to allow access, might take vengeance on the child, so she must not
be thwarted by a court order.
In The Independent,
12jan94, magistrate Jasmine Salisbury said "Parents seeking legitimate contact,
and the courts they resort to, are engaged in a charade." A court order re
access is not worth the paper it is writteen on. See The Hook and the Sting, p19, on my website - Ed www.electromagnetism.demon.co.uk
"Are
you too fussy to fall in love?
Kate Saunders,
Sunday
Express, 31oct99,
p45
" .... Earlier this
month, govt statisticians predicted an explosion of singles. .... The blokes,
.... even more terrified of commitment."
"Help
us beat the cancer no one mentions
Daily
Mail Campaign p1,
2nov99
"The Daily Mail today
launches a £1million fundraising campaign to crack Britain's 'forgotten
disease', prostate cancer. .... this woefully neglected .... disease.
"Though prostate
cancer kills 10,000 men every year .... just £47,000 a year is currently spent
researching it. Yet £18 million goes on scientific projects looking as Aids,
which kills 400 a year. .... [See my website for the AIDS scandal - Ed]
".... Prostate cancer
is now the most common cancer in men, the death toll has doubled over the last
20 years and the figure is still climbing. .... Experts predict that .... One
man in ten will be affected. ....
"There are 150
organisations across the UK promoting awareness of breast cancer and raising
funds for research. Yet just one exists solely to raise the profile of prostate
cancer - the Prostate Cancer Charity. ....
p4
"[p47/49] .... we
spend almost 100 times as much on breast cancer as we do on studying and
treating cancer of the prostate. .... Breast cancer research receives funding of
about £4.3 millions a year .... [deaths were about equal.]
"There is a gross and
unfair imbalance between expenditure on breast cancer research and treatment,
and research into treatment of prostate cancer. So why has this quite appalling
disparity developed? Part of the answer must be the power of feminist groups
and women's organisations, ...."
Daily Mail 2nov99 p49 said
that in 1996, 30,000 died from prostate cancer, 35,000 died from breast cancer
and less than 5,000 from cervical cancer.
"Doctor
chosen to lead cancer care service shake-up
by Robert Shrimsley,
Daily
Telegraph, 25oct99
"A Cancer 'tsar' to
oversee all NHS treatment and to improve the service given to patients is to be
appointed today by Alan Milburn, the Health Secretary.
"Professor Michael
Richards, .... Guy's and St. Thomas's Hospital .... Mr. Milburn was given the
health brief to improve public perceptions of Government action ....
"Professor Richards's
first job will be to set national standards for treatment and he will focus
particular attention on breast and ovarian cancer. ....
"Mr Milburn ....
said: 'Cancer care should not depend on where you live. The standard of care is
too patchy.'"
Mr. Milburn believes cancer
care should be universally available, but not for men. Prostate cancer was not
mentioned. - Ed
Is Robert Shrimsley a
poodle-man, or is he just holding onto his job?- Ed
"Three
women....
-Jacqui Thornton,
Sunday Telegraph, 14nov99, p25
"Britain's record on
cancer care puts us 'in the Third World' .... condemnation of Britain's record
on cancer care. .... the Government .... was forced to hang its head."
The whole page was devoted
to shortcomings in care of breast cancer. No cancer which only a man might
catch was mentioned. - Ed
".... the health
service is structured around the health of women, spending eight times as much
on them as on men. This proportion cannot be explained solely by provision for
pregnancy and child-birth." Melanie Phillips, The Sex-Change Society, 1999, p12, tel. 020 7222 0310 for a
copy.
"Operation
offers hope for prostate patients
- Alsling Irwin, Telegraph, 14dec99
"A surgeon used a
tiny piece of nerve from a patient's foot to fix an important nerve near the
prostate .... slived apart in the cancer operation.
"If it works, [it]
will rescue the patient from incontinence and erectile dysfunction, which often
follows [prostate] sirgery."
Office
of National Statistics
reported by David Norris,
Daily
Mail, 6nov99, p39
Employment of mothers in a
relationship rose in the 1990-97 period from 61% to 68%, but the number of
single mothers taking a job increased from just 41% to 44%.
Of today's 1.7m lone
mothers, 0.6m have never been married.
"The Conservative
Family Campaign has estimated that a child born outside marriage has only a 15%
chance of its parents being together by the time it is ten."
Fathers
are 'too proud' to seek aid
David Taylor,
Sunday
Express, 31oct99
"Millions of fathers
are desperate for support for their family problems but are too proud to seek
help ....
"A national freephone
helpline launched in the summer with £1 million of Government backoing ....
just one in five of its callers are men. .... anonymously .... fathers admit
they do want help and support when the everyday trials of family life become
too much. ....
"The charity, formed
following the merger of Parentline and the National Stepfamily Association,
will also raise concerns that services provided by charities and councils to
help families are shutting fathers out."
"Call Parentline on
0808 8002222"
"It's
Many Happy Returns to the M1
Leo McKinstry,
Daily Mail,
2nov99, p13.
".... the great
motorway which celebrates its 40th birthday today.
".... Once a funeral cortege
of two hearses .... one carrying a coffin, were (sic) stopped for speeding.
"'If the police
hadn't stopped us, we might have made it to the funeral on time,' said one of
the undertakers."
Is it technically possible
to be late for your own funeral? What about missing your own birth? - Ed.
Sex
Equality for Older Men
On the 16 December in
Luxembourg, the European Court of Justice helped to redress one of several
statutory sex inequalities existing against older men in the UK when it ruled
that the present procedure for granting winter fuel payments based on state
pension age was an unlawful sex discrimination, since the ages are unequal for
men and women.
Despite its previous bland
assertions when challenged that the discrimination was not in breach of European
law, the Government promptly accepted the ruling and agreed that payments in
future would be made to all those households with anyone of age 60 or over
residing with them, so ending the present discrimination against men (and their
families) aged between 60 and 65 in entitlement to winter fuel payments. The
Government also accepted that they were obliged to backdate payments to 1997
when the scheme was introduced. The Government now has to introduce measures to
identify all men between the ages of 60 and 65, not on income support or other
qualifying benefit, who have been previously discriminated against.
The case is a victory for
PARITY, a small voluntary organisation campaigning for equal rights in law for
men and women, and for the applicant, John Taylor, an executive committee
member of PARITY, now aged 64. Mr. Taylor and his wife were denied benefit
because his retirement income was just above income support level and his wife
had no state pension in her own right.
PARITY achieved a similar
success in October 1995 when the European Court ruled that older men and women
should qualify for free NHS medical prescriptions at the same age, the ages
previously being also biased on the different state pension ages for men and
women. The Government equalised the entitlement age at 60 the next day.
New legislation enacted in
November (but yet to come into effect) providing for equal survivors benefits
for widowers can also be attributed to PARITY, which, in collaboration with
Liberty and Child Poverty Action Group, successfully challenged in the European
Court of Human Rights the previous discrimination against widowers, the
Government admitting that a case challenging such discrimination was admissible
under the Convention.
The present inequality in
the entitlement of older persons to bus-passes, again because it is based on
state pension age, is the next target for PARITY. PARITY already has a case
challenging this discrimination before the European Court of Human Rights, but
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Abuse
of rights is on our doorstep
Today is International
Human Rights Day, and it is worth pausing to reflect that too often we have
thought of human rights abuses as being outrages which happen overseas. But in
Britain, too, we have witnessed inhumanity and a drop in the standards we must
expect from a civilised world. Violence and sexual abuse against women and
children in the home is now recognised as a human rights violation.
While many are aware of
the British Council's cultural and educational activities, few know of its
extensive and innovative work in good governance, especially in the emerging
democracies. The Council is well placed to link organisations working in human
rights and children's rights. This network strengthens organisations, supports
key individuals, initiates projects and disseminates information.
The international
community is taking human rights more seriously and the change in the Zeitgeist is tangible. Last year, by
voting for an international Criminal Court, 120 countries expressed their
desire to see human rights abusers brought to justice. In the UK, we have the
landmark Pinochet decision and the new Human Rights Act.
Just as democratic rights
was the dominant idea at the start of this century, human rights will carry us
into the next with optimism.
- Baroness Helena Kennedy
of the Shaws QC,
Chair, The British
Council,
Spring Gardens, SW1.
Letters, Evening Standard, 10dec99, p28
I have requested
information as to what is the purpose of the British Council. We are in deep
water here - Ed
"Law
Society officer could face more claims of bullying
- Frances Gibb,
Times, 21dec99, p4
"Between 15 and 20
allegations of bullying or harassment have been made against Kemlesh Bahl, the
vice-president of the Law Society.
.... [but] four black organisations pledged their support for Ms Bahl, who is
facing an official inquiry. .... due to examine two allegations pf harassment
.... One involves a senior official at the Law
Society and the other a former Law
Society employee. .... In a separate move, a former senior employee
of the Equal Opportunities Commission
.... also accused Ms Bahl of intimidation when she was chairman of the Commission - before [joining the] Law Society ....
Ms Bahl is due to become
the first woman and the first black President of the 250-year-old society in
July."
Conundrum
Your item on the Prime
Minister's paternity leave failed to point out that MPs, unlike the rest of us,
get paid if they take it. Therefore Tony Blair is entitled to claim almost
£1,000 per week for the first three weeks after his child is born. We would
encourage Mr Blair to take as much leave as he can fit into his busy schedule -
a few days, at least, of bonding with his new child (and support for his wife)
are essential, and the country is unlikely to grind to a halt in his absence.
The real question is, will he have the gall to take the money?
Richard Gregory, Editor of
Mackenzie, FNF, letter in the Evening Standard, 10dec99, p28
Spot the message(s) - Ed
The
Truth behind Domestic Violence
Summary of a talk given to
members of ManKind in Taunton by
the specialist on domestic violence, Erin Pizzey. Det. Sergeant Steve Mackay
and Inspector Mike Vince were present. None of the other Domestic Violence
units in Somerset who were invited, attended.
Origins
of her refuge -
she joined a women's collective in the hope of joining that she thought would
be a young mother's community centre. It turned out to be a feminist cell where
she was informed that men were the enemy and all mothers were oppressed. Her
protectations at this were met by being described as a revisionist and being
thrown out. At this point they had no agenda and no funding.
The
Chiswick Refuge -
she started this as a community centre but it repidly turned into a refuge as
battered women came seeking help. It was not long before the following facotrs
emerged:
<>Most of the
violent men were those with criminal records.
<>Of the first 100
women, 38 were genuine cases and 62 of the women were as violent if not more
violent than their husbands - the real victims were the men. In one instance
when she asked a woman why her husband had blacked her eye, she replied "because I stabbed him, but you are not supposed to
ask that."
<>The Feminist
movement had found their cause and a means of fund raising and despite Erin's
protestations that it was a two-way affair, nobody listened to her.
<>The real victims
were the children because neither men nor women were treated for their violent
behaviour and children stemming from such a relationship often repeated the
violence whether they were male or female.
<>Men's violence was
usually reactive, whereas women's was premeditated.
Gender
issue - DV has now
become a gender issue rather than a people issue and whilst society if
comfortable with men being violent and being locked up, it has difficulty in
accepting that women are equally violent.
Mediation should be the order
of the day with Courts being used to rubber stamp the ensuing solution rather
than deal with it, as many of the Government Agencies (Probation Service and
Social Services) were politically mnotivated and would invariably rule in
favour of the mother regardless of the safety of the children.
Home Office Guidelines to
the Police - the current guidlines (1990) continuously describe the man as the
perpetrator and the woman as the victim. In 1996 the British Crime Survey
stated that 4.2% of both men and women suffered from Domestic Violence,
however, the guidelines remain unchanged. Erin stated that the Police were in
the middle of a political battle and as such it was easier to take a man down
to the station than a woman. In response, the policemen present zassured
everyone that in the event of a man being injured, that they would arrest the
woman. They did acknowledge that whilst they could refer a woman to a refuge,
there was nothing that they could
offer a man. This would probably explain why they had recently received only 4
DV calls from men and 67 from women.
Local
Complaints - we
entered into the experiences of our groups.
<>Bristol - a member was threatened with a
cricket bat by his ex-wife who then proceeded to break his window in. He had a
witness plus his daughter who was sat the other side of the glass.When the PC
and WPC arrived they refused to believe him, accusing him of doing it himself
as his wife had a witness who saw him do it. The witness turned out to be
non-existent. To add insult to injury the PC said that she was entitled to do
it as it was still her house and the WPC said that they would not dream of
arresting a pregnant woman (she was 4 months pregnant). It required an official
complaint to get them moving.
<>Yeovil - meanwhile
in Yeovil, a man who was legitimately trying to see his children had an
argument with his wife in the street. One call from her prompted an immediate
caution from the police. Later, he had the cheek to put his foot in the door
when he was trying to collect the children and another call for help prompted
yet another caution. She then cancelled a weekend pick-up from the school but
told the children he would be there. In order to avoid problems he visited her
place of work to try and understand her intentions and left promptluy when
asked. On our advice he went to pick his children up (despite her telling him
not to) asking the police to accompany him in case of trouble. They were too
busy - on arriving at school the mother was not there - she had put him in a
catch 22 situation. Turn up and risk confrontation, don't turn up and risk
no-one being there for the children. You do not have to ask - the police gave
him another caution for going to her place of work.
<>Taunton - meanwhile
a man in Taunton who still occupied the house allowed his ex-wife to visit the
house to pick up some items. She requested a police escort and was given one.
Later the situation was reversed and he requested a police escort and was
denied one as they were too busy. On reaching his house she had locked the
garage
p6
holding his posessions and
would not unlock it. He used minimal force to open it and one call from his
ex-wife reesulted in three squad
cars arriving to bundle him away.
.... on asking the
policemen present for their advice, .... They made it clear to all those
present that men would have to start complaining if they did not receive fair
treatment and that in the case of domestic violence, although they could offer
nothing, men should still inform the police.
Erin concluded that she
felt that the meeting had been very positive, which no whinging and sensed that
the group was actively trying to solve probmems. She was especially pleased to
see the police present and had great respect for them.
Erin Pizzey was thanked
for her contribution along with Inspector Mike Vince and Detective Sergeant
Steve Mackay for attending our meeting.
ManKind
nationwide
West Midlands (plus
Staffs, Shrops, Worcs., Hereford) 01922 442442
East Midlands (Derby,
Notts, Leics, Warwicks, Northants) 0116 264031
Northern England (Cumbria,
Northumberland, Durham, Tyne & Wear) 01912 274330
Eastern England (Lincs,
Rutland, Cambs, Norfolk, Suffold) 01522 526028
South-East (Berks, Hants,
IOW, Surrey, Sussex, Kent) 01483 767314
London 0181 9488797
South-West (Somerset, Devon,
Bristol, Cornwall, Dorset, Wilts, Glos) 01643 863352
North-West, North-East and
Home Counties - we need organisers. Tel
01643 862289
Conference on 7/8jan00.
All Regional Organisers will be meeting at our regional HQ in the south-west to
plan our campaigns for the year 2000. Subjects include Probation Service; DV;
Men's Health; Lord Woolf's initiative on rights of both parents to see their
children.
It is vital that you
become involved with your appropriate group - Stephen Fitzgerald (National
Organiser - ManKind)
July 22, 1999
To: Her Majesty the Queen
Buckingham Palace
London, England SW1A 1AA
Your Majesty
Before I begin my letter
of concern, let me say, "Long live the Queen", "Long live the
Queen Mother," and "Long live the Royal Family."
I am an 84-year-old
veteran of the Second World War who served in the war effort as a member of the
British Royal Marines on duty in Great Britain. In recognition of my service
during the bombing of London I received a citation from the Lord Mayor of London. After the war in 1955, I moved to Canada
where I currently reside.
As a defender of democracy
and freedom for Great Britain and a loyal supporter of the Monarchy, I am
asking for your Majesty's help in my last, yet most difficult battle of my
life. I am turning to you for help, your Majesty, for although I am an old
solder who is strong in spirit and mind, I must admit that I am too old in body
to fight alone in battle any longer. My comrades who served with me to defend
England and to fight for democracy and freedom are no longer here on this earth
to help me during my time of need. Like a wounded solder, I am turning to my
most Noble Leader for help and reassurance in my final battle.
The help that I so humbly
ask for is not for myself but for the many children and their families who
lives are being torn asunder by a Family Justice System in Canada that has no
mercy on children or their parents, especially good loving fathers. Many of the fathers being destroyed today by
Canada's Family Justice System are the sons and grandsons of the many brave men
who fought and died for Great Britain and its allies during the war. Many of the fathers who died did so for the
cause of Democracy, Freedom and a desire to give their descendants a better way
of life. Yet, if my comrades were alive
today, they would be utterly shattered by what they would see is being done by
the Justice System to their children and grandchildren today. None of us who were part of the war effort
would have imagined the sons and grandsons of those who fought in the war to be
victims of injustices of a system of government they defended.
During the war, I defended
the cause of freedom and democracy, but in this, my last battle, I fight for
the cause of justice for children and families. It is a fight that many of the
fallen comrades of Great Britain would gladly fight alongside of me if they
were alive today.
I have enclosed with this
letter a package of materials being produced by many ordinary, hard working
Canadians. These materials expose only some of the injustices being perpetrated
against children and families by lawyers and a powerful legal system supposedly
in the name of Justice. Unfortunately,
those entrusted by the people for the administration of Justice in Canada have
allowed the family justice system to deteriorate to a point where it is a
disgrace to all those who believe in Justice and Freedom. Many of those who
administer the laws and many of those who misuse the laws are literally ripping
families apart under the shady veil of the law.
I have learned that some
members of the Royal Family are Honorary Members of the Law Society of Upper
Canada. I find it unfortunate that the reputation and good names of members of
the Royal family are being used to bring credibility to a lawyer's organization
whose reputation has come into such disrepute and whose members are adversely
affecting the lives of many children and families. I believe that these
injustices would be of great concern to members of the Royal Family whose names
are being associated with these lawyers.
I believe that members of the Royal family are unaware of the actions of
some of those who they are associated with at the Law Society. It may be very likely that my letter will be
one of the first to bring this situation into the open. I am sure that other people, like myself,
will be scrutinizing the conduct of Law Society members and looking as well at
what those who lend their names to these organizations do to maintain the respectability
of the organizations to which they are a part.
I understand that it may
not be desirable for the Royal Family to interfere with the internal affairs of
Canada but the interests of children should have no boundaries. The children of
Canada need your help, your Majesty. You, and only you, can do something for
the children of Canada that no other person can do.
The injustices being waged
against children and their families by the bureaucrats and members of the Law
Society cannot be fought with the weapons of war but only with the weapons of
words from those with wisdom and respect. The influence of Your Majesty and
members of the Royal Family can correct injustice in a way that no government
can do. If there were ever a time for
your Majesty and the Royal Family to direct its wisdom and influence in a
meaningful way towards a good and honourable cause, then this would be a time
to do so. I humbly request that the
Royal Family speak out and to set right the course of justice for children. Many lawyers and others within the legal
system are literally destroying children and families while they claim support
from the Royal Family for their organizations. I am sure, Your Majesty, The
Royal Family never intended the principles of laws to be used in this manner.
I humbly request Your
Majesty, that should you be so kind as to write a letter as a token of your
concern, voicing the peoples concern to the Prime Minister of Canada, the Rt.
Honourable Mr. Chretien, which I hope he will circulate in the right areas,
that much will be achieved in correcting the injustices. This would be greatly
appreciated by many, many families, and myself affected by the judicial
situation.
Your Majesty, should you
accede to my request, you will make many, many Canadian families happy to know
that their most Noble Queen greatly cares for her subjects.
Your loyal subject Maurice
Conway (d.o.b. Dec. 26, 1914)
From
'The Thoughts of Chairman Greer'
"There is no race on
earth more barbaric than we, no race on earth more misognyistic."
- Germaine Greer,
Evening Standard, 10dec99,
p31.
Email
received by Ivor Catt on 16nov99
Butler-Sloss's attack on the family, see next article, is echoed in
Canada. The timing is not coincidental. - Ed
p7
".... Recently, Madame
Justice Claire L'Heureux-Dube delivered the keynote speech at the law school of
Queen's University. According to the Kingston Whig-Standard, in her address,
the Supreme Court Justice said it's time for the law to look beyond traditional
relationships of men and women, and start extending equality to partners of all
types who live together. The failure to do so may be doing violence to the
fabric of our society, she said.
" 'Legal scholars say the issue will be the next frontier in
Canada's courts,' says the Whig-Standard, reporting on a conference of
academics, lawyers and government officials. The conference was co-sponsored by
the university and the Law Commission of Canada, a radical body created in the
Trudeau years; it was formerly headed by Antonio Lamer, who later became Chief
Justice of the Supreme Court, a position in which he was able to push ideas
which his Law Commission had been unable to sell to elected legislators.
" 'Why does the law distinguish between partnerships?"
L'Heureux-Dube asked in her speech at Queen's. "Why must it value some
relationships and reject others?'"
Children
are the Gays' gravy train
The courts have now ruled
that homosexual couples are a family. Dame Elizabeth Butler-Sloss publicises
the view that the secret Family Court system thinks that homosexuals should be allowed complete their family by adopting children. The following are
some figures which compare state help to
gay couples with state help to heterosexual couples.
Case
One:
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(6-yr.) living with them. Suppose they are unemployed, and they draw
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TOTAL PROVIDED BY STATE
FOR NON-HOMOSEXUAL COUPLE
£105.55
In other words: New Labour
(heavily dominated by lawyers) gives unemployed homosexuals an extra £ 22.15 per week.
Case
Two:
Two gays or lesbians have
a child (6 yr.) living with them. Suppose one of them works and earns £220 and
the other is unemployed to look after the child.
The one who does not work
is able to claim Income Support (£51.40) plus money for the child (£24.90). On
top the one who looks after the child would be able to claim housing benefit
(up to £ 100 pw).
Heterosexual men and women
who are married or living together as husband and wife are treated as a couple.
When one of them works and earns £220 the other gets NOTHING as income support,
NOTHING EXTRA for the child NOTHING extra for the housing.
Thus the TOTAL PROVIDED BY
STATE FOR HOMOSEXUAL COUPLE £176.30 cf nothing for heterosexual couple.
Conclusion: New Labour Government (more than a quarter
of which is homosexual or lawyer or both) offers homosexuals an extra £176.30
per week (£8,996 p.a.) as an incentive to "complete their family"
when one of them works. Chris Smith has to get hold of a child a.s.a.p.
Gay, and
sad
The Lewisham social
services appear to have taken leave of their senses. Dismayed that a
two-year-old boy has been sharing a room with an older boy, they have planned
his removal from his foster parents, the one home that he has known all his
life, and will be handing him to a homosexual couple with the aim of adoption.
There is no suggestion that the boy had been maltreated. From what we know, he
was well attached to his foster mother, father and siblings. It was simply
enough that he was sharing a room, however innocently, with an older boy. When The Daily Telegraph contacted Lewisham for
its comments, its immediate reaction was to threaten an injunction. Repeated
assurances to its legal department that the paper had no intention whatsoever
of identifying the boy or his foster family fell on deaf ears. By 8pm it was
attempting to persuade Mr Justice Wall to prevent publication of the story.
Whether or not the social
services are justified in presuming that sexual abuse is rife in foster homes,
this is not alleged in this case, and it is surely peculiar that they should
seek a homosexual couple for remedy. Only married couples are allowed to adopt.
There is no provision under English law for cohabiting men to adopt jointly.
When it occurs, it is surreptitious. Only one of the men is listed as the
official parent, so that the adoption can be falsely categorised as a
single-father case. The courts are now acquiescing in this ruse. Dame Elizabeth
Butler-Sloss,. President of the High Court's Family Division, appeared to
endorse it last month when she praised the "increasing number of cases
where a child is cared for by parents of the same sex". The law has been
stretched beyond the intent of Parliament by judicial activists with an
ideological agenda.
Indeed, the law hardly
seems to count when it conflicts with homosexual activists' demands for further
privileges. London health authorities are violating Section 28 of the Local
Government Act by offering a guide to the etiquette of "cruising and
cottaging" - encouraging homosexual acts with strangers in public
lavatories. The Prison Service is being stymied in its efforts to enforce its
ban on homosexual activity because a judge has ruled that prison officers must
provide condoms to gay prisoners.
One might be forgiven for
thinking that the law treats homosexuality as a "normal" and
"valid" alternative to heterosexuality. It does not. The 1967 Sexual
Offences Act, which offered a defence for the practice, none the less did not legalise
it. For the militant homosexual groups, however, tolerance is not enough. They
demand active approval and insist on debilitating the institution of marriage
in their fury to break down all barriers. What is reprehensible is that so much
of Labour's governing class is willing to play along. - Editorial, 13nov99
[One thing to notice is
the linking of homosexuals with attack on the family with Labour govt. This
points to an alliance between homosexuals and anti-family radical feminists,
both of whom are heavily represented in Vanity Blair's Cabinet.]
Secret
in the interests of whom?
"Charles Moore, the
editor of The Daily Telegraph,
said: 'We welcome the judge's refusal to impose an injunction on us and do not
understand Lewisham council's attempts to obstruct a proper resolution of the
issue. While we absolutely agree with, and insist on, the need to handle
stories of this nature sensitively, it is imperative that local authorities and
others [judges? - Ed] should not be able to avoid public scrutiny by sheltering
behind laws designed to protect children.'" - 13nov99, p7
Butler-Sloss
defies the law
The
Judgement of Solomon
[1994] 1 FLR 669
A v A (MINORS) (SHARED RESIDENCE ORDER)
Court of Appeal
Butler-Sloss LJ and Connel J
3 February 1994
The above Judgement is on
the Internet.
This judgement
demonstrates that, using the mantra "The interests of the child comes
first", our judges will ignore legislation, including the Children Act
1989, and any further legislation on family matters passed during the next
fifteen years. Once the Silly-Sloss's verbiage is stripped away, it is a clear
declaration of defiance of Parliament, and a declaration of the supremacy of
judges, to do with our children as the ignorant whim takes them. For full
analysis, see my article in a future issue of Male View, or send me £1 in
stamps for a copy of both judgement and article, or see my website - Ed
Homosexuality
and Suicide
The Daily Telegraph of 7dec99, p8, includes an assertion by junior
p8
environment minister Lord Whitty that Section 28 of the Local
Government Act, preventing councils from promoting homosexuality, was
"pernicious" and harmful to children. .... One young homosexual in
five would harm themselves or attempt suicide, Lord Whitty told peers.
Whitty has got it back to
front. He needs to be told that adult homosexuals attempt suicide six times
more often than normal men [Male View, jan99, p20]. This in spite of the fact
that their chance of promotion, for instance into the cabinet, is far greater.
Here we have the
ultimately confused, dangerous minister. Homosexuals are deeply disturbed
people. 30% of members of alcoholics anonymous are homosexual. Their
expectation of life is terrifyingly low, 30 years less. The idea that
encouraging young men into that lifestyle will save lives is the ultimate
absurdity.
Britain's
institutions acquiesce in face of Gay lobby
Some of our respected national organisations are
frighteningly ambivalent towards Politically Correct positions when tackling
the issue of homosexuality and children.
They include; The General
Council of the British Medical Council; the Health Education Authority; The
Royal College of Psychiatrists.
Gay
Rights and the Family
- Melanie Phillips,
Sunday Times, sect. 1 p13,
26dec99
".... the gay rights campaign
aims not to protect homosexuals but to destroy the traditional family."
Parentectomy
email
recd 4nov99
To All;
.... I think that the
bonehead label isn't very useful either.
In my opinion, what we are dealing with is people who are afflicted with
PTSD, (post-traumatic stress disorder).
Having your children taken
away from you is more than merely traumatic, it may be the most traumatic event
one could ever experience. Here are three of the many reasons why this is
so........
1) The situation represents
"ambiguous loss", so one is not in any way free to mourn, as in a
death of a child situation. (Some author has written a brilliant book on
ambiguous loss). It's sort of like the type of loss where you keep on losing
and get no resolution.
2) This type of loss is
personal, yet the victim appears visibly intact, so the social empathy received
is far less than proportional to the extent the injuries deserve. If one were
to lose a limb, for example, one's social experience would include an
invaluable empathy component which would facilitate personal healing. In the
case of child seizure, empathy is not only appallingly inadequate but many
people even suggest to the victim that HE IS NOT INJURED, or that the injury is
minimal. This "anti-empathy" is a very large part of why the PTSD
from this type of trauma becomes so severe, catapulting its victims into near
insanity.
3) This injury is
sanctioned by and often administered by the government itself. This places the
injury in the same class as any other government-sanctioned violence at any
time in human history. Most individuals, from a very young age, possess at
least some notion that the function of government is to assist them somehow or
offer them some form of protection. When it is demonstrated that the opposite
is the case, it turns one's perceptual apparatus upside down, especially in
cases where the victim was formerly some sort of an ardent or active supporter
of government.
I applaud the strength of
individuals who have suffered child-seizure trauma and continue to wake up each
morning and face a new day. It is a testimony to the courage, strength,
resilience and abundant inner resources of multitudes of victims, mostly men,
and some women, that there are not daily a great many homicide sprees and suicides
in response to the stress caused by child-seizure trauma. This situation is a
psychological time-bomb, my friends, and hyperbolic talk is the least of our
worries. Strength and patience to us all..............Allan.
Punished
for being a man
Daily
Telegraph,
13nov99, p5 and p15.
1. p5 [3 months for
harassment plus 21 months for being a man. - Ed]
"A barrister obsessed
with a woman lawyer was jailed for two years for defying court orders to stop
harassing her.
".... the pair met at
the Bar and embarked on an affair ....
"When she [ended] the
affair .... Webster could not accept it. .... He warned her .... he would ruin
her career .... He sent her letters .... He called her on the telephone. ....
He .... attempted suicide ...." - p5
2. p15 "A jealous policewoman
who .... [tracked] down her love rival, and then threatened .... to stab her
and to .... plant drugs on her .... was jailed .... for three months.
"The .... magistrate
added: 'I have found little evidence of remorse ....'"
Those
who sow the wind and reap the whirlwind
Scurrilous stories are
circulating about Esther Ranzen's and Desmond Wilcox's daughters. It is being
suggested that one's m.e. and the other's bulimia was caused by family sexual
abuse.
These rumours are probably
the work of one of Ranzen's rivals in the sexual abuse lobby.
It looks as though the
monster Esther helped to create is now threatening her own family.
- reported by
AAFAA, 01635 202433
Children
Sold Short - again ?
Some of the prestigious children's
charities that tacitly support lowering the age of consent for homosexuality.
1/. NSPCC
2/. Barbados
3/. Save the Children.
Puffs
from the BMA
The General Council of the
British Medical Assoc. is quoted as
stating that: "There is no
convincing medical reason against reducing the age of consent for male
homosexuals to 16 and to do so may yield positive health benefits".
We can see that reducing the age of consent from 18 to 16
will have little or no effect on the shortened life span (to 42 years) of the
average homosexual. But we are at a loss to explain what positive health
benefits it could possibly yield. All suggestions to the Editor, please.
Male
driving worsens to confirm that only women should drive
"Crash
Driver 'had cat on head'
"A driver had a cat
sitting on his head when he crashed after failing to stop at a roundabout, a
court heard yesterday. A woman driving behind David Levy said she saw a black
cat sitting on his bald head when the accident happened ... 'I thought the cat
was a toy, but then I saw it sit on his head.'
"Levy, 65, appealing
against a careless driving conviction, .... denied that one was on his head.
His appeal was rejected." - Daily
Telegraph, 13nov99, p2.
[No one should lie about use of a cat. Although they get lost more
often, women drivers never use a cat guide. - Ed]